Virgos and texting—

I have 2 Virgos currently interested in me. But I don't know what they're texting style is. Both act the same. Randomly text and when I respond, usually right away, they end up responding either hours later or the next day.

Both seem to like leaving me hanging. When I don't reciprocate, (cause I'm not interested) they do the same thing all over again.

I can go months in between contact. I don't even know why they bother contacting me. These 2 men would even make sucky friends if this is the way they typically communicate.

You ever seen a sculptor carve out a big block of stone?

Posted by Earthgoddess
They don't sound heavily interested. We don't communicate this way when we are. sounds slightly tho

Oh Ok, that makes sense. It does seem like they more of like an after thought. Just when they are bored lol

That's why I'm not interested lol One of them likes too much attention from women too. That is a major red flag for me and scoots me even further away. I like men that are almost oblivious to women showing attention.

Posted by Weeds
You ever seen a sculptor carve out a big block of stone?

No, but I've been on a cruise and seen dolphins carved from ice! 😆

What are you saying? lol

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Weeds
You ever seen a sculptor carve out a big block of stone?

No, but I've been on a cruise and seen dolphins carved from ice! 😆

What are you saying? lol

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SIGH! These young chickies! What he is trying to tell you is to be "patient". Just like another DXP member said, "He's not into you". When they text/call you non stop, they are interested.

🤗 Cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

Just don't reply, you're not interested anyway, right?

So why bother haha

There you go. Good luck!

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Weeds
You ever seen a sculptor carve out a big block of stone?

No, but I've been on a cruise and seen dolphins carved from ice! 😆

What are you saying? lol

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Some Virgos tend to nonchalantly chisel away at ppl who they know aren't interested in them... yet.

They will keep doing this till...

1. They lose interest themselves.

2. They See results

Probly the easiest way for them to grow on you.

And they don't take a big loss if it doesn't go anywhere.

Posted by EvatheDiva

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Weeds
You ever seen a sculptor carve out a big block of stone?

No, but I've been on a cruise and seen dolphins carved from ice! 😆

What are you saying? lol

SIGH! These young chickies! What he is trying to tell you is to be "patient". Just like another DXP member said, "He's not into you". When they text/call you non stop, they are interested.

🤗 Cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

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Oh ok, I'm not interested either but I was just wondering what the point was lol I never contact either one but they keep contacting me. I just was curious. It's annoying that they don't communicate well.

Posted by Weeds

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Weeds
You ever seen a sculptor carve out a big block of stone?

No, but I've been on a cruise and seen dolphins carved from ice! 😆

What are you saying? lol

Some Virgos tend to nonchalantly chisel away at ppl who they know aren't interested in them... yet.

They will keep doing this till...

1. They lose interest themselves.

2. They See results

Probly the easiest way for them to grow on you.

And they don't take a big loss if it doesn't go anywhere.

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This makes sense! I've already friendzoned one and told him I'm not looking for a relationship yet he keeps in contact with me and asks if I forgot about him (which I did)

He keeps trying me to meet up with me and I keep trying to avoid it but he is pretty persistent which is a great quality to have, I'm just not into him like that.

Posted by Nathan912
Just don't reply, you're not interested anyway, right?

So why bother haha

There you go. Good luck!

Cause I'm bored and in between relationships right now, so are they. So why not?

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Weeds

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Weeds
You ever seen a sculptor carve out a big block of stone?

No, but I've been on a cruise and seen dolphins carved from ice! 😆

What are you saying? lol

Some Virgos tend to nonchalantly chisel away at ppl who they know aren't interested in them... yet.

They will keep doing this till...

1. They lose interest themselves.

2. They See results

Probly the easiest way for them to grow on you.

And they don't take a big loss if it doesn't go anywhere.

This makes sense! I've already friendzoned one and told him I'm not looking for a relationship yet he keeps in contact with me and asks if I forgot about him (which I did)

He keeps trying me to meet up with me and I keep trying to avoid it but he is pretty persistent which is a great quality to have, I'm just not into him like that.

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Give it time.....

Nah... they're not interested. The two virgos I dealt with in the past, always responded to me and never left me hanging unless they were busy but still didn't take long for contact and called if I asked to hear their voice instead. My advice is I wouldn't respond to them anymore cause they are just playing around.

Posted by SPUNKYTAURUS
Nah... they're not interested. The two virgos I dealt with in the past, always responded to me and never left me hanging unless they were busy but still didn't take long for contact and called if I asked to hear their voice instead. My advice is I wouldn't respond to them anymore cause they are just playing around.

OK. 🙂 I was just wondering.

Posted by saggurl88
I have 2 Virgos currently interested in me. But I don't know what they're texting style is. Both act the same. Randomly text and when I respond, usually right away, they end up responding either hours later or the next day.

Both seem to like leaving me hanging. When I don't reciprocate, (cause I'm not interested) they do the same thing all over again.

I can go months in between contact. I don't even know why they bother contacting me. These 2 men would even make sucky friends if this is the way they typically communicate.

Hmph. You're not interested yet:

Posted by saggurl88
...Randomly text and when I respond, usually right away, they end up responding either hours later or the next day.

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Their approach seems to be getting the desired effect 😆.

Slow and steady wins the race.....

Posted by Weeds

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Weeds

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Weeds
You ever seen a sculptor carve out a big block of stone?

No, but I've been on a cruise and seen dolphins carved from ice! 😆

What are you saying? lol

Some Virgos tend to nonchalantly chisel away at ppl who they know aren't interested in them... yet.

They will keep doing this till...

1. They lose interest themselves.

2. They See results

Probly the easiest way for them to grow on you.

And they don't take a big loss if it doesn't go anywhere.

This makes sense! I've already friendzoned one and told him I'm not looking for a relationship yet he keeps in contact with me and asks if I forgot about him (which I did)

He keeps trying me to meet up with me and I keep trying to avoid it but he is pretty persistent which is a great quality to have, I'm just not into him like that.

Give it time.....

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One of them told me that they don't do oral sex 😆- A HUGE turnoff!!!

Closed minds don't get fed! 😆

Posted by PhoenixRising

Posted by saggurl88
I have 2 Virgos currently interested in me. But I don't know what they're texting style is. Both act the same. Randomly text and when I respond, usually right away, they end up responding either hours later or the next day.

Both seem to like leaving me hanging. When I don't reciprocate, (cause I'm not interested) they do the same thing all over again.

I can go months in between contact. I don't even know why they bother contacting me. These 2 men would even make sucky friends if this is the way they typically communicate.

Hmph. You're not interested yet:

Posted by saggurl88
...Randomly text and when I respond, usually right away, they end up responding either hours later or the next day.

They're approach seems to be getting the desired effect 😆.

Slow and steady wins the race.....

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Well I respond to everyone right away. I'm not an asshole lol

I have to care about you to play the game of ignoring you lol

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by PhoenixRising

Posted by saggurl88
I have 2 Virgos currently interested in me. But I don't know what they're texting style is. Both act the same. Randomly text and when I respond, usually right away, they end up responding either hours later or the next day.

Both seem to like leaving me hanging. When I don't reciprocate, (cause I'm not interested) they do the same thing all over again.

I can go months in between contact. I don't even know why they bother contacting me. These 2 men would even make sucky friends if this is the way they typically communicate.

Hmph. You're not interested yet:

Posted by saggurl88
...Randomly text and when I respond, usually right away, they end up responding either hours later or the next day.

Their approach seems to be getting the desired effect 😆.

Slow and steady wins the race.....

Well I respond to everyone right away. I'm not an asshole lol

I have to care about you to play the game of ignoring you lol

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Lol. Sag logic ❤.....

They hate texting; so keep them short and only avail to them if you want to make plans for the night.

Posted by Palerio
They hate texting; so keep them short and only avail to them if you want to make plans for the night.

Ok! Thanks. 🙂

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Nathan912
Just don't reply, you're not interested anyway, right?

So why bother haha

There you go. Good luck!

Cause I'm bored and in between relationships right now, so are they. So why not?

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If you're bored then that's fine. I already gave you answer don't reply to their text, very simple.

Unless the whole point of this thread is you're wondering whether they like you or not cause it takes them hours or a the next day to reply to your text and you're just pretending that you're not interested lol

Posted by Nathan912

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Nathan912
Just don't reply, you're not interested anyway, right?

So why bother haha

There you go. Good luck!

Cause I'm bored and in between relationships right now, so are they. So why not?

If you're bored then that's fine. I already gave you answer don't reply to their text, very simple.

Unless the whole point of this thread is you're wondering whether they like you or not cause it takes them hours or a the next day to reply to your text and you're just pretending that you're not interested lol

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I was genuinely interested in the communication style . I was just curious.