Virgo man is making me crazy!

Hi, I'm new to this website and board, so give me a break if I ramble or say something wrong. The thing is, I have been crushing on a Virgo man (who happens to be a 54 year old piano teacher)for about 9 months. He's a Virgo sun (August 29), Moon in Pisces, Mercury in Leo, Mars in Taurus and Libra rising. I'm 50, with Sun in Pisces (March 20th), Moon in Virgo, Mercury in Pisces, Venus in Aries, Mars in Pisces and Taurus rising. He's not handsome in the traditional sense, but he has something I like. I'm always attracted to Virgo men, and I have no idea why. He's quiet, sweet natured, has a good heart, a bit of a hypochondriac, and very musically talented. I'm a fairly advanced student, and I've had numerous teachers through the years, but I become completely nervous and play horribly in front of him, start sweating, dry mouth - the whole deal. We've developed a good friendship, but I would love more. I've thrown out hints and flirted, but he's not into me, I guess. He's had a marriage and a serious relationship break up in the past, so maybe he's just not going in that direction ever again. Anyway, I'm acting like an idiot crushing on him like this. I've never experienced this before, and I feel like I'm acting like an immature, young girl. What do you think? Do I have any chance or romance with this delicious man, or should I just get another teacher 🙂.

Some guys aren't good at taking hint.. most Virgos being some of those, they prefer things to be upfront and plain.. why not try asking him straight out, instead of beating around the bush?

Absolutely, what Nefer said.


Virgo men are so simplistic that they wouldn't notice a hint in the way you suggest it ... he just probably thought you were being nice.


You will have to actually be a little forward with him, take the reigns .. not too aggressive, just a little fiesty ..... once you get his attention that way, he will then give you signals.

Posted by Loveorlust
My Virguy is August 29th too! This is a guy I can't figure out, but I am crushing bad on! Just when I think he isn't interested in me , he will show up charm me into a complete magic spell and physically share his self with me to the point I can barely believe it wasn't a dream! We have been flirting for about 8 weeks and he is finally understanding that im trustworthy enough to start a relationship with- it seems Virgos are very slow to move forward in any relationship, they tend to be loners but value highly their privacy, Independant and family! When I see him I can barley keep my hands off him! So touch his hands when your having a lesson- I have founds that Virgos are so much more sexual then just the actual sex act! You have to keep showing him that he can trust you! I could go on and on, these Virgos are a mystery and I am so happy to have found mine! They have their other side too, I can tell you more, LOL

Ha! Mine's Aug 29th too. So confusing I never know when he cares or doesn't. One day he tells me he doesn't care if I date other people another he's questioning a guy texting me. I don't get it.

Yes, I suppose he is very careful about whom he trusts. He might be as dense as concrete, though, because I've done everything I can think of except crawl into his lap and lick his face! I wouldn't do that anyway. I guess we'll just continue to hang out as friends, and maybe someday he'll warm up to me. I have Venus in Aries so I can't stand waiting! I hate it. Thanks.

very sweet story

if you want his attention be Raunchy
he's a piano teacher
do you want to give him more Chopin
don't be romantic