Virgo Man & Cheating

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DyaAurora
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11 Years

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hello guys.

i'm an aries woman and i've known this virgo guy for quite sometimes. i was attracted to him and i made it clear from the very beginning(well, it's the aries thing-not being shy, go getter blah blah blah). at first he told me he's single, and we started off great, but he came clean later telling me that he actually has a girlfriend. he said that he likes me, and it doesn't feel right to keep lying to me. i was like, okay. and i thought it's the end of it. but, he still texting, calling, and things are kind of hot between us. there's this chemistry, strong attraction that i think both of us can't shake it off. everytime we're around each other, it's like electricity. but i kept it there. it's flirtatious, yes, but we never cross any line.

time passed with nothing happened and so to say, we moved on with our lives and all the sparks went away on its own. then i heard the news he got engaged to his girlfriend. i sent text to congrats him, then we start to talk again. normal staff, how's life, how's everything and before i knew it, the chemistry started to stir again. and the conversation turned from hey how are you, what's up to i miss you, i can't stop thinking of you, i want you, etc. we went out together the other day, for what i think of as 'farewell date'. well, i'm not a saint, but i know enough it's wrong to mingle with someone's fiance. i sincerely just want to say goodbye but one thing led to another and, to cut short, we end up sleeping together. he told me he was in love with me before but thought i wasn't interested to have a relationship with him. it felt so great but it's a terrible mistake, i know. one that i'm not intending to repeat. but before i left, he asked when we're going to see each other again.

few days gone, and i haven't heard from him since. yes, i don't expect him to call or text and i don't call or text him neither. he's engaged to other woman, there's nothing to talk about. but i can't stop thinking about what happened and i keep wondering what could be going on in his head. so please tell me, is this a normal thing for a virgo guy? is he like, just a big player and always cheat? does this happen often? please share your thoughts and i hope you guys won't judge me. thanks.
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KittenLaRouge
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So you went on a fairwell date knowing you were going to fuck him and now you want more and dont say u dont say you dont because if not u wouldnt be here. Lust is a bitch I know and no one needs to judge you coz u know what u did. Its best to to walk away now because your gonna end up hurt. He might fuck u for a while but you wont have him and probably deep down he lost respect for u because you will fuck another womans man. Again, no ones judging you. Lust is a bitch lol
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Can you honestly trust a guy that cheat on his fianc??

He would cheat on you also.

He's a douchebag walk away and I hope his gf find out that he isn't mr.perfect.

I've heard of virgos very good at cheating. If the one I end up marrying chest on me I will drop his ass I play no games. Poor gf probably think he is the one now she looking toward years of a guy breaking vows already smh.
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TaurusBull1977
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No judgments here.

Great strategic planning from the Virgo.
Executed brilliantly.
...And you simply took the bait unknowingly.

1. He lied about not having a girlfriend, and when he sensed the chemistry was mutual, he came clean, knowing that he had you in his back pocket.

2. He played the role of "Mr. Innocent", kept it light and casual to give you the indication that he's not the cheating type.

3. When an opportunity presented itself, and he assessed the entire situation (based on your positive receptive feedback) he took bolder moves to push a sexual encounter...in which you also took the bait.

What's going on in this Virgo's mind?

Nothing really. Conquer. Mission accomplished.

Not all Virgos are like this.

Some are very shy, reserved, and very faithful.

...But there are others who pretend to be shy and reserved, to disarm you unknowingly.

Something tells me that you landed the latter.
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SpinCycle
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Posted by TaurusBull1977
No judgments here.

Great strategic planning from the Virgo.
Executed brilliantly.
...And you simply took the bait unknowingly.

1. He lied about not having a girlfriend, and when he sensed the chemistry was mutual, he came clean, knowing that he had you in his back pocket.

2. He played the role of "Mr. Innocent", kept it light and casual to give you the indication that he's not the cheating type.

3. When an opportunity presented itself, and he assessed the entire situation (based on your positive receptive feedback) he took bolder moves to push a sexual encounter...in which you also took the bait.

What's going on in this Virgo's mind?

Nothing really. Conquer. Mission accomplished.

Not all Virgos are like this.

Some are very shy, reserved, and very faithful.

...But there are others who pretend to be shy and reserved, to disarm you unknowingly.

Something tells me that you landed the latter.





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wow, you're a real cunt, aren't you?

You say bullshit like, "i sincerely just want to say goodbye", "i know enough it's wrong"

but, that ^^^^^^^^^^^ is just lying words from you that don't mean shit, because the reality is you fucked him anyway. The reality is, this thread exists where you are sitting on pins and needles wondering if he wants you.

So, this "don't judge me" bullshit translates to: validate me

because if you had sound judgment of your own ... then you wouldn't be stepping on another woman's territory.

And then you have the audacity to proclaim he's a cheater. You don't control him, you dumb fuck ... you control yourself .. and YOU are a cheater.

period !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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cancergoddess143
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Posted by TaurusBull1977
No judgments here.

Great strategic planning from the Virgo.
Executed brilliantly.
...And you simply took the bait unknowingly.

1. He lied about not having a girlfriend, and when he sensed the chemistry was mutual, he came clean, knowing that he had you in his back pocket.

2. He played the role of "Mr. Innocent", kept it light and casual to give you the indication that he's not the cheating type.

3. When an opportunity presented itself, and he assessed the entire situation (based on your positive receptive feedback) he took bolder moves to push a sexual encounter...in which you also took the bait.

What's going on in this Virgo's mind?

Nothing really. Conquer. Mission accomplished.

Not all Virgos are like this.

Some are very shy, reserved, and very faithful.

...But there are others who pretend to be shy and reserved, to disarm you unknowingly.

Something tells me that you landed the latter.



Sadly, this quote puts all the blame on the Virgo man and no blame on the immorally loose idiot he was so easily able to manipulate! These tactics on work on WEAK women! Go figure!
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TaurusBull1977
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Posted by DyaAurora

so please tell me, is this a normal thing for a virgo guy? is he like, just a big player and always cheat? does this happen often? please share your thoughts and i hope you guys won't judge me. thanks.



I just simply answered the OP's question.

I wasn't here to pass judgment.

She can take that up with her rabbi, priest, or reverend.

...And since I'm none of the above, I can only simply point out this Virgo's intentions.

He read her, assessed the situation, made a move, then backed off.

Am I vilifying him and victimizing her?

No, I merely pointing out that she's not in control.

It's his stage.

His show.

His plot.

His outcome.

....And the script was already pre-written before she opened her mouth.
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TaurusBull1977
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Posted by LadyOfRebirth

Jheez women are praising cheaters now?

I wonder if you'd be as objective if your Virgo cheated on you. :/



I would stab him in his sleep. 😛
But I tell you what I wouldn't do?
Hold another female accountable for his dickless actions.
I'm not in HS anymore.

Whether a woman obliges or not.
A cheater will always be his own common denominator.
Telling a cheater "No'" doesn't negate him from being a cheater.

Trust me, this isn't the first time this Virgo cheated on his fiance.
He's quite 'seasoned' in his game.
The OP simply thought this Virgo presented a challenge, and she was the chaser.
Not happening.
He played her like a fiddle before the stage-play began.
That's exactly what happened.

Not all Virgos are like this.
I informed the OP she landed the latter.
The 'sweet' convincing, manipulative poker-faced Virgo that she thought was a sweetheart.