Struggling

I'm a Leo woman that has strong feelings for a Virgo woman.

We used to work together and prior to us parting ways, she knew I had feelings for her other than platonic. We still keep in contact and see each other from time to time. She was never the type to express feelings, but showed/shows she cares in her own way. Prior to me leaving the job, from time to time we would play a game, "DJ". So I would be listening to music and randomly ask her to give me a song to listen to. Lately, once asked the songs she provides me w/ all seem to hint to "In My Head" by Steve James "Can't Fight It" by Quintino, "Something Just Like This" by the Chainsmokers, etc. Conincidence?

Aside from this, when she received confirmation of my feelings for her, she didn't want me to express too much, but then later in the conversation, after a few drinks, told me that she was very curious.

At this point, I communicated to her that I would be moving out of state soon and I feel as though our communication has shifted since. I recently found out the move will not be happening for me after all, but she does not know that because of the lack of communication right now. The problem of the whole situation is that she is married. Married to a man. I have never made advances towards in respect for her marriage, but truth be told I have a rare connection with her (very hard to come by for me in general). I don't fall easily for people and hate the fact that it is w/ someone that is married. I have tried distancing myself from her more the separation of work environment, but I cannot let go of her completely (in heart).

Can someone help me understand this Virgo woman a little?

Posted by LeoLady813

The problem of the whole situation is that she is married. Married to a man. I have never made advances towards in respect for her marriage, but truth be told I have a rare connection with her (very hard to come by for me in general). I don't fall easily for people and hate the fact that it is w/ someone that is married. I have tried distancing myself from her more the separation of work environment, but I cannot let go of her completely (in heart).

Can someone help me understand this Virgo woman a little?

You condone cheating, and have no qualms in disrespecting a partnership developed between two people.

you don't deserve help .. you deserve to be trashed

And the Virgo woman doesn't matter, so long as you have no consideration, you will step in this same pile of shit for life.

My positive thoughts and energy are on the couple, in that they have the resolve and love for each other to step the fuck away from someone like you.

p-angel is married to a virgo and would be devastated if a woman tried to come in between them hence the strong reaction.

But she is right you shouldn't go after someone who is married...you should stop right there.

Think best thing is not to learn about HER but about yourself. She is "curious" meaning she isn't who you want her to be. Best you find someone you should love and be in a relationship with. And yes, unless she has said she is getting a divorce, you shouldnt meddle in someone else's marriage.