Virgo in LDR?

This is my first post / question on any website ever.

I am a 28 soon to be 29 year old male in a semi ( she travels a lot lately ) long distance relationship with a woman who is 21 years of age. I am her first everything (minus kissing a few guys, not at once, I hope lol). We have been together for one year. She is not my first girlfriend nor sexual partner. That's the background of us in a broad sense. I love her but not the crazy kind of love I had when I was her age ( thank g*d ) and she loves me in a way a typical Virgo loves someone ( with their head screwed on tight ) . Recently we have learned that she has an opportunity to live and work overseas ( the Atlantic Ocean is the sea I'm talking about, yeh that's more of an ocean I know... ) [ we live on the west coast of North America ] - I am a supporter of this and her decision to accept the offer namely for a few reasons... 1) when I was her age I did the same thing and NO ONE could have stopped me. 2) if she doesn't go she will regret it and perhaps resent me in the future. But what I want to know is should I continue with a Super LDR? because I'm her first everything will she want to be with someone else perhaps? I find that lately I can't say "I love you" to her and I find that I am acting more distant because I know soon she will be away for 8 months.... What would you do as a virgo woman who is young and only being with one man? Btw I am a Cancer....

Any input would be appreciated greatly ,

Thanks,

Ahem... DolphinSaver ( yes I picked a cute hero style name to instantly make you think positive thoughts upon seeing it )

Honestly just looked right past the alias. Now with the reference... you'd really rather not know.

If you love her and honor her opportunity, chase her. Be with her. She might stay there.

If you love her and await her return, stay faithful. Visit. Keep in contact as much as you can.

Becoming distant before she's even gone is pushing her away without giving her the opportunity to decide this for herself. Never decide what is good for her. She knows what she wants; all with her own highly analytical brain. Become distant only if she is no longer what YOU want, and do not do this in secret, for long. She's wondering. She's analyzing you. She's second-guessing. It HURTS! Be up front and honest. Whether you want her or not does not have to do with her location. See above. Again. And again.

If you love her, keep in touch. Yes this has been repeated. If she loves you, she will keep in touch.

Posted by Draumstafir
Honestly just looked right past the alias. Now with the reference... you'd really rather not know.

If you love her and honor her opportunity, chase her. Be with her. She might stay there.

If you love her and await her return, stay faithful. Visit. Keep in contact as much as you can.

Becoming distant before she's even gone is pushing her away without giving her the opportunity to decide this for herself. Never decide what is good for her. She knows what she wants; all with her own highly analytical brain. Become distant only if she is no longer what YOU want, and do not do this in secret, for long. She's wondering. She's analyzing you. She's second-guessing. It HURTS! Be up front and honest. Whether you want her or not does not have to do with her location. See above. Again. And again.

If you love her, keep in touch. Yes this has been repeated. If she loves you, she will keep in touch.

- rather not know? I don't know what you mean by that.

Ok that's good advice. I won't chase her out there though as I know she will be back