Virgo male moving too fast

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by miimii on Sunday, August 9, 2015 and has 3 replies.

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@miimii
13 Years

Back story...2 weeks ago I went to a 20 year class reunion. I ran into a guy that tried to talk to me on numerous occasions in high school. There was always something about him that I wasnt feeling. Anyway he asked for my number at the reunion and I gave it to him. He had to leave early because of work but he texted me that night and asked if I was thinking about him. I thought that was strange. I decided we could be friends. He texts me every day saying he misses me and "im feeling u more than your feeling me". Its only been a week. He wants me to call and text every day and gets mad when I dont. Im not used to a man being more emotional than me and so soon. I think he has this fantasy from 20 years ago and thats why he has all these feelings already or he is trying to play me. Either way Im not feeling this at all. Just wanted to get this off my chest...btw he revealed that he still lives with his kids mother and he's not happy. So that influenced my decision to only be friends in the first place.

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@Tanya Jones
11 Years

So much pressure is unwanted in a friendship. He may have some emotional requirements and he wants you to be always there to fulfill that. He asked for your number for this purpose. This kind of people think only about themselves. Tell him directly that he needs to be understanding. If he listens you can continue being friends otherwise just drop him.

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@miimii
13 Years

Posted by Damnata
So what is the question or was this a diary entry?

I actually stated in the post that I just wanted to get it off my chest.

I thought Virgos were similar to Caps. He seems super head over hills for me but he doesnt know me.