virgo man and sag woman

I'm pretty much your stereotypical sag female, and I've been quite taken with a virgo male for two years now. We are so different, but so much alike. I'm more outgoing and enthusiastic, I tend to jump into things blindly. He weighs the pros and cons of everything and does not jump into anything. He is outgoing in a different way. I'm outgoing with anyone, but he's kind of shy and outgoing with his friends. He is one of the few guys who I could banter with and he matched my wit barb for barb. I felt like he GOT me.

He would never tell me how he felt though. It was obvious he cared for me, and he defended me from an emotionally abusive ex, when nobody else would stick up for me. He always seemed to appear out of nowhere when I had gotten myself into a mess and needed help. Neither he nor I have been in a serious relationship in years. We both have admirers and such, but are both commitment-phobes. We also both hide our feelings.

I can't describe it, other than to say I really felt the strongest connection with him, stronger than I have felt in a long time. When he touched me, I felt like I was melting. When I would look into his eyes, I would get giddy and act like a schoolgirl. Normally, I am a world-class charmer and conversationalist. I finally told him that I cared about him and would always be around if he ever needed me. He never responded.

Prior to that, he would say things like "you don't know me," and "what could we possibly have in common?" It breaks my heart because I really did love him. I don't think I could ever give another virgo man the time of day now. He thought I was shallow because I was so outgoing and charming. But the truth was, none of the flirting or attention from other men ever moved me the way one look from him did. I would give anything for him to give me a chance to prove him wrong. He is worth so much. He stays in the background, but he always there when needed.