Hi everyone I am very new to this so I am sorry for not being so detailed on my signs and planets. I am cancer woman July 7th is my birthday. I met a Virgo man (his birthday Sept 3rd) through the internet and it took us a whole month to meet. but once we met we have not stop seeing each other. we have been seeing each other for 1 month which makes it 2 months that we have been speaking. He has just gotten out of a long term relationship and I have not been in a relationship for years so we are both pretty guarded but I have given him my trust (not fully) but I am trying to open up to him. He also seems like he's opening up.
I feel like we are moving too fast but also moving slow? its hard to explain. first time we met he was buzzing and we had sex. so at first I thought it was just sex especially since the second time we met he came over my place and we were talking about deep stuff, mainly about him. I think it freaked him out and he stepped out for some air but then did come back. he texted me saying he left, I thought that was it then he got what he wanted then he left. but I had texted him a couple of days after and we hooked up again that weekend. since then we have been seeing each other almost daily. at first he told me he didn't like me but just the other day he said he's starting to care. I feel like he always wants me around but doesn't say it.
then last night he completely crushed me. he texted me commenting how I didn't clean his room and all his exes cleaned his room with out him asking. yes he is a messing Virgo which I find odd since I hear that they are very clean, my dad is a Virgo and he was fairly clean. so I'm confused he is comparing me to his exes? we are not even in a relationship? I am Mexican so I am rather feisty and its taking a lot of me not to go off on him. I asked him if he was missing his ex and that I am not a commitment to him and if he did not want me he can leave me. he has not taken me out to a proper date, he takes me partying with his friends. then keeps me in his room when I am completely exhausted from the life style he has. he has a new born with his ex and has a lot of personal problems that he has opened up to me about. I like him and I want to work it out but I feel like he is trying to mentally break me down. should I run?
sorry for this being so long but please help with some advice.
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