Virgo man being clingy

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So I am a Taurus female with moon in scorpio and he is a virgo male with moon in aries. We have been talking for a short amount of time, and their is no denying that we like each other. Literally we talk from when we wake up to sun down, sometimes we even stay up even later with each other than we should. We have the best conversations and all the time he tells me he loves talking to me.

But anyways lately he has been coming off a little clingy towards me. For example, If I don't text him back in in about 5 to 10 minutes he text again. and again until I answer. Also he has my social media accounts, so he would text on their too if I don't text him back fast. Or he wants me to call him or skype him all the time. And he knows my life is busy at the moment. But I wont deny that when I do tell him I am doing something, he does stop and understand and wait until I contact him.

I like him but I need him to chill just a little bit lol.

What is making him be like this, does he think that I am not interested in him or something? I've made it so very clear to him and I give him literally all of my free time. Also there is a 5year age difference, he is 24 and I am 19. I thought maybe that had something to do with it. Maybe because I am younger he think that I might leave him for somebody younger? Lol I don't know to be honest, really. That might not even be the case at all but it was a thought.

I guess with me being moon in scorpio I just want my space sometimes and once I see the clinginess become like a regular thing I might lose feelings and I absolutely don't want that.

Another thought, I feel like maybe it is his moon in aries that is making him like this?

Should I let him know that I need him to tone it down a bit? I just don't want to come off as rude or anything, you know? I have a lot of Virgo friends and family members and one thing I know is that some of them hate criticism and I just don't want him to feel like I am doing that.
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So I am a Taurus female with moon in scorpio and he is a virgo male with moon in aries. We have been talking for a short amount of time, and their is no denying that we like each other. Literally we talk from when we wake up to sun down, sometimes we even stay up even later with each other than we should. We have the best conversations and all the time he tells me he loves talking to me.

But anyways lately he has been coming off a little clingy towards me. For example, If I don't text him back in in about 5 to 10 minutes he text again. and again until I answer. Also he has my social media accounts, so he would text on their too if I don't text him back fast. Or he wants me to call him or skype him all the time. And he knows my life is busy at the moment. But I wont deny that when I do tell him I am doing something, he does stop and understand and wait until I contact him.

I like him but I need him to chill just a little bit lol.

What is making him be like this, does he think that I am not interested in him or something? I've made it so very clear to him and I give him literally all of my free time. Also there is a 5year age difference, he is 24 and I am 19. I thought maybe that had something to do with it. Maybe because I am younger he think that I might leave him for somebody younger? Lol I don't know to be honest, really. That might not even be the case at all but it was a thought.

I guess with me being moon in scorpio I just want my space sometimes and once I see the clinginess become like a regular thing I might lose feelings and I absolutely don't want that.

Another thought, I feel like maybe it is his moon in aries that is making him like this?

Should I let him know that I need him to tone it down a bit? I just don't want to come off as rude or anything, you know? I have a lot of Virgo friends and family members and one thing I know is that some of them hate criticism and I just don't want him to feel like I am doing that.

Yeah It's probably his Aries moon that makes him impatient... I would know I have one lol.

Just remind him that you're busy lately, and if you don't reply to him straight away, you're not ignoring him, and you'll get back to him when you can. I think that's the nicest way to put it.

It definitely sounds like he likes you. Good luck.