taurus boy virgo girl - please some insight?

hi all
thanks for all the insight , is helpful. i know starsigns are but a part of thing s but still very cool.
ok so been about 5 weeks, been so unstable, 1st time i slept with her she said look before we do this can we just make this bit a fun and just for tonight. was bit insulted rolled over, er then back over, well she was fit. second date, she said she not sure so i all cool told her just post my watch back in post to me. being cool!! so yep she decides to go club with me.. and again is ok if it just for tonight? i fall for it. but then in morning takes me to salon to watch her getting her toenails done.repeat repeat, she is off key, talking about wanting to be in true love with someone, as she never has been , and then back to just wanting something casual. i am chill and just happy to hang out and fuck, but keep feeling a little bit undervalued. i not bothered as her body is telling me one thing but her mind another. am bit confused. we became friends for last week, so i found wicked porn on computer and told her to come over, with some sweet words...coming round tomorrow. she so hot. and really nice.but god i usually have upper hand but just being honest and kind to her. is odd went on works do last night with financial times and asked out both my bosses, one said come see me on weds and i'm going to promote you, other one said yes lets do something. not what i want but as taurus boy i really need someone to chill be nice to me otherwise i really payback by getting attention elsewhere. is odd. i want some romance and maybe she not, but she telling me she does. i am confused, i guess if you like someone this is the way.

sorry to go on... but she lovely... just so attractive to me. i nearly burnt it out other day, she took day off from work got sack, started crying - rang her agency and they bloody gave her job in same building as me, diff floor diff job but will see her all time!! was ok with it as she has bills to pay.then after morning of sex she decides maybe we not right together and again just says maybe we should finnish...then wants me to bend her over sofa and fuck her...i refused and took her out to dinner instead, good move!! then we spent evening together. dont know whether i am coming or going...i will cheat on her if she dont sort it out tho...not cool just know i will.anyway would love some insight as its not fair on me. i am taurus and have a lot of patience, i am going to just split though and pull up a wall no one can break soon.patient then it all stops and things change and a wall of steel goes up... k thanks virgo girls!!