Virgo man Gem/Can woman

Ok this is gonna be lengthy but I would like input and I will say upfront I exhibited some bad clingy needy behavior in looking for answers with that said let me tell this.

For last 6 weeks been dating a Virgo man we literally spent all but 6 days of the 6 weeks together. During this time I knew he had a severe drinking issue that he on his own kept telling me he was going to quit. I some how over time fell into pattern that I was purchasing the alcohol. So on Tuesday I told him I could no longer buy at that time he got quiet and would not talk whole demeanor changed. I eventually packed my stuff gave him his gate key and left. The next day I spoke to him and we decided to cont to see what would happen and I went to his house I was there a few hours and he still would not talk said felt bad (withdrawals?? he was not drinking) and needed some alone time. I left but I was furious and did something really stupid I had bottle of wine in the car from the weekend went back to house beat on door handed it to him and left...then we had words several times that evening. Thursday I did not msg except to remind him of something we had alarm set in my phone for. Friday i sent message saying just want you to know I am thinking about you ...he responded thanks I'm not ignoring you just need alone time....I went out that night and sent 4-5 msg but nothing ugly just chit chat.....saturday I sent a message and said I would like to know what is going on and if I should just move on to which he said go ahead move on...I got mad and said things I shouldn't have and even other tactics to get him to talk I had somethings I told him I wanted to get and he said I could get sunday well on sunday first he told me he was not home then said he would put the stuff in the mailbox. I was very upset by all this felt a bit used....now even with me being nice trying to check on him he will not respond and I am getting concerned as I know he has battled depression in past........I guess I am just really questioning if he is that cold hearted with all the time we spent I know he liked me we talked about it can a virgo man just wash their hands like that

Posted by Whouse65
Ok this is gonna be lengthy but I would like input and I will say upfront I exhibited some bad clingy needy behavior in looking for answers with that said let me tell this.

For last 6 weeks been dating a Virgo man we literally spent all but 6 days of the 6 weeks together. During this time I knew he had a severe drinking issue that he on his own kept telling me he was going to quit. I some how over time fell into pattern that I was purchasing the alcohol. So on Tuesday I told him I could no longer buy at that time he got quiet and would not talk whole demeanor changed. I eventually packed my stuff gave him his gate key and left. The next day I spoke to him and we decided to cont to see what would happen and I went to his house I was there a few hours and he still would not talk said felt bad (withdrawals?? he was not drinking) and needed some alone time. I left but I was furious and did something really stupid I had bottle of wine in the car from the weekend went back to house beat on door handed it to him and left...then we had words several times that evening. Thursday I did not msg except to remind him of something we had alarm set in my phone for. Friday i sent message saying just want you to know I am thinking about you ...he responded thanks I'm not ignoring you just need alone time....I went out that night and sent 4-5 msg but nothing ugly just chit chat.....saturday I sent a message and said I would like to know what is going on and if I should just move on to which he said go ahead move on...I got mad and said things I shouldn't have and even other tactics to get him to talk I had somethings I told him I wanted to get and he said I could get sunday well on sunday first he told me he was not home then said he would put the stuff in the mailbox. I was very upset by all this felt a bit used....now even with me being nice trying to check on him he will not respond and I am getting concerned as I know he has battled depression in past........I guess I am just really questioning if he is that cold hearted with all the time we spent I know he liked me we talked about it can a virgo man just wash their hands like that

OK update I messaged to let him know I was worried about him. He responded never worry about me no one else does. I sent some other messages he responded even to me asking if we could see each other as friends some time and he said not now....... but when I ask if he wanted me to quit contacting him to let him know I was thinking about him or check on him and said I was just trying to set the boundary....he completely quit responding where he had been responding immediately. I just am not sure how to take all of this. I want to be there as a friend.