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Virgo and jealousy 🤨
This is the start of him trying to control and isolate you, say no. That you have a life and need a social life as well. Just assure him that you are his.
Posted by saggurl88
This is the start of him trying to control and isolate you, say no. That you have a life and need a social life as well. Just assure him that you are his.
🤔🤔Say no to him??!
He's tone was definitely controlling but he's also a cry baby when it come's to accepting a No. I mean , if I say no to him he'll go hide for a week and I'll have to drop a sorry every day until then!
Is there another way?
Posted by OHNOXoxoPosted by saggurl88
This is the start of him trying to control and isolate you, say no. That you have a life and need a social life as well. Just assure him that you are his.
🤔🤔Say no to him??!
He's tone was definitely controlling but he's also a cry baby when it come's to accepting a No. I mean , if I say no to him he'll go hide for a week and I'll have to drop a sorry every day until then!
Is there another way?click to expand
Well you already know that he is trying to control you with this. All the sudden you have to get rid of your social media. smh Friends are next.
Does he have an account? Say you're jealous too and you will do it if both of you get rid of it 😄 See what he says about that.
Ewww. Noway. He'd have to get over that. That's something he should have brought up long ago. Do you take a lot of selfies?
I haven't read the whole story yet. But i liked how you inserted emojis. It comes off as cute. Idk if i am being weird lol.
Posted by saggurl88Posted by OHNOXoxoPosted by saggurl88
This is the start of him trying to control and isolate you, say no. That you have a life and need a social life as well. Just assure him that you are his.
🤔🤔Say no to him??!
He's tone was definitely controlling but he's also a cry baby when it come's to accepting a No. I mean , if I say no to him he'll go hide for a week and I'll have to drop a sorry every day until then!
Is there another way?
Well you already know that he is trying to control you with this. All the sudden you have to get rid of your social media. smh Friends are next.
Does he have an account? Say you're jealous too and you will do it if both of you get rid of it 😄 See what he says about that.
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I was shocked when he asked me to, but then i calmed down and explained to him, it's only the fun part which I follow on Facebook like memes etc. And also told him it's pretty weird for a 34 year old man to act this way. He was quite! But after couple of hour's he was again on the same topic.
Posted by SeaLion
Ewww. Noway. He'd have to get over that. That's something he should have brought up long ago. Do you take a lot of selfies?
Exactly my point!
And no I'm not a selfie queen. But he told me he doesn't like men reacting to my photo's.
Posted by Virgogirl_
I haven't read the whole story yet. But i liked how you inserted emojis. It comes off as cute. Idk if i am being weird lol.
😅😅😅😋😉
Yeah, he calls me cheeseball.
Posted by but_didyoudie
I'm a jealous cookie monster, and I'm not afraid to admit it...I will hold it in until I cannot. But may I ask what sign are you? Do you know where your Composite Venus falls between you and him?
I do think that's a little extreme, I get more jealous if they happen to give attention (any amount and any type of attention) to another, other than me. 😄 but I always thought that was the Scorp/Leo in me, not the Virgo...but then again I'm a strong Virgo 1st House. So, I don't know.
And also how would he know other men are looking at your pics? Control is coming to mind now...Virgos do like to control.
I will say however, I have noticed that if the Venus is in Scorp in the Composite chart... Jealousy will be a theme going BOTH ways. It's just the way how love is expressed... doesn't make it good or bad... it just is.
And the breakups too, can be brutal.
Well i guess that's what happened here. I remember him getting all worked up just seeing me laugh on a joke one of my male friend cracked. 🤭
I don't really know of venus or saturn and stuff. But I'm a taurus with Aries moon. And he's a virgo with leo moon! 😊
Posted by OHNOXoxoPosted by saggurl88Posted by OHNOXoxoPosted by saggurl88
This is the start of him trying to control and isolate you, say no. That you have a life and need a social life as well. Just assure him that you are his.
🤔🤔Say no to him??!
He's tone was definitely controlling but he's also a cry baby when it come's to accepting a No. I mean , if I say no to him he'll go hide for a week and I'll have to drop a sorry every day until then!
Is there another way?
Well you already know that he is trying to control you with this. All the sudden you have to get rid of your social media. smh Friends are next.
Does he have an account? Say you're jealous too and you will do it if both of you get rid of it 😄 See what he says about that.
I was shocked when he asked me to, but then i calmed down and explained to him, it's only the fun part which I follow on Facebook like memes etc. And also told him it's pretty weird for a 34 year old man to act this way. He was quite! But after couple of hour's he was again on the same topic.click to expand
This is just the beginning. He may be mad that you say no, but he will get over it. If you start with something this small, it will just get bigger because he will expect a yes with every part of your life that he is trying to control. It's up to you if you want to be treated like this. It's gonna get worse though. Pick and choose what you will say yes to.
If this is just a fun meme site then I think you should stick to your guns and leave it at that. Don't do anything about it. Be passive/ aggressive and ignore it. If he brings it up a third time then ask if both of you will shut down your pages. He won't want to shut his down.
I'm possessive but I wouldn't say jealous and I def wouldn't "make" someone get rid of their social media...cause I sure as shit ain't getting rid of mine (and I'm not even a fan of social media). If he's doing shady shit eventually it will come to light.. so why bother.
This is a major red flag...one day it's social media, next day it's friends then family etc. Hell to the fucking no!
But I have a feeling you'll do it to keep him...it already shows in the first comment where you cater to his man child ways of hearing the word no.
This is a major red flag...one day it's social media, next day it's friends then family etc. Hell to the fucking no!
But I have a feeling you'll do it to keep him...it already shows in the first comment where you cater to his man child ways of hearing the word no.
Social media is the devil.
Posted by LostinmyMind11
I'm possessive but I wouldn't say jealous and I def wouldn't "make" someone get rid of their social media...cause I sure as shit ain't getting rid of mine (and I'm not even a fan of social media). If he's doing shady shit eventually it will come to light.. so why bother.
This is a major red flag...one day it's social media, next day it's friends then family etc. Hell to the fucking no!
But I have a feeling you'll do it to keep him...it already shows in the first comment where you cater to his man child ways of hearing the word no.
"But I have a feeling you'll do it to keep him...it already shows in the first comment where you cater to his man child ways of hearing the word no. "
I think you are partially correct. I may do it! But, I'm no doormat kind of a person too. I may do it so he shuts up about it and we move on from this topic. But then again, listening to one more of his demand is like earning one more of those brownie points. Which I'll definitely use when it come's to my demand and me standing with that puppy eye's face making him do what I want! 😉😉😉
I know, sounds like a too much of a strategy! But what i have learnt so far reading, searching and being on this forum, discissing about Virgo man is, first you listen to them. And then you make them do what you want. And it actually work's. Patience is the key!
My question was, are Virgos really this jealous?? I have heard them being cranky and stuff from time to time. But being this jealous is new to me! He never before admitted to feel this way. And I used to think he may be controlling but has too much of self confidence to feel threatened by anyone. He's been that all macho man with a slight cry baby. But thats only when I don't listen.
i think you should break up with him
you seem highly bothered by it
you seem highly bothered by it
Posted by OHNOXoxoPosted by LostinmyMind11
I'm possessive but I wouldn't say jealous and I def wouldn't "make" someone get rid of their social media...cause I sure as shit ain't getting rid of mine (and I'm not even a fan of social media). If he's doing shady shit eventually it will come to light.. so why bother.
This is a major red flag...one day it's social media, next day it's friends then family etc. Hell to the fucking no!
But I have a feeling you'll do it to keep him...it already shows in the first comment where you cater to his man child ways of hearing the word no.
"But I have a feeling you'll do it to keep him...it already shows in the first comment where you cater to his man child ways of hearing the word no. "
I think you are partially correct. I may do it! But, I'm no doormat kind of a person too. I may do it so he shuts up about it and we move on from this topic. But then again, listening to one more of his demand is like earning one more of those brownie points. Which I'll definitely use when it come's to my demand and me standing with that puppy eye's face making him do what I want! 😉😉😉
I know, sounds like a too much of a strategy! But what i have learnt so far reading, searching and being on this forum, discissing about Virgo man is, first you listen to them. And then you make them do what you want. And it actually work's. Patience is the key!
My question was, are Virgos really this jealous?? I have heard them being cranky and stuff from time to time. But being this jealous is new to me! He never before admitted to feel this way. And I used to think he may be controlling but has too much of self confidence to feel threatened by anyone. He's been that all macho man with a slight cry baby. But thats only when I don't listen.click to expand
Well I'm a virgal with a leo moon, Venus and Mars. Like I said...not jealous of anyone but I am possessive lol. I would say a Virgo with a lot of scorp probably will be.. but normally jealousy isn't our thing.
Posted by virgoOPPP
i think you should break up with him
you seem highly bothered by it
Hahahaha 😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
My Goddddddddd! If only people start thinking liks this.
I was here to get few insights on Virgo and jealousy! But I'll give you an advice instead 🤗. "Calm down a bit in life". Don't jump to breaking up everything!
Posted by FknMeow
Reallllly doubt he'd request that unless youre a hoe. Virgos only ask their significant others to stop being hoes.
🤔🤔🤔🤔 But what if I'm not a hoe. What then?
Posted by emeraldgem
You know, you don't have to break up but you CAN and I would give it more time. Have you set a date? Can you push it back if so?
I guess not.. It's true its been me discussing him here since 2017. But, I was asked for marriage in june and I pushed it for September already.
Then too I had to take care of his grumpy ass. But he was sweet enough to give me this time.
So basically! All i have to do is either break up, give up on our love .. or say no to him to start a fight. Is that what you all are suggesting—?
I started this topic to understand if virgos are the jealous, scorpio kind lovers..!! And if so.. Then how do i deal with it. Not break up!
I started this topic to understand if virgos are the jealous, scorpio kind lovers..!! And if so.. Then how do i deal with it. Not break up!
Posted by MareInfamePosted by OHNOXoxoPosted by saggurl88
This is the start of him trying to control and isolate you, say no. That you have a life and need a social life as well. Just assure him that you are his.
🤔🤔Say no to him??!
He's tone was definitely controlling but he's also a cry baby when it come's to accepting a No. I mean , if I say no to him he'll go hide for a week and I'll have to drop a sorry every day until then!
Is there another way?
With Earth signs you HAVE TO SET BOUNDARIES and stick to them, no matter how much they insist. Otherwise, they’ll walk all over you and they won’t respect your opinion.
Listen to Saggulr88, she gave you very wise advice. You’ll regret it some day if you don’t.... because it will only get worse.click to expand
Im an earth sign too.
But, yes. That's helpful advice. I'm going to keep in mind. Thank you
Posted by FknMeow
Reallllly doubt he'd request that unless youre a hoe. Virgos only ask their significant others to stop being hoes.
Looool so true.
What's ya sign?
Posted by SeaLionPosted by FknMeow
Reallllly doubt he'd request that unless youre a hoe. Virgos only ask their significant others to stop being hoes.
Looool so true.click to expand
I'm the most laidback, only cares to thing's that I want and mind to my own business with as much as lesser attention that I can.
What you saying could be true. But I'm The most sincere as you could get. It could be ' him testing the water's, before he jumps' as I mentioned a cry baby.
I'm asking what's this? You guys say you not jealous! But here you are acting crazy jealous. Explain please.
Posted by MareInfamePosted by OHNOXoxoPosted by saggurl88
This is the start of him trying to control and isolate you, say no. That you have a life and need a social life as well. Just assure him that you are his.
🤔🤔Say no to him??!
He's tone was definitely controlling but he's also a cry baby when it come's to accepting a No. I mean , if I say no to him he'll go hide for a week and I'll have to drop a sorry every day until then!
Is there another way?
With Earth signs you HAVE TO SET BOUNDARIES and stick to them, no matter how much they insist. Otherwise, they’ll walk all over you and they won’t respect your opinion.
Listen to Saggulr88, she gave you very wise advice. You’ll regret it some day if you don’t.... because it will only get worse.click to expand
Thank you! This is nice of you to say! 😄
Posted by OHNOXoxo
Hellllloooooooooo Virgo!!! 😘
Hope you all doing great! If you know me, you know I have been asking about this virgo man since couple of year's now. And no i didn't give up lol. We are now engaged to be married 🤗🤗🤗🤗 But guess what!
Just few week's before our wedding my Virgo man announced He is extremely jealous when it come's to other men! And asked me to take off all my photo's from Insta and Facebook ( said he could have asked me to deactivate them, but he's being nice by asking me to only take the photo's off ) !!! I mean wtf is thissss?? I have heard so many thing's by now on this forum but what about Virgo and Jealousy??
First off I have a hard time believing you've never seen this side of him before.
I'm gonna have the unpopular opinion here:
Social media is poison to your relationship, post your pictures but keep in mind the content you're posting.
Your boyfriend sounds controlling... Again I doubt you've never experienced that side of him....& if so I'd be scared if I were you.. Keep your eyeballs open.. Lol I mean what else is he hiding / repressing.
Posted by OHNOXoxo
Hellllloooooooooo Virgo!!! 😘
Hope you all doing great! If you know me, you know I have been asking about this virgo man since couple of year's now. And no i didn't give up lol. We are now engaged to be married 🤗🤗🤗🤗 But guess what!
Just few week's before our wedding my Virgo man announced He is extremely jealous when it come's to other men! And asked me to take off all my photo's from Insta and Facebook ( said he could have asked me to deactivate them, but he's being nice by asking me to only take the photo's off ) !!! I mean wtf is thissss?? I have heard so many thing's by now on this forum but what about Virgo and Jealousy??
"Wtf is thissss??" A clear-as-hell sign, to rethink your relationship. Im'a tell you NOW, there is nothing worst than an *insecure* man/husband. Yikes! Say goodbye to your peace AND your freedom 🤦
Posted by FknMeow
Reallllly doubt he'd request that unless youre a hoe. Virgos only ask their significant others to stop being hoes.
😲😲😲
Posted by Sarapis
I've never met a virgo, male or female, who wasnt jealous (not stereotypical scorpio style jealous though, their's is a little differen). All these people saying virgos arent are full of shit. Virgos are notoriously insecure, jealousy stems from insecurity. They'll push it down for a while, but eventually they create little mechanisms to protect themselves from their own insecurities. If they like you they'll give you a list of demands, if they arent attached they'll ghost.
But is that necessarily jealousy? That's more possessiveness imo.
Being jealous is more about someone having what you wanted.... where possessiveness is more about keeping what is already yours.
There's a thin line but there is a difference.
Posted by SarapisPosted by LostinmyMind11Posted by Sarapis
I've never met a virgo, male or female, who wasnt jealous (not stereotypical scorpio style jealous though, their's is a little differen). All these people saying virgos arent are full of shit. Virgos are notoriously insecure, jealousy stems from insecurity. They'll push it down for a while, but eventually they create little mechanisms to protect themselves from their own insecurities. If they like you they'll give you a list of demands, if they arent attached they'll ghost.
But is that necessarily jealousy? That's more possessiveness imo.
Being jealous is more about someone having what you wanted.... where possessiveness is more about keeping what is already yours.
There's a thin line but there is a difference.
I think you're conflating envy and jealousy. You're right, there are some very fine nuances between the 3.click to expand
jealous of what?
virgos are insecure but not jealous
it comes from the self, not other people
Posted by SarapisPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by SarapisPosted by LostinmyMind11Posted by Sarapis
I've never met a virgo, male or female, who wasnt jealous (not stereotypical scorpio style jealous though, their's is a little differen). All these people saying virgos arent are full of shit. Virgos are notoriously insecure, jealousy stems from insecurity. They'll push it down for a while, but eventually they create little mechanisms to protect themselves from their own insecurities. If they like you they'll give you a list of demands, if they arent attached they'll ghost.
But is that necessarily jealousy? That's more possessiveness imo.
Being jealous is more about someone having what you wanted.... where possessiveness is more about keeping what is already yours.
There's a thin line but there is a difference.
I think you're conflating envy and jealousy. You're right, there are some very fine nuances between the 3.
jealous of what?
virgos are insecure but not jealous
it comes from the self, not other people
Jealousy comes from insecurity. You cant really be possessive and notorious for ghosting, now can you? Its literally an oxymoron.click to expand
yes i know jealousy stems from insecurity but that's not really the source of virgo insecurity. maybe that's your own but ours is from the fear that when some skill or attribute is necessary, we won't be able to rise up to the occasion to keep up or survive. earth is about security but it's an even bigger concern that drives virgos coz life is a continuum. being mutables it doubles in importance to us, knowing this reality.
virgos ghost/disappear and will let things and people go when they are insecure yes that's true. we may show traits of jealousy/possessiveness for a while in a relationship but at the end of the day, it's more our nature to let go/leave.
i have a long ass explanation for why i am in full support of ghosting or just letting go in general but that is for another thread.
Posted by SarapisPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by SarapisPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by SarapisPosted by LostinmyMind11Posted by Sarapis
I've never met a virgo, male or female, who wasnt jealous (not stereotypical scorpio style jealous though, their's is a little differen). All these people saying virgos arent are full of shit. Virgos are notoriously insecure, jealousy stems from insecurity. They'll push it down for a while, but eventually they create little mechanisms to protect themselves from their own insecurities. If they like you they'll give you a list of demands, if they arent attached they'll ghost.
But is that necessarily jealousy? That's more possessiveness imo.
Being jealous is more about someone having what you wanted.... where possessiveness is more about keeping what is already yours.
There's a thin line but there is a difference.
I think you're conflating envy and jealousy. You're right, there are some very fine nuances between the 3.
jealous of what?
virgos are insecure but not jealous
it comes from the self, not other people
Jealousy comes from insecurity. You cant really be possessive and notorious for ghosting, now can you? Its literally an oxymoron.
yes i know jealousy stems from insecurity but that's not really the source of virgo insecurity. maybe that's your own but ours is from the fear that when some skill or attribute is necessary, we won't be able to rise up to the occasion to keep up or survive. earth is about security but it's an even bigger concern that drives virgos coz life is a continuum. being mutables it doubles in importance to us, knowing this reality.
virgos ghost/disappear and will let things and people go when they are insecure yes that's true. we may show traits of jealousy/possessiveness for a while in a relationship but at the end of the day, it's more our nature to let go/leave.
i have a long ass explanation for why i am in full support of ghosting or just letting go in general but that is for another thread.
Jealousy doesnt cause insecurities. Insecurities lead to jealousy... virgos, by their very archetype would be predisposed to jealousy. And I've seen it personally numerous times over the years, and have my occasional brushes with it currently.
I think its actually deeper than that. I know most of you guys have your Leo bits, but you're not completely about yourselves. That said, why do you think those skills are the root of your insecurities? What good are skills if they arent in services of another? Virgos want to be needed, to be of service... with those skills... it also ties into their deep need to be right...
Dont take this as a bad thing. People are people, every single person has or will feel jealous. Weren't you jealous when the cancer dude was talking about his arranged marriage? Or when the scorpio was on tinder laying next to you?click to expand
i said it stems from insecurity but whatever. virgos are self-absorbed people but not in the way Leos are. it's just that we focus a lot on everything that has to do with the avenues of our lives and every extension of ourselves and how to improve all those instead of trying to get an audience to watch our performance. our greatest critic is ourselves. i agree with the need to serve and to be right though. yes and yes to the last questions but i didn't hold on to them too long (btw the cancer is not arranged but idk anymore i've given up). in the back of my mind, i can always lose them anyway. that's what i mean by insecurity. you probably have a more grounded, better ego than most virgos. but that's not saying much.
@Sarapis what i meant is that even when it comes from insecurity, ours rarely crosses over into possessiveness even when it blossoms into jealousy which effectively does not manifest into anything worth anything haha. but that's not the important part. what i'm trying to talk about is the root of the insecurity which people with more secured egos can't possibly comprehend.
Posted by OHNOXoxo
Hellllloooooooooo Virgo!!! 😘
Hope you all doing great! If you know me, you know I have been asking about this virgo man since couple of year's now. And no i didn't give up lol. We are now engaged to be married 🤗🤗🤗🤗 But guess what!
Just few week's before our wedding my Virgo man announced He is extremely jealous when it come's to other men! And asked me to take off all my photo's from Insta and Facebook ( said he could have asked me to deactivate them, but he's being nice by asking me to only take the photo's off ) !!! I mean wtf is thissss?? I have heard so many thing's by now on this forum but what about Virgo and Jealousy??
I have been trying to get back on track with a virgo guy and this story makes me realize how much I don't want that no more. Would have wasted years on someone totally incompatible with me
Nah, I don’t think Virgos are the jealous types.
May get controlling/possessive.
What kind of pictures is he worried about?
My moon in Virgo and in my previous relationship (she’s a Virgo sun, Scorpio moon), I would bring up certain things about her social media. One time, one of her friends had posted a group picture and someone had left comment saying a long the lines of “who’s that girl next to you, she’s hot”... (the guy was referring to my then gf), and it bothered me... A LOT.
For me, it’s not so much so that I was jealous, it just made me feel insecure but that insecurity probably projected out as jealousness / possessiveness. I’m pretty possessive, I guess. I haven’t always been in the past but in the last relationship, I was. I don’t know, I guess I’m the type that loves being able to have a best friend and a partner in 1.
I have many Virgos in my life including my sister and my ex and they’re not really the jealous type. Well, at least they’ve never shown it. My sister’s current bf has done some questionable things and she’s stayed loyal to him where as I would’ve left a long time ago.
Anyway just my 2 cents.
May get controlling/possessive.
What kind of pictures is he worried about?
My moon in Virgo and in my previous relationship (she’s a Virgo sun, Scorpio moon), I would bring up certain things about her social media. One time, one of her friends had posted a group picture and someone had left comment saying a long the lines of “who’s that girl next to you, she’s hot”... (the guy was referring to my then gf), and it bothered me... A LOT.
For me, it’s not so much so that I was jealous, it just made me feel insecure but that insecurity probably projected out as jealousness / possessiveness. I’m pretty possessive, I guess. I haven’t always been in the past but in the last relationship, I was. I don’t know, I guess I’m the type that loves being able to have a best friend and a partner in 1.
I have many Virgos in my life including my sister and my ex and they’re not really the jealous type. Well, at least they’ve never shown it. My sister’s current bf has done some questionable things and she’s stayed loyal to him where as I would’ve left a long time ago.
Anyway just my 2 cents.
Also, you mentioned you’re a Taurus. I’m incredibly surprised that jealousy is something that’s being brought up between a Taurus and a Virgo.
I think you guys will be fine to be honest.
I think you guys will be fine to be honest.
Posted by virgoking
Your married no married women needs social and if you have extra stuff showing in your pic thats a red flag he should have weed you out. All men know women keep social to have extra dick on stand by.
Posted by virgokingPosted by virgoking
Your married no married women needs social and if you have extra stuff showing in your pic thats a red flag he should have weed you out. All men know women keep social to have extra dick on stand by.click to expand
This is ludicrous 😆 So he can have social media but she can't?
Posted by virgokingPosted by virgoking
Your married no married women needs social and if you have extra stuff showing in your pic thats a red flag he should have weed you out. All men know women keep social to have extra dick on stand by.click to expand
i kinda think this way
if you'd keep posting pics, they should be couple pics or you'd be sending the wrong signal
but i have libra mars so.....
I get jealous and will announce it when I feel it but I wouldn't try to control the situation i'll just express how it makes me feel and let them come up with a good middle ground of what they deem to be fair
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by virgokingPosted by virgoking
Your married no married women needs social and if you have extra stuff showing in your pic thats a red flag he should have weed you out. All men know women keep social to have extra dick on stand by.
i kinda think this way
if you'd keep posting pics, they should be couple pics or you'd be sending the wrong signal
but i have libra mars so.....click to expand
I can see how that is fair, but he's saying she doesn't need to have it at all! Posting tits and ass out for attention is a definite NO NO
Okay wow this is soooo relatable... Sis here's your answer : they definitely are driven by jealousy.
I can say so myself I've been dating my Virgo man's for almost a year now and he's already telling me that i must not go to groove cos ima look like a basic bitch... Mind you last time i went to that same groove i posted a picture the next morning with one of my guy friends - that he knows very well- and we legit fought about it. He blamed me of cheating on him with this nigga on the previous night and went awol on me for 2 full days knowing very well this dude is like a brother to me 😩
I can say so myself I've been dating my Virgo man's for almost a year now and he's already telling me that i must not go to groove cos ima look like a basic bitch... Mind you last time i went to that same groove i posted a picture the next morning with one of my guy friends - that he knows very well- and we legit fought about it. He blamed me of cheating on him with this nigga on the previous night and went awol on me for 2 full days knowing very well this dude is like a brother to me 😩
Posted by saggurl88Posted by virgokingPosted by virgoking
Your married no married women needs social and if you have extra stuff showing in your pic thats a red flag he should have weed you out. All men know women keep social to have extra dick on stand by.
This is ludicrous 😆 So he can have social media but she can't?
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Well thats not the question she never state that he wants to keep his or even if he has one. The point is that women have high chance to cheat with a social plus the fact that 80 percent of all divorce are initiated by women. It make since a man that wants to marry you would try to elminate all the chance of you cheating on him.... Just like women do all the time.
Posted by virgokingPosted by saggurl88Posted by virgokingPosted by virgoking
Your married no married women needs social and if you have extra stuff showing in your pic thats a red flag he should have weed you out. All men know women keep social to have extra dick on stand by.
This is ludicrous 😆 So he can have social media but she can't?
Well thats not the question she never state that he wants to keep his or even if he has one. The point is that women have high chance to cheat with a social plus the fact that 80 percent of all divorce are initiated by women. It make since a man that wants to marry you would try to elminate all the chance of you cheating on him.... Just like women do all the time.click to expand
Oh, Ok well statistics don't lie 😛 When you put it like that, I see your point 🙂
Securing and keeping your personal belongings safe.
Posted by saggurl88Posted by virgokingPosted by saggurl88Posted by virgokingPosted by virgoking
Your married no married women needs social and if you have extra stuff showing in your pic thats a red flag he should have weed you out. All men know women keep social to have extra dick on stand by.
This is ludicrous 😆 So he can have social media but she can't?
Well thats not the question she never state that he wants to keep his or even if he has one. The point is that women have high chance to cheat with a social plus the fact that 80 percent of all divorce are initiated by women. It make since a man that wants to marry you would try to elminate all the chance of you cheating on him.... Just like women do all the time.
Oh, Ok well statistics don't lie 😛 When you put it like that, I see your point 🙂
Securing and keeping your personal belongings safe.
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women want to secure the bag thats fine.. I need to make sure you not going to run off with the bag with the next man.
Posted by virgokingPosted by saggurl88Posted by virgokingPosted by saggurl88Posted by virgokingPosted by virgoking
Your married no married women needs social and if you have extra stuff showing in your pic thats a red flag he should have weed you out. All men know women keep social to have extra dick on stand by.
This is ludicrous 😆 So he can have social media but she can't?
Well thats not the question she never state that he wants to keep his or even if he has one. The point is that women have high chance to cheat with a social plus the fact that 80 percent of all divorce are initiated by women. It make since a man that wants to marry you would try to elminate all the chance of you cheating on him.... Just like women do all the time.
Oh, Ok well statistics don't lie 😛 When you put it like that, I see your point 🙂
Securing and keeping your personal belongings safe.
women want to secure the bag thats fine.. I need to make sure you not going to run off with the bag with the next man.click to expand
Hahahaha! I get it
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by SarapisPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by SarapisPosted by LostinmyMind11Posted by Sarapis
I've never met a virgo, male or female, who wasnt jealous (not stereotypical scorpio style jealous though, their's is a little differen). All these people saying virgos arent are full of shit. Virgos are notoriously insecure, jealousy stems from insecurity. They'll push it down for a while, but eventually they create little mechanisms to protect themselves from their own insecurities. If they like you they'll give you a list of demands, if they arent attached they'll ghost.
But is that necessarily jealousy? That's more possessiveness imo.
Being jealous is more about someone having what you wanted.... where possessiveness is more about keeping what is already yours.
There's a thin line but there is a difference.
I think you're conflating envy and jealousy. You're right, there are some very fine nuances between the 3.
jealous of what?
virgos are insecure but not jealous
it comes from the self, not other people
Jealousy comes from insecurity. You cant really be possessive and notorious for ghosting, now can you? Its literally an oxymoron.
yes i know jealousy stems from insecurity but that's not really the source of virgo insecurity. maybe that's your own but ours is from the fear that when some skill or attribute is necessary, we won't be able to rise up to the occasion to keep up or survive. earth is about security but it's an even bigger concern that drives virgos coz life is a continuum. being mutables it doubles in importance to us, knowing this reality.
virgos ghost/disappear and will let things and people go when they are insecure yes that's true. we may show traits of jealousy/possessiveness for a while in a relationship but at the end of the day, it's more our nature to let go/leave.
i have a long ass explanation for why i am in full support of ghosting or just letting go in general but that is for another thread.click to expand
Do the damn thread👍👍👍👍
Also wat are ur placements...ur almost out-virgoing me🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
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