Virgo girl meets virgo guy

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by elefun on Wednesday, May 14, 2014 and has 4 replies.

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@VirgoDragirl
12 Years1,000+ Posts

Oh no....that's exactly how a virgo guy is, they are always out looking for a better one but they'll keep you on a back burner just in case.

This is only a generalization, ok. Obviously not all of them is like this. But most of them is. I've met a "decent" one long time ago but gosh I was too young to reciprocate. Timing is clearly everything. Then again, I don't know if I would settle for "decent".

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@elefun
13 Years

Posted by VirgoDragirl
Oh no....that's exactly how a virgo guy is, they are always out looking for a better one but they'll keep you on a back burner just in case.

Being a Virgo myself, I may not actively seek others, but I guess I keep a lookout for others too. I'm not surprised if he's doing this too. 😢

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@elefun
13 Years

Posted by Ixion120

I am sorry for giving a terse response for what really should be something more in depth and speaks to the specifics of my observations related to the information that you have provided in your OP.

The thing is (and the reason why my suggestion made this point) is that you have some semblance of an idea as to how a potential SO should be treating you ( I will give you the benefit of the doubt that your expectations are reasonable)

The thing is with your relationship being a nascent one at best...truthfully shortcomings in the potential SO should be looked at very critically.

So I ask you these questions and be honest with yourself as you answer them:

1.)If someone would disappear on you early on in the relationship with little notice every time their workload becomes heavy is that really someone that you want to form a very intimate bond with—

2.)Do you want to have to work through his lack of communication etiquette?

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And while not apart of the above questions I think it is vital to ask these anyhow: Did you tell him all of the above? What did he say when you did if you did? Why haven't you spoken to him about it if you haven't?

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Well, you know what they say about giving guys space. If girls hound them, they just get pushed further. I'm someone who needs space too, so i didn't want to appear needy. I think in the early dating phase, neither of us is obliged to be constantly "reporting" our lives to the other? I'm just taken aback by his hot and cold responses.

He told me he has issues going on in his life. Perhaps that's why he has not tried to move things? Or am i finding excuses to comfort myself LOL.

Thing is... With 2 Virgos, who has to be the more active one? I'm talking to other guys but I don't wanna give this guy up so easily because he's a good catch whether it's due to his zodiac or not...