Up & down with a virgo man

(He has scorpio rising/aquarius moon/leo venus/Virgo mars)

We've known each other over a year and were intimate for months before I left his country.

He's been in touch almost daily, which I like and that's why we're going to "reunite" in Sept., like a holiday thing.

What bothers me the most is when he doesn't msg, my scorpio moon (or other placements) would start to think negatively, then I'd be even passive.

I've realised that I like him, and have been considering to "reveal" that to him when we meet; however, he made it clear long time ago that he valued his freedom, didn't want a girlfriend, a formal relationship wouldn't work because of the distance.

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Posted by Anihp

(He has scorpio rising/aquarius moon/leo venus/Virgo mars)

We've known each other over a year and were intimate for months before I left his country.

He's been in touch almost daily, which I like and that's why we're going to "reunite" in Sept., like a holiday thing.

What bothers me the most is when he doesn't msg, my scorpio moon (or other placements) would start to think negatively, then I'd be even passive.

I've realised that I like him, and have been considering to "reveal" that to him when we meet; however, he made it clear long time ago that he valued his freedom, didn't want a girlfriend, a formal relationship wouldn't work because of the distance.

Ok so ask him if he still feels the same ( he said that a long time ago)

Your feelings grew maybe his did too.

🤔 also if you do that u might have to be prepared to hear the ugly truth. Idk but I think if you feel that way about him you shouldn't have to settle.

Posted by Earthy

Posted by Anihp

(He has scorpio rising/aquarius moon/leo venus/Virgo mars)

We've known each other over a year and were intimate for months before I left his country.

He's been in touch almost daily, which I like and that's why we're going to "reunite" in Sept., like a holiday thing.

What bothers me the most is when he doesn't msg, my scorpio moon (or other placements) would start to think negatively, then I'd be even passive.

I've realised that I like him, and have been considering to "reveal" that to him when we meet; however, he made it clear long time ago that he valued his freedom, didn't want a girlfriend, a formal relationship wouldn't work because of the distance.

Ok so ask him if he still feels the same ( he said that a long time ago)

Your feelings grew maybe his did too.

🤔 also if you do that u might have to be prepared to hear the ugly truth. Idk but I think if you feel that way about him you shouldn't have to settle.

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We just did another now monthly video chat 😛

Yea, that's what makes me hesitant to ask, I'm the kind of person who doesn't question in the first place, AND I don't like rejections. So I'll definitely see how it goes when we meet, but it's already challenging now.

What I shouldn't have to settle?