Virgo Men and Fidelity (Page 3)

Ok, and I wrote that you need to stop BEFORE I saw the chest comments. lmao

I thought I would try to date a Scorpio...umm...never again? hahaha

"if he's anywhere near mature, it's your Mind that will capture his Heart..."

*melts*

Scorpion King! HA!!!!!

Yeah, I was with a Scorpio for a while. It didn't work out. Yeesh.
Recently I am sort of interested in a Virgo, but thinking about it tends to make me squirm.

"like, most "charts" say that Virgo + Libra is a bad combination. But, me and my Libra ex were a happy couple for a long time - definitely by today's standards!"

I'm not really a fan of traditional compatibility anyway.

"These charts are just "guides" to the "averages" - don't let them encourage or discourage you about a particular guy..."

I know, and yet it still influences some of my decisions. Can't help it.

Are you tryin' to tempt the Ole Dawg??

Hahahahaha, so DY like "big legged" women 😛 J/K

Hahahaha DY, you are great 🙂

Debra's a B cup, with a DD cup attitude!

Oh well, about the size of Debra, but my attitude is more along the C cup 😉

If y'all start talkin' about vulvas, I'm pretty sure Ferghus will wade back into this...

AHHH!!!! OOOO DY! 😛

Actually, I'm really not willing to train anyone. Talk about a way to screw someone up. 😛 "Malleable", eh? *evil grin*

That kind of freaks me out actually.

You can tell I am actually getting freaked out from my over-use of the word actually, actually.

So I should wait and see what a virguys all about when he's in his 30s ... wouldn't that make him more likely to lie to me being older then younger. Plus, I want marriage and children one day, most virgos are done with those thoughts after the age of 27.

Plus like I stated, I can't pull a virguy now, my boobies are too little 😛 When I was a 36 C, then yeah ... but now I'm a ... well, just smaller 😉

It's too bad ... I have a Taurus N.Node that influences me a great deal so I feel that I can compliament a virguy very nicely ....

Don't be so freaked out Wheels,

If you like him, see what he's all about and see what happens 😉

LOL, I terrible at dating but I'm cool as friends 😄

We don't look at AGE the same way others do...

OOOOHHHH!!! Well, how wonderful is that! YAY!!!! DY!!!! 🙂 🙂 🙂 That's awesome dude, I bet you be a wonderful father all over again 😉

Well, I'm still in my twenties so I don't know if a virguy would take me seroiusly. I don't try to act older nor do I try to act younger ... I'm just me 😛 I take pride in being myself even if I come across as just trying to be polite or nice 🙂

We're friendly acquaintances. I'm forcing myself to be cautious. With good reason. 😛
I don't like him THAT much..barely know him...just interested a little. I always have this "thing" with Virgo men where I like 'em a lot right away. But I have only actually taken it to another level once.

Well, it's been a while sense I've really been with a virgo beyond friendship. Like I stated, it would be nice but I can be really firey when pushed too far ... I don't have a temper, but if he were to continue being over-critical of me and what I do ... I'll snap at him !!!!

*** giggle *** but then I'll kiss, and huge him, and squeeze ... and stuff like that 🙂

I can't stay mad too long ... especailly if I know you care for me.

*nudge nudge*

Yeeeeeah. I know str8z. 😉

From what I've notice, most virguys get along with Aries, Leos, and Aqua women the most ... maybe a pisce here and there. Maybe they get turned on by how lively the women are ... I don't know.

LOL, we earth and water women can seem up tight at first 😛

Virgoes never seem interested in me. I do realize, however, that this could be due to the fact that I typically refrain from nudging them.
hehehe

"Too Much Passion"
I thought you were with a Scorpio? 😉

I grow to like Debra each time you speak about her DY 🙂

Or should I call you Dr. OD 😉 Oh yeah 😛

Well, that's something to think about, I guess is just depends if you click or not ... things happen under the strangest circumstances I've realized.

Yeah Wheels, I good at nudging too 😉 But then I get freaked out when the guy nudges back LOL!!!!! My fanstasy is for a man to just take me in a gentle manner and then show me whose boss along with giving me the opportunity to take back conrol 😛

*** cappy blushes TMI!!!! ****

"a Leo with a brain, youch!"

wow! that IS something!!! 😛

If I intimidate them, I might need to nudge them, right? Or won't that work in this case?

cappy, I can actually relate to your TMI 😉

LOL, you should hang around when I get really racy DY 😛

Yes, I need a virguy to turn me out and bring me back in again LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!

Shagging on the second date ..... people actually do that !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Sorry, it'll be a while before I get a good groove going with a guy ... like more then two weeks ... LOL, my be I'm a old fashion thing 😛

Yeah, umm, shagging on the second date, not something I do. Ever? hehehehehe

"In your case, a "subtle" understated "nudge" would be best..."
You CLEARLY don't know the way I operate. muah ha ha

Well DY,

That's fine but only if I known the guy for more then just two or three dates.

I should seek thee to a nunnery LOL

cappysweetie, I really don't think there's anything wrong with waiting a while. The power of doing so is just plain underestimated. 😛

Yeah, not much of a feminist ... I don't feel power in sex ... nope, I only enjoy closeness when there are feelings involved.

I am a strong girl ... but I don't wear it on my sleeve 😉

And when I said power, I don't mean having control over a man, so please don't take it that way. I realized it sounded bad after I posted. hehe

Awesome discuss tonight ... we shall do it again 🙂

I must go and finish the laundry and clean the kitchen and finish organizing.

Goodnight Dr.OD and Wheels,

I check back in later 😉

see ya cappy 🙂

"VirGuy often recognizes (sometimes subconciously) the true power structure, which is one of the many things that makes him hesitate..."

Oooh, interesting. Hmm. *thinks*

But see, that makes me hesitate to. I realize that I am a strong person, and I wish that Virgo men especially could understand that that doesn't mean I want power in a relationship. The prospect of being open and equal is the ONLY thing that appeals to me. *sigh*

But, I guess that if a Virgo is willing to "submit"...I can always show him there's no need for that afterward. lol

Although, I did try that, and it didn't work because he was too insecure. And he ended up cheating on me. Eh, well. Ya win some, ya lose some.

Well, I need to go do some shopping for my dorm 🙂. Thanks a lot for your advice str8z.

>Maybe I missed it before: How long have you known her??

Dy, we started out as email buddies in Feb. She gave me her phone number right off the bat, but I didn't call her as I wanted to take it slow and get to know her as a pen pal at first.

Then in June, when I had a "disagreement" with my LL, and thought I was going to lose my apartment, she offered to let me move into her basement, and we had never even met in RL yet. I declined, but thanked her for her kind offer.

We then went out on a date on July 8th. We had a great time and chatted a lot, and when I went to hug her goodnight, she kissed me.

THen the next week we went riding together, and have been on a couple of dates since... and I'm starting to obsess about her.

But as she's a VERY busy gal, it's only been once a week at best and the last time we saw each other was August 2nd.

Now I finally have a landline phone again (I'm on a WiFi LAN so haven't needed one till now, plus I have my cell) I've been trying to contact her via phone for days, and just get her voice mail, and she never returns my calls. Just got an email from her today asking how I was, but it was short.... she says sorry she's been unavailable, but has been super busy at work.

>Also, I'm the type of person who needs to be in a long term relationship before I can have sex with some guy.

CS, so this is the problem for me... waiting for who knows how long for her to decide if she thinks me worthy of a LTR, then when and if she does, and we have sex, it could very well be bad and then I'd just have to break up with her? WHy take so long? It's why I'm thinking since last weekend, that I should just tell her "lets scrap this move towards intimacy, and just be horse buddies for now".... stop kissing etc and just be friends.

>If y'all start talkin' about vulvas, I'm pretty sure Ferghus will wade back into this...

Heh... was out cleaning out my barn... uugghh. And just when I'd finished... my CLyde gal comes running into the barn, takes a HUGE dump and then runs out again... aarrgg.

Then I write this and try to post it like over an hour ago and the LAN went down, so I went food shopping. Luckily it was back up when I returned.

More about my Cappy gal... on August 5th I get an email from her commenting on an email I wrote her after our last date, during which there was several hours of hot kissing and cuddling, but then I went home about midnight.

I wrote her saying that I left my cell phone on in case she might call me back to spend the night... and she writes:

>"Very funny. Let's not rush "things".

I'm dazzed and confused, dang it.

And I have a confession to make... I said somewhere in this thread I think... or maybe it was another today or yesterday, that I dealt with my situation with consenting adult females but wasn't going to discuss it here... well... I lied. = ( don't know why I should lie to an internet group of buddies who don't know me in RL but I did.... fact of the matter is... I'm ashamed and embarassed to admit it, because it makes me feel like such a loser, but I've been celibate since breaking up with my Cancer Gal two years ago. aarrgg.

I was so afraid of it happening again... meeting some gal just to have it all go sour after three years. I decided to become a hermit of sorts and got into a online RPG, Everquest. It became like an alternate reality for me and all I did was play constantly when off from work. I did go riding sometimes with friends, and still hung out with my horse friends, but no dating, no sex period, aside from self pleasuring.

Last fall I started to come out of my shell a little and started going to horse shows again, and this spring I quit playing that RPG and joined a service called EquestrianSingles and that's how I met this Cappy gal, and several others... but it was all email buddy stuff until I went out with the Cap gal on July 8th.

I was trying to be cool, trying not to get too caught up in her orbit, I wanted to date her and some others I'd been writing too, but when she kissed me, it unleashed a FLOOD of pent up desire, passion and emotion that I had bottled up for two years.....

Now I'm obsessing about her and I realize I need to take a step or two back and go with my original plan, of dating some of these gals and taking it slow.

I guess I'll put my add back up on ES and start browsing thru the gals there again.

"he will need to learn that he can lead a strong personality..."

Ok, I think this is really interesting. I'm assuming you had to learn this? How does it happen?

"Virgo guys are very attractive and they're very dedicated 😢"
why the frown?

"they're good... deep.. passionate."
hehe..maybe some I guess

Oh! ok...

Well let's say that, theoretically, when you were younger, if you met this, like...intelligent, stable girl with a healthy sense of humor and piercing gray/blue/green eyes...is there a way she could convince you that YOU were the one she wanted, and that she adored you, without 20+ years military training? hehe...

Oh! And not wanted or adored you to use for some shady purposes...

hmmm, I wonder if virgo men like plenty of kissing and cuddling as opposed to just sex.

*** giggles *** I love to cuddle and kissing is something I adore to do ... I that mushy, passionate type stuff 😛

cappy, I don't know if most will admit it, but I think they do..hehe

I'll admit it.

tanya, I think a lot of women with Virgo men are lucky too...but there are also the negative aspects as well...I mean...I dunno, I think a woman can be lucky with a man of any sign if he's what she needs.

lol virgopmoon, yer too cute

Hi virgop and Wheels 😛

That's awesome, I very affectionate with I feel for someone so I was just curious ^_^.

Hey, I know virgo men are freaky and kinky (my goodness ....) but do they like "natural" sex sometimes -- you know, the good old fashion foreplay and then doing it ... along with foreplay, then doing it again ... etc.

LOL, forgive me tonight everyone ... I'm feeling alittle frisky tonight ^_^. But I have no one to give all of my friskiness too ~sign~

But don't worry, I can handle it 😉

Haha I have to say yes to the natural sex thing too! (not that I would knooow 😛)