Virgo man issues

I've been seeing this guy for a few weeks now. It got very serious, very fast. We have been inseparable since we met, and he asked me to be committed to him a few days ago. Prior to this we had both been talking casually to other people. From time to time I have asked if certain women still message him, and if he's still corresponding with others. He gets very upset with me when I question him, saying he answered no many times before, and I need to let it go. We've also had issues because I am a Leo, and I need compliments and I need to talk about feelings. He feels that by him telling me he wants to be committed to me, that's all that needs to be said. Granted he is here with me every night. Well after a big blow up two nights ago, he went out last night with his brother, and ignored me for the most part. He would reply to my messages only very briefly and sporadically, saying he'd meet up with me later in the evening. But that never happened. I went crazy of course,blowing his phone up, because I hate being ignored and I felt so disrespected. So far today i'm being ignored as well. I feel such a huge level of disrespect that I question if I should continue in this relationship, but I see that I've made mistakes as well. I've done some reading about Virgo men, but I really need some insight on the best way to proceed?

You sound like Ritaleona.

Same behavior, same going crazy "of course", no paragraphs

Especially since it's your first post on dxp.

If you're not that poster, look at her topics if there are any in which she didn't hide her posts. You won't get the Virgo dude but you might find your long lost twin.

Posted by Damnata
You sound like Ritaleona.

Same behavior, same going crazy "of course", no paragraphs

Especially since it's your first post on dxp.

If you're not that poster, look at her topics if there are any in which she didn't hide her posts. You won't get the Virgo dude but you might find your long lost twin.

I'm not her...or him. But I'll look them up to see what their situation was like 😢

I read here a lot, but haven't needed to post before. I don't know Virgo men very well so I felt a need to post and try to get some feedback.

Why would you say I won't get him? I feel like we are just getting to know each other, and figuring out the expectations in the relationship. He's already told me he loves me...or was that an empty statement, something I shouldn't take seriously?

Posted by hollygolightly
I've been seeing this guy for a few weeks now. It got very serious, very fast. We have been inseparable since we met, and he asked me to be committed to him a few days ago. Prior to this we had both been talking casually to other people. From time to time I have asked if certain women still message him, and if he's still corresponding with others. He gets very upset with me when I question him, saying he answered no many times before, and I need to let it go. We've also had issues because I am a Leo, and I need compliments and I need to talk about feelings. He feels that by him telling me he wants to be committed to me, that's all that needs to be said. Granted he is here with me every night. Well after a big blow up two nights ago, he went out last night with his brother, and ignored me for the most part. He would reply to my messages only very briefly and sporadically, saying he'd meet up with me later in the evening. But that never happened. I went crazy of course,blowing his phone up, because I hate being ignored and I felt so disrespected. So far today i'm being ignored as well. I feel such a huge level of disrespect that I question if I should continue in this relationship, but I see that I've made mistakes as well. I've done some reading about Virgo men, but I really need some insight on the best way to proceed?

He finally replied saying we are going to get together tonight and talk. I just need to figure out if I should accept/forgive his behavior and be understanding and start fresh, or this is a huge difference in our personalities that won't work?. Should I be accepting of never talking much about feelings, and realize the fact that he's with me all the time means something, or is this guy just not for me? Any Leo/Virgo relationship experience?

If you are looking for attention 24/7 and compliments then a virgo man isn't for you. It will come off as needy and not sef sufficient to a virgo which they don't like. If you know you are a beautiful inside and out then you don't need a man to tell you that. If anything they will compliment you in their own head or just say simple words such as you look great. Short and sweet is all they will give you. You definitely overreacted which will run the virgo off. That's why you take your time with getting to know people. He may be keeping his options open protect your heart and don't let him walk all over you. You both were wrong to be honest.