You have a bf? Focus on him or leave him. Then deal with Virgo.
Virgo collegue
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taurus virgo seem to have this natural bond. they are just comfortable in each other's company. what is important to remind yourself is that he had his chance to pick you instead of his wife but he went ahead and married her while flirting with you. he made that conscious decision maybe it was because he was committed to her from since before he knew you, that he has strong feelings for her? but the fact is he had a chance but he did not take it. so remind yourself that he is somebody else's husband and use that to help you move on. maybe bring up his wife casually in conversations with him, like how are you guys doing, what did you guys do for weekend etc. like you would normally ask anyone. this way it might reduce some tension that you feel? and instead of asking him to stop maybe you can stop responding, not showing too much interest or creating some distance? i think when you accept that you don't have any commitment towards each other and that he is going home to his wife you will start losing the attraction or at least dealing with it. end of the day maybe what you want is just for him to confess. you may not even be wanting him to leave his wife or anything but just accept that he has feelings for you so you can move on. maybe that is what you are looking for? if you have a great relation and you think talking might help maybe you want to bring it up that what is going on? this is a delicate matter because he is married. and not to forget you have a boyfriend.
You could post both of his charts and see too ya know.
What's up work affairs it's really high irl.
Posted by IndianTaurus
No one else who can help me figure this out?
the situation sucks because you might both be attracted to each other but you are both with different people, and he married on top of that, and married after he showed that attraction towards you. so might be in your best interest to accept the fact that he has a wife and move on.
Posted by puhleeze
taurus virgo seem to have this natural bond. they are just comfortable in each other's company. what is important to remind yourself is that he had his chance to pick you instead of his wife but he went ahead and married her while flirting with you. he made that conscious decision maybe it was because he was committed to her from since before he knew you, that he has strong feelings for her? but the fact is he had a chance but he did not take it. so remind yourself that he is somebody else's husband and use that to help you move on. maybe bring up his wife casually in conversations with him, like how are you guys doing, what did you guys do for weekend etc. like you would normally ask anyone. this way it might reduce some tension that you feel? and instead of asking him to stop maybe you can stop responding, not showing too much interest or creating some distance? i think when you accept that you don't have any commitment towards each other and that he is going home to his wife you will start losing the attraction or at least dealing with it. end of the day maybe what you want is just for him to confess. you may not even be wanting him to leave his wife or anything but just accept that he has feelings for you so you can move on. maybe that is what you are looking for? if you have a great relation and you think talking might help maybe you want to bring it up that what is going on? this is a delicate matter because he is married. and not to forget you have a boyfriend.
Yeah true I have a virgo male friend for years now and we were attracked in our teens but turned out to be real good friends. Every virgo I meet I feel comfortable arou d and vise versa.
Im happy with my own virgo man, that's not the issue but my collegue just confuses me.
Flirting while married, then ignoring me again and then paying attention to me.
It's frustrating really!
I never bring up his wife cause I don't know her at all and virgo's are very private.
He talks about her and his life to all the other collegues except me.
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428What charts do you mean? Im new here?
You could post both of his charts and see too ya know.
Posted by puhleezeYou're right and I have a bf whom I love but it just idk hurts me I guess?Posted by IndianTaurus
No one else who can help me figure this out?
the situation sucks because you might both be attracted to each other but you are both with different people, and he married on top of that, and married after he showed that attraction towards you. so might be in your best interest to accept the fact that he has a wife and move on.
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Maybe I thought I was special to him but it actually shows Im not?
Im just attracked to him although I don't want to and him ignoring me one day and paying attention the next is just so confusing!
Posted by Aliensusedourbogroll
Uggghhh he sounds like a dick. Flirting with you when your both in a relationship, talking down about your boyfriend (I hope u stick up for him), asking for your number (so innapropriate). I wouldn't touch him with a ten foot pole, not even platonically.
Yes I did stick up for my bf. I always do.
Please, anyone else? Soon we'll have a teambuilding event again and Im not sure what he will do..or how he'll act around me
Okay so we had the teambuilding thing. He sat close to me on the bus and was constantly making brief eye contact.
As we got to a stop he started walking next to me, tapping my shoulder and smiling, making conversation about the place we were.
When we arrived at the place and got our lunch I was behind him in line. He asked me if I wanted to be in front of him and I was like okay. He is very tall (6"2) and Im extremly small ( 4"9). So he smiled and said you look very small without your heels (I never wear heels to work I knew he was joking). So I laughed and said yeah and you're very tall! I wish I could wear heels to work, you know nice dress etc, I said to him. He sighed and touched his chest.
So at the end of the line when we got our food another collegue pointed out where the coffee etc was so I walked over there, him apparently still behind me and he asked if he should pour me a glass of orange juice.
So as we got to the event he kept walking close to me. Our group was parted in 4 smaller ones.
Through the day our 2 groups had to do courses against each other and every chance he got he looked at me. So so intensly, sometimes smiling.
We got to ride quats too but I wasn't going. He kept saying I should go and eventually said he wanted to sit behind me (me driving the thing although he knew that wasn't even possible).
So skipping a bit forward, at dinner I sat next to him.
We didn't talk that much but the times we did talk his look was again so intens!
He did mention his wife but that was briefly.
We also happened to be in the same position, we were mirroring each others moves without doing it consicously. When one of us would notice we would stop it.
He also noticed I didn't eat much (I never do when Im with my collegues I don't know why).
My female collegue who sat next to me asked me why I didn't have a wite wine (she knows I like wine). I said well yeah, maybe later. So he said I'll go get one for you. I said okay, wait let me give you this coin ( we had coins from our boss to get drinks). He stood up and said no this one's on me.
So I turned red and a few male collegues who were with us at the table started howling.
Then later on I made a joke and he literally spit his drink out.
So before we went home to the bus I went to use the bathroom. When I walked back outside he kept staring at me (which made me insecure) and he kept staring until I was next to him getting my bag.
So I went on the bus before he did and sat down. I looked up and he took the same seat as he had before and took his shirt off. He put on a plain white t-shirt and a sweater (it was cold af).
And during some conversations on the bus ride he kept looking at me so intensly...
Reay what is this Virgo doing??
What does he want?
Please help 😢
As we got to a stop he started walking next to me, tapping my shoulder and smiling, making conversation about the place we were.
When we arrived at the place and got our lunch I was behind him in line. He asked me if I wanted to be in front of him and I was like okay. He is very tall (6"2) and Im extremly small ( 4"9). So he smiled and said you look very small without your heels (I never wear heels to work I knew he was joking). So I laughed and said yeah and you're very tall! I wish I could wear heels to work, you know nice dress etc, I said to him. He sighed and touched his chest.
So at the end of the line when we got our food another collegue pointed out where the coffee etc was so I walked over there, him apparently still behind me and he asked if he should pour me a glass of orange juice.
So as we got to the event he kept walking close to me. Our group was parted in 4 smaller ones.
Through the day our 2 groups had to do courses against each other and every chance he got he looked at me. So so intensly, sometimes smiling.
We got to ride quats too but I wasn't going. He kept saying I should go and eventually said he wanted to sit behind me (me driving the thing although he knew that wasn't even possible).
So skipping a bit forward, at dinner I sat next to him.
We didn't talk that much but the times we did talk his look was again so intens!
He did mention his wife but that was briefly.
We also happened to be in the same position, we were mirroring each others moves without doing it consicously. When one of us would notice we would stop it.
He also noticed I didn't eat much (I never do when Im with my collegues I don't know why).
My female collegue who sat next to me asked me why I didn't have a wite wine (she knows I like wine). I said well yeah, maybe later. So he said I'll go get one for you. I said okay, wait let me give you this coin ( we had coins from our boss to get drinks). He stood up and said no this one's on me.
So I turned red and a few male collegues who were with us at the table started howling.
Then later on I made a joke and he literally spit his drink out.
So before we went home to the bus I went to use the bathroom. When I walked back outside he kept staring at me (which made me insecure) and he kept staring until I was next to him getting my bag.
So I went on the bus before he did and sat down. I looked up and he took the same seat as he had before and took his shirt off. He put on a plain white t-shirt and a sweater (it was cold af).
And during some conversations on the bus ride he kept looking at me so intensly...
Reay what is this Virgo doing??
What does he want?
Please help 😢
IndianTaurus, the posts you have written really placed a large focus on your Virgent colleague.
In the end, this is not about him but about you. What choice would you like to make?
Do you want to stay with your boyfriend or to pursue something with a married man?
Truly think about it, you cannot have it both ways. Even if you do decide to pursue something with this married man, do you really believe he would be loyal considering he does this to his wife? Would you not be the next victim? Is it worth it?
To put an end to this, you would simply have to reject him at every advance he makes. Remind him of your boyfriend when he becomes inappropriate, and stand up for your boyfriend for heaven's sake especially when he puts him down.
Since the two of you work together, this would be your best bet. Eventually, he will have to submit to the situation and realise you will not reciprocate in any of his advances. He will have to move on and find another victim or if he is anything of a man, to focus on his own wife.
Lastly, as said above by another, no woman should ever want to touch such a man with a ten foot pole. To garner the attraction and flirtation from such a despicable being should run your blood cold. This should be an insult and not a compliment by him, to treat you in such a way.
In the end, this is not about him but about you. What choice would you like to make?
Do you want to stay with your boyfriend or to pursue something with a married man?
Truly think about it, you cannot have it both ways. Even if you do decide to pursue something with this married man, do you really believe he would be loyal considering he does this to his wife? Would you not be the next victim? Is it worth it?
To put an end to this, you would simply have to reject him at every advance he makes. Remind him of your boyfriend when he becomes inappropriate, and stand up for your boyfriend for heaven's sake especially when he puts him down.
Since the two of you work together, this would be your best bet. Eventually, he will have to submit to the situation and realise you will not reciprocate in any of his advances. He will have to move on and find another victim or if he is anything of a man, to focus on his own wife.
Lastly, as said above by another, no woman should ever want to touch such a man with a ten foot pole. To garner the attraction and flirtation from such a despicable being should run your blood cold. This should be an insult and not a compliment by him, to treat you in such a way.
Posted by TheLadyScorpio
IndianTaurus, the posts you have written really placed a large focus on your Virgent colleague.
In the end, this is not about him but about you. What choice would you like to make?
Do you want to stay with your boyfriend or to pursue something with a married man?
Truly think about it, you cannot have it both ways. Even if you do decide to pursue something with this married man, do you really believe he would be loyal considering he does this to his wife? Would you not be the next victim? Is it worth it?
To put an end to this, you would simply have to reject him at every advance he makes. Remind him of your boyfriend when he becomes inappropriate, and stand up for your boyfriend for heaven's sake especially when he puts him down.
Since the two of you work together, this would be your best bet. Eventually, he will have to submit to the situation and realise you will not reciprocate in any of his advances. He will have to move on and find another victim or if he is anything of a man, to focus on his own wife.
Lastly, as said above by another, no woman should ever want to touch such a man with a ten foot pole. To garner the attraction and flirtation from such a despicable being should run your blood cold. This should be an insult and not a compliment by him, to treat you in such a way.
You know in the back of my mind I know you're right!
Being very very insecure, with a low selfesteem his flirts were very complimenting to me.
I never had a man 'chase' me like that. It was always my white blond or brunette friends that had that. Guys never wanted me.
Even my bf (also Virgo) didn't chase after me.
I've never felt good about myself and thinking he thinks Im special made me feel heavenly.
Although every once in a while I give myself a reality check and tell myself he's just a dick.
I know it all in the practical sense but one look from him and Im lost 😢
Maybe it's hard to believe but I love my bf very much. Maybe it's just the idea of being with another man.
Feeling like someone adores me (I know he probably doesn't).
Then IndianTaurus, you have a lot of work on your hands.
Your insecurity seems to be the focal point and the bastard of a Virgent is merely chasing after you because he senses this insecurity, he follows you like a beast waiting for it's prey.
If this insecurity is as big of a problem as it is, you should be turning to your own Virgent boyfriend in order to voice your concerns and tackle this together. Talk to him, be open and honest about your issues, try to find a compromise and create a united front. You should be working at this together with him, and not let external influences lead you a stray. Go to him, and re-discover why you love him, and find the things that make you love him more, appreciate him. Then you will be too enthralled with him and find too much satisfaction in your life to even bother with that piece of turd.
However, most of all you should work on loving yourself. Work on your own self-confidence, try new hobbies, seek adventurous tasks to do that you may have feared before, go exercise (if you do not already do so), change jobs perhaps, travel, or seek a therapist.
Good Luck.
Your insecurity seems to be the focal point and the bastard of a Virgent is merely chasing after you because he senses this insecurity, he follows you like a beast waiting for it's prey.
If this insecurity is as big of a problem as it is, you should be turning to your own Virgent boyfriend in order to voice your concerns and tackle this together. Talk to him, be open and honest about your issues, try to find a compromise and create a united front. You should be working at this together with him, and not let external influences lead you a stray. Go to him, and re-discover why you love him, and find the things that make you love him more, appreciate him. Then you will be too enthralled with him and find too much satisfaction in your life to even bother with that piece of turd.
However, most of all you should work on loving yourself. Work on your own self-confidence, try new hobbies, seek adventurous tasks to do that you may have feared before, go exercise (if you do not already do so), change jobs perhaps, travel, or seek a therapist.
Good Luck.
@IndianTaurus,
Your infatuation with this Virgo isn't mere interest.
It's attention.
There is something missing in your relationship.
Find out what it is.
Your infatuation with this Virgo isn't mere interest.
It's attention.
There is something missing in your relationship.
Find out what it is.
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