Virgo dominant ex help.

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canceraqua
@canceraqua
9 Years

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What does it mean when you mess up with someone who is Virgo dominant pretty bad, but they randomly will text you back. Last weekend he and I got in a big fight because he thinks I purposefully wasted his time and lied to him. In reality there was just a lot of miscommunication and strange technology glitches (really convienent it happened during mercury retrograde and i happen to be gemini/3rd house dominant). I spent all week apologizing to him and the only time he would reply was to essentially keep going about how wrong I was to him. But any time I tried to offer any type of solution, which included us not seeing each other again, he wouldn’t reply. He refused to see me or even talk to me about it on the phone. So then I texted him essentially telling him that I thought it was funny that he could reply when it comes to criticizing my behavior when I apologize over and over again but when I ask for solutions or offer some so we can move on in any way he wants to remain quiet and ignore me. He replied to me “I’m driving right now” and the proceeded to ignore me. He is really blunt when it comes to everything which is why I didn’t understand why he couldn’t just straight up say to me “I don’t want to see you anymore after this incident”. So me being the impatient gemini dom I am, told him that i felt like since he was ignoring all my efforts to talk about anything except how i fucked up with him i was just going to take that as him wanting to end things. I guess my question is do virgo dom’s ever forgive? especially if they have a leo sun and pisces moon? he was someone i really did vibe with and liked a lot as a person, i would like to be able to talk things over a beer with him one day because he is someone i would eventually want to end things on a good note with.

i have dated a virgo with a leo moon before and he would always pop back in randomly after giving me the silent treatment after an arguement but it had to be on his time, so i have some hope but would like to know other virgo like reactions! thank you!
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LilithTaurus
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7 Years

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In my experience I find it will only get worse. You will find he gets more and more critical

and there is nothing you can to to please him or bring things back to the way they

were. I think they get off on having people beg for their attention and forgiveness. It’s all about power and control. Of course there are are Virgos who aren’t like this but I’ve known quite a few who are like your ex. I would say screw him and his silly tantrum/silent treatment and move on. You will only feel drained and humiliated if you keep trying to resolve things.