Virgo(M)-Sagi(W) what a panic

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doubletrouble
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25thDecan is absolutely right. the words in your diary reflect your feelings. you should never have to apologize for how you feel. if she took offense from reading your feelings about the relationship, then she really doesn't understand the structure of being in a relationship at all. relationships require compromise and understanding; apparently your feelings are being supressed and everything is about HER feelings. virgos have a tendency to do this in relationships because they are so apt to serve others, even at the expense of their own happiness. if she loves and cares for you, she will take what she read and use it to make your relationship better. she will start taking care of YOUR needs as well as hers. she will stop being selfish and focus on you for awhile. emotional wellbeing and being comfortable expressing yourself with your partner IS a need... I have a feeling you are really dissatisfied with this relationship, but again, virgos also have a tendency to be neglectful to themselves and stick around in relationships that do not make them happy. you and your sag need to have an honest, open relationship, where your feelings are heard as well as hers, and she needs to find the patience and understanding to accept them-- or else this will not work for you. you deserve to be happy too.
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Posted by kedemu

correct me if i am having wrong policy, but for me all our future depends on her decision.







I will absolutely correct you .... that policy is wrong.

However, it is futile ... even if explained to you from every angle in every language, you will continue to fail to see how having this policy is an epic fail, and WILL continue to be the demise in every relationship you venture into.

If you insist on leaving your whole future up to another to decide for you, then you better be prepared to stfu and bend over ... case in point: shut up and take whatever she decides you deserve, because for the fact that you leave your fate in her hands, YOU have declared it to be what you deserve.


Again .... you won't get that, and will likely falsely believe I'm attacking you because that is easier to (use) as an ignorance tool for your own oblivion.

As sure as the sun rises in the east, you will continue to wonder what the hell is going on, and why is she being unreasonable, because you zero awareness that you bestowed upon her YOUR rights to do as she chooses.


In a couple weeks, you can come in here and make a thread that is quite common for Virgos to do, and it takes on the subject matter of ........ Virgos are taken advantage of


And you will have zero clue that the answer to the equation is right here >> "all our future depends on her decision"