I had a date a couple of days ago with a virgo guy, and it was a great one! We had a lot of things to talk about and the chemistry was great, I had heard from before that Virgo guys won't show much affection or touch you in the beginning, but he was extremely affectionate and touchy feely after we had been talking for some hours, which came as a surprise to me. Didn't really expect that for a first date, he also wanted to kiss me/touch me and go further but I stopped him. Is this normal for Virgo's on a first date? He also opened up to me about his family and bad things that have happened to him in the past and just talking to me about deep stuff, very unexpected! Last time I dated a Virgo I couldn't get him to open up at all and he wasn't so keen to try to touch me either. Do you also open up fast to people and are u very touchy feely on first dates? /Capricorn chick
Depends on where he is in life. Dated a Virgo for three dates and shacked up in the first month (his place). He wanted to get married but I waited two years. Virgos can move fast.. despite the stereotypical things about this sign.BTW, he had a cap moon. Maybe both of us having a sag Venus helped the speed, but when they thinkits time yo settle down, they can do it with the impulsively of a fire sign and can get just as emo as water. signs. I have seen stereotypical ones, but these are mutable folks.
And basically what I meant, was that when their earthy logic kicks in and says that this is when they should settle down, they perhaps see if you meet some basic crieteria. If so, they can be quick in decision making. Virgos seem to desire conforming to societal norms. He was 36. So perhaps that was his hurry.
I've gone on dates with two different virgo guys and they both got touchy feely and wanted to kiss after. The first virgo guy just kissed and kinda felt me up a little bit, then stopped himself and apologized. I was okay with it though. lol! We had a great date and I liked him, but I kinda messed up with him because I got a little TOO persistent with him. He disappeared on me and we never saw each other again.
The second virgo guy I went out with, during the whole date we had great chemistry and the conversation flowed, but I wasn't sure that he was feeling me. At the end of the date, he surprised me while we were standing outside of his car and just went in for a kiss. Once we were in the car the kissing continued and he got pretty touchy feely too. REALLY touchy feely! lol This happened after our second date too but not as intense as the first time.
I'm still working on him and it's been a slow process. I've definitely had to be patient. I'd love for him to open up a little more. From what I've read about Virgo guys, I'd take him opening up to you as a good thing. Just go slow with him. No pressure! Stay cool. That's gotten me kinda far with the virgo guy I'm diggin! Don't sleep with him yet either!
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Do you also open up fast to people and are u very touchy feely on first dates?
/Capricorn chick