virgo man

hi i have met this really nice virgo guy (i am taurean) and he is very good at the push pull thing being a taurean this is driving me insane, i like to be well planned and have an idea of what the week ahead is going to bring me.can someone please give me some practical advice on how i need to deal with this guy. i dont want to frighten him off by being to planned but i also dont want him to think i am not interested by not being available..do i make myself distant for a while, not contact him and only let him ontact me or do i continue to be available but not plan anything..or do i judt go about my life and if im available im available and if im not im not ahhh its driving me insane..he seems to be a rule unto himself and likes to be a free spirit..

help someone please