AlGoreRhythm
@AlGoreRhythm
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Virgo Ladies, Throw Me a Lifeline
maybe coz you don't seem to reciprocrate her interest?
Abort!
I didn't read past "Virgo male seeking insight from Virgo women." So idk if you should actually abort or not.
I didn't read past "Virgo male seeking insight from Virgo women." So idk if you should actually abort or not.
Posted by AlGoreRhythm
She is outgoing and talkative to the other guys at work (though she says they are like older brothers to her) but now completely clams up when I walk in the room.
She may also view you as a brother type.
If I'm you I'd take a chance and invite her out one on one for a few drinks after work. See what the vibe is when your not at work or in a group.
Thanks Doopdeloop! I actually asked her to join me at a casual wine bar last weekend while we were sailing. She never got back to me about it, so I'm pretty sure she's not interested at this point. Oh well.
Posted by doopdeloop
"So here are my questions, and feel free to request any more info you need to answer them:"
So virgo.
1) Was I right to infer attraction from this?: She gives me the vertical scan, I caught her looking at me out of the corner of her eye, she would ask about my weekend, send me emails out of the blue titled "Thought this might give you a chuckle" and others telling me about how she's feeling (anxiety about work and customers mostly). I made her a funny little note and she said "I'm going to keep this forever".
- who knows, she might be just an outgoing person and felt super comfortable due the age gap, or it could be that she's really attracted to you. I say follow your gut not her reactions-actions because us virgos are cuckoo when it comes to romance.
2) What is happening now that the conversations have reversed and dried up? She is outgoing and talkative to the other guys at work (though she says they are like older brothers to her) but now completely clams up when I walk in the room. Things feel so tense between us in person, but I'm not sure if its sexual/romantic tension or if she is just uncomfortable around me now.
- does she avoid you ? if you say hi or something how does she react??
If she react with a smile and seem happy to see you then that's a good sign and her calm act is just the way us awkward virgos are when we are around those we like! But If she tries to avoid you, doesn't smile back and stiff up then she's uncomfortable.
3) What does it mean if she answers every one of my texts immediately (within a minute) but never initiates and basically just responds to what I say? The text conversations die immediately if I don't keep them up, and I don't usually anymore because I don't want to feel like I'm bothering her.
- that's a good sign, she just does not want to initiate shit and I believe its due the anxiety or maybe she's not sure about how you feel about her. Plus WE SHIT TEXTERs
4) Should I just back off give her some space? I don't know how to do that without basically ignoring her at work unless it's something work related.
- I dont think this is a good idea or move to take when dealing with a virgo female. as virgos tend to hold into any reason or action that will show them their crush is not interested in them and believe it so they can get rid of all the headache and anxiety they feel all the time. I would say show that you're interested in a daring yet subtle way.
5) Should I stick it out or just cut my losses and move on? I really like this girl and I am willing to stick it out to crack her if she is interested/attracted, but I just feel like I need a path to follow.
I say give it a shot!
So true!!! Virgo woman challenge Virgo man. I love this. I had a Vigro man boyfriend "for real" hahaha.
Everything needs to be balance otherwise it wont work out. Virgo woman get bored since we love FREEDOM... 🙂
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1) Was I right to infer attraction from this?: She gives me the vertical scan, I caught her looking at me out of the corner of her eye, she would ask about my weekend, send me emails out of the blue titled "Thought this might give you a chuckle" and others telling me about how she's feeling (anxiety about work and customers mostly). I made her a funny little note and she said "I'm going to keep this forever".
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5) Should I stick it out or just cut my losses and move on? I really like this girl and I am willing to stick it out to crack her if she is interested/attracted, but I just feel like I need a path to follow.
Any help would be appreciated. Thanks!