Too Fast With A Virgo Man?

Hi. 🙂

I recently met and have been seeing a Virgo man for the first time. We had three dates in four days the first weekend (drink, then matinee/drink, then hang at his place)... There was no kissing until the third one and we made out but kept clothes on. No second base, because I was starting to really like him and held back.

Then after that weekend, I didn't see him until the next weekend. Where we went on a quick hike, and went our separate ways. Another week went by, where I popped by his house with some healthy cookies I had made and we visited quickly (had been texting a bit during these weeks, he didn't totally hide away)...

And then finally last night we kind of met up later after we had had our separate dinner plans. I went over there, it was late but he is busy, and he answered the door in his underwear and we hung out in bed for a little bit. Both exhausted from the long week, I went home.

This time, we ended up getting pretty naked. It was really hot, made out and saw some of his (Thank God! I usually date Scorpios so see this right away...) dominant side. Second/third base and it was very very good. Lots of chemistry.

So beginning to end of when we met to when it got spicy and naked (still no sex, I'm going to hold off awhile), was like three weeks, maybe two and a half...

Was that too fast to be moving with a Virgo? Had met him person four times before that. He is looking for the real thing, is over 40, seems to know what he wants. I feel like he likes me but I'm used to getting a lot of "You're so hot", "I want you", "Good morning, Beautiful" texts and whatever from the other types of men I date and this one is very different. He makes like observations of me... "You're fit." "You're a good baker." "You're tall." When he notices things. I can tell he's interested because he did that Virgo thing last night at the door when I left and told me my ass was tiny and I need to eat all my own baking (what I really need is squats and I know it, ha!)... When they comment and nitpick because they like you. So knowing that's what Virgos do when they like you, it made me smile.

Just hard to feel like someone is into you when they have full weeks of dinner plans (when he says who they are with it's always his buddy whoever), and don't specifically make time for you after that initial three-day date bender.

What should I look for? When do I know he is serious or he is over it? Was third base too much for this soon with him? (I'm a cap.)

Oh! And he also often says, "If I had a wife" this or that. Is that him dropping hints or just talking? Any insight to this odd but fascinating creature would be greatly appreciated.

One more thing... Is answering the door in his underwear (he had been in bed in a food coma, haha) a sign he is comfortable or has given up trying to impress me?

Thanks in advance!
Signed,
The Ever-Over-Analyzing Capricorn. 🙂