Virgo friendship

Hi all, nice to meet you.

Can you guys help me about my problem I am facing now with virgo?

Here's the start or may I say the beginning.

He's older than me. We're both guys. We work in same office. Around 1,5 half year before, we started our friendship by smoking during office break or later after work. Drinking coffee. Laughing and sometimes just silent enjoying each other company.

Then, his old friends that move to our office came. He started to hanging out more with them rather than with me. Of course, which I understand.

We're still hanging out some times but not much.

And the problem begins when...

Several months ago, his having his birthday. His having a treat for some folks in our office. I am excluded. He didnt invite me to his birthday lunch celebrating his birthday. At first I am okay with that. But then by accident, I came across to know, that he invites his old friends from his previous office, several person that are new (just around 4 months work). I am starting to get... well... dissapoint.

But I dont tell him.

Just like a regular person (IMO), I silently making distance. Making new friends. Hanging out with other friends than him during office break.

He notice me, for making distance.

But please know, that in terms of work, I still communicate with him. Small chats, still smiling.

But after 3 month, his starting to give me subtle signs. Eye peaking. Looking at me from distance. Came across beside me doing nothing of which I assumed he wants to be noticed. Many awkward things still continue until today.

I played Cranberries songs for my mood booster in the office by morning. He later then played the exact track and same amount of Cranberries songs.

When I walk in front of him wanting to go to the pantry making coffee, his eyes staring and following me.

When my new friend showing off some bromance gestures to me, and he was like rotating his head 90 degrees to have a clear view of what i am doing.

When we suddenly face to face because we're heading to the elevator for going down to the 1st floor. He suddenly had this slow motion dramatic step with his eyes looking awkward or strange towards me.

In my office, we are allowed to hear music by earphone or bluetooth speaker as long as others arent feel disturbed.

More than 3 times, when I use my earphone, he started to play his music via bluetooth speaker. But when I am done using my earphone, he turned off his music.

At first, I was able to act like I dont care. Until several weeks ago, something happened.

It was rain. Heavy poured and long until night. So many of the staff arent able to go home.

I head down to the outside of the office, looking for other friends from other department to have a smoke or two.

This virgo friend, his manager is a close friend of mine. I even sing in a choir for christmas office event, conducted by his manager. Before this virgo friend, his manager always lunch with me. And his manager is a virgo also.

So, when I go outside, my virgo friend, his manager and other people from his department already in some small park outside the office, smoking. I joined them.

Jokes. Dirty jokes. Flat jokes. Everyone's laughing. His manager. Even me. But this virgo whom I am dealing right now, his not laughing. His upset.

His manager notice his strange behavior and loudly say, "look! If youre still putting that blue sorrow face, you better go up there and get back to work. I am throwing dirty jokes and you're not laughing at all".

That happens around 2 weeks ago. Of which I decided to strengthen my silent treatment.

Yet his awkward body gestures still continue. Still looking at me. When we're just only two inside the elevator/lift. When I threw sarcasm jokes to my other friends about how friendship arent eternal, and he suddenly rotating his head to me. And start to use his earphone listen to some music.

Suddenly appearing beside me, acting like he's looking for something.



Me ... to be honest, I dont expect he will show this kind of reaction.

What does it mean?

I mean... if I am a minor, he shouldnt be like that when I walk away.

Can some one give me some suggestions?

Thanks.