Signs a Virgo Man Might Be Interested?

Hey Virgos. I haven't been in these parts in a while. Also, happy (belated or future) birthday to all of you! I'm sure this question is cliche, but for what it's worth, I did try searching the topic title with "dxpnet" in Google before I asked.

We have a class together at university. We have a really bubbly history professor and he said we both emailed him about an alternate extra study session with him, and to get together and discuss a new time. The conversation was brief because he had to leave, but me and some other students who came forward after class picked a new time. I messaged him on Facebook letting him know what time we picked, and he said it was fine, and by the way, he didn't have anything in particular he wanted to discuss with him but just wanted to talk to the professor and get to know him better, and that he was worried (because Virgo, just kidding) because if I had any legitimate questions to ask, I should totally go for it since he wouldn't be asking anything worthwhile. I told him the professor is cool, and got a one-word response that time, so I quickly exited his inbox and let it be.

This past Saturday, I post a review of a new rap album on Facebook, and to my surprise, he comments with feedback. We kinda chat about missing the artist's concert for history homework, and I decided to start a conversation with him on messaging about rap music, taking him commenting back and forth with me a little as initiating a conversation. We chit-chat a little about how intimidating the class is, and he asks me, "Do you wanna try studying together sometime for the class? I'm not sure how we could but I'm not sure if I wanna try tackling that class alone" I say sure, of course we could work something out, and we continue talking about our mutual love for rap music. He told me at one point that he doesn't know a lot of people who listen to rap music so it's really cool.

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He also said it was cool that I could dig other styles of music as well. He asks me if I like other genres of music like trap music or older rap music, etc. I mention later if Facebook isn't convenient for him that we could text, and he gave me his number. We continue to keep going on and on about rap music, and then he said he had to leave to take care of some things (I'm assuming homework here). He said, "As much as I'd love to talk more hip-hop with you, I can't. Is there anyway I can talk with you in person about it because I feel like I could get more out instead of typing because texting is not as an immediate process as talking is?" I say sure, of course, and we set for Monday.

Monday comes around and he needs to bail to work on a group project for an engineering class he's in. I say sure, no biggie, let's reschedule. We set for Tuesday. Tuesday rolls around, and I have to bail. It's fine, and I tell him I'm more free at the end of the week, and leave it at that. He texted me last night and asked would I be free to hang out after the extra study session we had today. I told him no, I had to go to my lab today for work, and was he free for lunch today. He said yes, we set a time. We meet up and go to lunch. We talk more and more rap music, fashion, a little bit of religion. He's mostly asking me questions, seems like he's prepared with a list in some ways! I'm doing a lot of the talking, and he's listening, making some sarcastic remarks, with me occasionally high-fiving him when we have the same reactions. I remind him to check the time since I know he has class, and he stays until 15 minutes before class to keep chatting. We leave the restaurant, I realize I forgot something, but I told him I would text him. I did, and I haven't heard back from him yet.

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From what I understand, time with Virgos is precious, and compliments are golden?

I deeply apologize for bothering you guys if it's obvious or if I'm the over-thinker here, but is there a chance this Virgo guy is at least interested in getting to know me more, or am I reading this totally wrong and this is platonic?

Any and all feedback appreciated.

Posted by VirgoFlirt


when you keep telling him look what time it is your telling him a bad thing..like im not digging you.

I only mentioned it once. When we agreed to meet up for lunch, he said he had a class at 2:30 so the location we picked on campus was good. I did notice he acted a little uncomfortable, but I was worried this was a friendly meetup, and staying to talk more wouldn't be worth skipping class for. I also didn't want him to resent me or become upset with me for distracting him. I thought Virgos were very driven and goal-oriented.

But if that alone was a no-no, how can I backtrack to fix that?

Thank you for your input!

We've been texting some since, although we haven't talked today. As a Scorpio, the speed throws me off a bit. I'm used to lightning-quick flashy trysts, not a slow buildup. But I think I hate the slow buildups because I'm fearful of being disappointed by an unrequited crush. When we have texted, he has apologized for being busy/a bad texter/distracted. Our conversations are still him asking me questions and me talking, and I asked him how he was doing once because I'd been talking a lot about myself. He said he's not nearly as interesting as me, and then continued the conversation. That night we texted until I fell asleep around 1:30AM.

This past Friday, I walked with him to his next class, and I mentioned how I was going to lab (I'm helping research Alzheimer's disease) and then going to the food bank, and he jokingly (?) said I was making him feel bad because I was out there saving the world and he was just studying and working on school. I laughed it off and told him not to feel bad. I asked him if he wanted to get lunch, and he said he had plans, but to text him when I could, leading to the paragraph prior to this message.

He hasn't texted me today, but I left him a funny video on his Facebook wall and a reference to rap music, and he responded to my reference with another reference (today is his birthday).