virgo man- how to understand

Had great time together, about 3 weeks. He is very caring, nice, funny. We have super understanding of each other, really like soul mates. We kissed, and talked about having sex, which was not possible that night. I offered to have it next day. He was very into me, I felt that. But then he just didn`t come. I invited him, but he said no. I offered just casual sex, he said that it would be wrong. Because I have husband. I don`t understand why it is problem for him, because for me it is not a problem, I said it to him. Also he said that we have so deep intellectual connection, that just sex would not be good. Also he became distant for few days, after that he was nice again and I felt interest from him, but also he made clear about not having sex with me. I offered to be friends as we are, but friends with benefits... I do not understand him, because I feel that he likes me very much. Can somebody explain? (I am scorpio woman)

It is a problem, Your married! The Virgo has morals, you don't.

but also, we had many conversations, and one he said that he cheated on his wife, when he was married. what about morals then?

Posted by sc0001
but also, we had many conversations, and one he said that he cheated on his wife, when he was married. what about morals then?

People change...maybe AFTER he did, he felt so guilty, and couldn't live with the fact that he betrayed someone he loved/took vows with. Marriage is a serious commitment, you really need to work out your issues with your husband before you do something like that.

ok, there is really big story about my motives, i would not write it all here. I have my reasons to act this way, but actually I just wanted to understand this situation, and how to behave with that virgo person. I can feel sparks every time and also I think - could it be that he likes me more than I expected, maybe he fell in love with me as he became so serious about my marriage?

Posted by sc0001
ok, there is really big story about my motives, i would not write it all here. I have my reasons to act this way, but actually I just wanted to understand this situation, and how to behave with that virgo person. I can feel sparks every time and also I think - could it be that he likes me more than I expected, maybe he fell in love with me as he became so serious about my marriage?

Astrology speaking, Virgo and Scorpio, or The Virgin and The Sinner, have intense chemistry - why your feeling "sparks fly".