Virgo chapter closes

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JoMarch85
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12 Years

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Merry Christmas, y??all! So I had a nice little fun infatuation with a Virgo, but I think it's time to let it pass.

We've known each other casually from church for about a year but started talking/hanging out in August. He studied abroad this fall, and we stayed in constant, but casual, contact. It was a cool, albeit non-traditional, way of getting to know someone better. Once he returned home it was nice to pick up our friendship. Since he's in school I don't get to see him during the week, but we stay in touch through text and social media. And, of course, we see each other every Sunday. We spent some time together during the Thanksgiving break, and this week, his family hosted a church caroling party. It was nice to feel him try to get alone time with me, considering how many people were there. And, I noticed his best friend would reach out and engage me in their conversations, so I was beginning to feel like part of his personal life.

But, the dude is confusing. And, I'm not into feeling confused. I hear Virgos are slow in the romance department, but I just need verbal confirmation that he likes me more than just a friend. And, I really don't think I'm going to get it. There's signs. Like he invited me to a concert he was playing in, finds ways to touch me during conversation, and even talked about making plans for my birthday, which is in March. He retold a story to a group of friends about a little incident I had mispronouncing a word, and said, "It was the greatest thing ever!" which makes me feel like, aww, we have fun together! But, I think that's it. Just fun. Plus, he's so handsome, he has a ridiculous number of girl friends and I end up feeling insecure. Like, he has so many options, and I'm just one of them. You know?

But, luckily, I met a Sagittarius who is wonderful and STRAIGHTFORWARD! ha. With the Virgo, the communication is sometimes off, but I enjoy it since I never know where a conversation might go. Me and the Saggi finish each others thoughts. He's a hipster nerd with a messy but attractive style . Which is exactly up my ally. Virgo reminds me of a Disney prince. lol. First time I was ever attracted to such a put-together guy.

But he did like the chocolate Scrabble game I got him for Christmas! Although I think he liked my homemade wrapping paper more. lol. He called it adorable and said it would be a sin to throw it away.
But thanks for the tips and advice. Great place y'all have here! 🙂