Virgo man said I love you after only a month

I am dating a Virgo man, He moves very very slow with everything and we are getting to know each other so I’m okay with him taking his time. Im a little confused however because he moves slow with his actions. He said “ I love you” and it confused me cause he is slow with everything else. I have known him for 4 months but never really noticed that he was in to me until a month ago when he reached out to me. It took him 3 months to make a solid move. We have been dating for a month and he said it already. It confused me because 3 months to make a move but one month to say I love you? I never dated a Virgo before. I don’t know his placements. But I’m a Scorpio sun and moon.

I find that Virgo men don’t show their interest until they are certain. He seems pretty certain on you. How do you feel about him? How old are y’all?

You don’t have to say it back and it’s okay to tell him it’s a little early for you. Open honest communication of your feelings is really key here. Even if it’s one short convo to get y’all on the same page.

What is the issue here?

You’re a Scorpio. This happens with us & Virgos lmao. You’ll get used to it lol. Hope he’s not stalkish though 😅

Really? Lol 😂 I don’t think he is stalkerish lol but I wouldn’t know. He could be lurking in the background. I like him so I don’t mind him saying it but the Scorpio in me is like is this real

Posted by Cg2016

You’re a Scorpio. This happens with us & Virgos lmao. You’ll get used to it lol. Hope he’s not stalkish though 😅

I’m 37 and he is 29. Im much older lol 😂. I like him a lot. I felt an Instant Connection. I was already sure about him but was still wanting to go at his pace so I wouldn’t scare him off. So I have been taking it slow cause he is worth it to me then boom he changed the game on me and said I love you. I just want to be sure that it’s genuine and that Virgos don’t just say I love you without meaning it

Posted by AbbyNormal

I find that Virgo men don’t show their interest until they are certain. He seems pretty certain on you. How do you feel about him? How old are y’all?

You don’t have to say it back and it’s okay to tell him it’s a little early for you. Open honest communication of your feelings is really key here. Even if it’s one short convo to get y’all on the same page.

Posted by Scorpio4242

Really? Lol 😂 I don’t think he is stalkerish lol but I wouldn’t know. He could be lurking in the background. I like him so I don’t mind him saying it but the Scorpio in me is like is this real

Posted by Cg2016

You’re a Scorpio. This happens with us & Virgos lmao. You’ll get used to it lol. Hope he’s not stalkish though 😅

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Nah if a virgo says it’s usually real but that could be good or bad lol

Posted by Scorpio4242

I’m 37 and he is 29. Im much older lol 😂. I like him a lot. I felt an Instant Connection. I was already sure about him but was still wanting to go at his pace so I wouldn’t scare him off. So I have been taking it slow cause he is worth it to me then boom he changed the game on me and said I love you. I just want to be sure that it’s genuine and that Virgos don’t just say I love you without meaning it

Posted by AbbyNormal

I find that Virgo men don’t show their interest until they are certain. He seems pretty certain on you. How do you feel about him? How old are y’all?

You don’t have to say it back and it’s okay to tell him it’s a little early for you. Open honest communication of your feelings is really key here. Even if it’s one short convo to get y’all on the same page.

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My immediate thought is that life is short. He’s an adult and he’s made up his mind. Have you? This is an easy one, love. You open your heart to him, or you don’t. I tend to think the risk is worth the possible reward. Virgos love to flip the script so get used to it lol. This will test your flexibility for sure. His mutable nature could be very good for you. You listened to him and respected his pace before so respect it now. It’s his decision. Now you just gotta make yours.

Posted by MareInfame

I would believe him... I’ve never had issues with Virgo. It’s just a very easy compatibility between Scorpios and Virgos.

I do agree with the other poster in that he was slow to make up his mind, but once he was ready and made up his mind, he went full on.

You being a Scorpio, will definitely question this and I wouldn’t go against that... I do think you should observe to see what “love” means to him. It might be defined same as how you define it, or something very simple for you that doesn’t fully fulfill you.

So... let him be him and allow all the time you need to be you. Don’t do anything you aren’t feeling.

Enjoy his love 🥰🥰

This.

As much as I wanna be a dick and say he’s fallen in love with that older pussy, I 100% agree with Abby. 😄

Lol 😂. I’m in tears laughing 😆 but we haven’t had sex yet. Just kissed

Posted by hippiecrite

As much as I wanna be a dick and say he’s fallen in love with that older pussy, I 100% agree with Abby. 😄

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Posted by Scorpio4242

Really? Lol 😂 I don’t think he is stalkerish lol but I wouldn’t know. He could be lurking in the background. I like him so I don’t mind him saying it but the Scorpio in me is like is this real

Posted by Cg2016

You’re a Scorpio. This happens with us & Virgos lmao. You’ll get used to it lol. Hope he’s not stalkish though 😅

Nah if a virgo says it’s usually real but that could be good or bad lol

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Good to know

Posted by maiden

he meant it & probably freaking out and overthinking every angle as to where you are at if you haven't also said it back or anything yet...



*checks for virguy over scorp girl dxp thread... 👀...*

I definitely think that he is freaking out! He will probably disappear on me now😂. He going to need a week to process everything!!!! So cute, cause I like him but he lives in his own world. And me being a Scorpio you have to open up to me and allow me to go deep to fall in love. I will take this as a step in the right direction.

Posted by MareInfame

I would believe him... I’ve never had issues with Virgo. It’s just a very easy compatibility between Scorpios and Virgos.

I do agree with the other poster in that he was slow to make up his mind, but once he was ready and made up his mind, he went full on.

You being a Scorpio, will definitely question this and I wouldn’t go against that... I do think you should observe to see what “love” means to him. It might be defined same as how you define it, or something very simple for you that doesn’t fully fulfill you.

So... let him be him and allow all the time you need to be you. Don’t do anything you aren’t feeling.

Enjoy his love 🥰🥰

You are absolutely correct, I didn’t think about it that way!

Posted by Cg2016

You’re a Scorpio. This happens with us & Virgos lmao. You’ll get used to it lol. Hope he’s not stalkish though 😅

I know two couples (Virgo and Scorpio) who basically put it all on the table not that long into the relationship. One on the FIRST date. I don’t know when they said I love you, but both pretty much talked about it being long term pretty early. Both couples got married, have kids, and are still together today. I guess it can work! 😂

Believe him until he gives you a reason not to

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Posted by Arielle83

What does he mean by “love”?

I’m so curious about all of this myself. The feels and love bombing has perfect timing

It feeds off a woman’s need to be desired or special. This is where self deprecating chicks excel in spotting the facade.

I concur.

It’s awesome that OP may have (or may not have) found love, but this is pretty intense. Love bombing for pussy exists, so I think we should offer different scenarios for her to consider.

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Thanks for the feedback guys, I don’t think he is codependent. He is actually quite the opposite. And as far as sex goes, We could have had sex on several occasions but he is a gentleman. He didn’t try. He moves slow and takes his time with everything and that’s why I was surprised about the I love you. Also note that he has known me for 4 months but we weren’t dating until a month ago.

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Posted by Cg2016

You’re a Scorpio. This happens with us & Virgos lmao. You’ll get used to it lol. Hope he’s not stalkish though 😅

I know two couples (Virgo and Scorpio) who basically put it all on the table not that long into the relationship. One on the FIRST date. I don’t know when they said I love you, but both pretty much talked about it being long term pretty early. Both couples got married, have kids, and are still together today. I guess it can work! 😂

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Basically my scorp/vir story lol. Deep shit very early on lol

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Posted by Cg2016

You’re a Scorpio. This happens with us & Virgos lmao. You’ll get used to it lol. Hope he’s not stalkish though 😅

I know two couples (Virgo and Scorpio) who basically put it all on the table not that long into the relationship. One on the FIRST date. I don’t know when they said I love you, but both pretty much talked about it being long term pretty early. Both couples got married, have kids, and are still together today. I guess it can work! 😂

Basically my scorp/vir story lol. Deep shit very early on lol

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Nice! Lol