Virgo Men and Fidelity (Page 4)

Well, most a kinky and there only some much a girl can take before she's like "Hey, your too freaky for me" 😛

But it doesn't mean she won't like it 😉

ah, tanya, I see. I know what you mean.

I'm all about what the girl wants, if she wants a "normal" night, then I'm all for it... but she's also gotta realize I have my needs too, so if she can give into a little freakiness every now and then, it's that much better.

lol cappy! I guess if dyrstr8z comes around he'll be able to see you in one of those racey moods you were talkin' about 😛

"I'm all about what the girl wants"

*sigh*

LOL!!!!! No!!! Wheels, I'm trying to come out of my racy mood! Once cappies get started, it's hard to stop 😉

Well virgop,

I like the fact that both partners like to please each other. BUT, that is you definition of freakiness my dear —

Well ... if you don't mind me asking 😉 😉 😉 What do you like?

Ha.... Ha... My freakiness is kind of personal 🙂

Oh come on...we won't tell anyone 😛

"after she took me to bed and rode me like Secretariat going for the Triple Crown..."
lmao!!!!!!

so THAT's the secret 😄😄

I think Dy has had some posts before about freakiness, and I'm not too far off.

No problem virgop, I understand 😉

Just make sure that you are free with your lady 🙂

There's DY,

How are you Dr.OD 😉

OOOOO I see, well excuse me for forgeting DY ... we caps have bad memories 😉

So your not that far off virgop — Cool, your girl loves you 😛 Don't worry, caps are "closet" freaks, but I've become more open in my old age ^_^. LOL!!!!

I'm comfortable talking about anything when I'm in the mood 😉

Ah, my freakiness is only something discussed with my partner in the bedroom... but someday you DXPers might pull it out of me.

I don't want to bother you with an endless stream of personal questions str8z..of course virgopmoon could answer too but he seems a bit more private...I swear I'm not just asking for no reason though...if that makes it a little better...lol

If you leave the sex out of it for a minute 😛 what could a girl such as the one described previously...umm...tone down? insecurities or doubts you had about her feelings for you?

When you were younger, I mean

OOO well maybe one day my true freakiness will come pouring out too 😄

LOL!!! This thread was about fedlity darn it! LOL!!! I didn't mean to change it ... me and my hormones!

Okay, you all can go back to what you were discussing while this cappy chills out 🙂

what = how

lol cappy...threads get derailed all the time, I bet this thread will never get back on topic 😛

>hmmm, I wonder if virgo men like plenty of kissing and cuddling as opposed to just sex.

Don't you understand CS? That IS sex...it's all part of the package. Sex just ain't sex without the intense kissing and cuddling. LOL... like it just ain't a sandwitch without Miracle Whip. (actually I use Hellmans but you get my drift don't you? LOL)

"like it just ain't a sandwitch without Miracle Whip"

Ha! Love it!

I disagree. I am faithful to a fault. I see no logic in straying, it would only force me to train someone else, if I could find one toi my standards again.

I have always been told in every relationshiop that I make a woman feel as if she were the only woman on Earth and that all my attention was focused on her.

Virguy62, have you always been that way?

Well, when I was a teenager, there was not a whole lot of extreme devotion, but from 20 on up it has been. I happen to settle in, and I dote on my woman. I am a hopeless romantic, and i can never get enough holding or cuddling. But I have also gone celibate many times in my life just because I refuse to sleep with just anyone that comes along. I tend to be very picky when it comes to relationships.

I actually prefer being alone versus sleeping with someone I have no feeling or attraction to. And trust me, I Do get the offers. I actually turn more women down than I have been with by a long shot. I prefer quality over quantity any day. I would take one day of solid love and attraction over a year of all sex and no emotional attachment.

that's it.

i'm marrying a virgo.

🙂 Just keep them intellectually stimulated and well appreciated. Virgos can be lethal in arguments.

YES! Virgo men can be lethal in arguements -- you just got to debate with them in order to shut them up *** giggles ***

However, being direct with them will lessen the harshness -- when you "beat around the bush" Oh merciful heavens!!!!!!

Some truth in that one, about having to argue. But it is simply because we need to have the details in order to swim through the situation properly.

We usually are not satisifed with 1 word answers, we need reasons, and all the reasons for those reasons or it just does NOT make sense!

Um, ok, honestly, I've never lost an argument to a Virgo.

"Have we won you over to the Good Guys?? Man, that was EASY..."

You didn't win me over. I've always been in search of good guys. 😛

But I'm rarely involved in fights unless I can stand my ground. So that probably has something to do with it...

and by fights, I mean verbal ones..hehe

You lost Dear Wheel, he just manipulated the words to allow you some face! 🙂

He got what he wanted, I guarantee that!

"You lost Dear Wheel, he just manipulated the words to allow you some face!"

Oh please. I hope you guys are joking with that.

I don't appreciate being made out to be too obtuse to recognize when someone is manipulating me.

"And, I would never try to manipulate you"

No, no. I mean, by saying that a Virgo "let me win" because he "got what he wanted". Makes it look like he is much more intelligent. 😛

Honestly, though, I am yet to be wowed by any Virgo's intellect...hehehe...

Wheelhomies,

Welcome to VigWorld! Don't get offended, the trick is to play as clean or as dirty as the Vguy does. They don't usually play foul unless they feel you've committed the first sin. Virgoans WILL go ape sh*t about tiny little moral details...so if they think you're manipulating them, believe me, they will plot, scheme, do whatever to get you to realize the error of your ways. And, uh, don't try bothering to convince them they are wrong, they won't own up. You have to bring your A game ALL THE TIME. Ain't no half-stepping with these guys. Even when you're mellow, they will wonder 'Why is she being soo mellow?' But as Dyr says, you can't allow them to get over on you.

I see how it is. I'm young so I get no credit. hehehe

I know how to handle Virgos. Just trust me. 😛
One is my one of my best friends.

I am confused. You want me to choose a debate topic and purposely argue? That's not my style .

But str8z, if the situation arises when our viewpoints are out of line, I won't be afraid to take you on...hehehehe

yer funny, ya know that?
hehehehehe 🙂

I mean I was JUST stating a fact....😛

You're tangling with one of the best Steely Wheely. Get ready.

Sorry, DYR, didn't think I was giving away secrets. Since I am a NY girl myself, consider it a gift.

The fact that I've never lost an argument to a Virgo, of course.

catfish where in NY do you hail from?

steely wheely? lol!

honeycoe, I think that's already been answered...more or less...

honeycoe: If he's a good virguy it doesn't take much.

this thread is gonna reach its limit soon 😄

Hmmm, so I must let the virgo show me how much he loves me in the bedroom .... hmm, that's interesting. Like him be my mentor, I his confident .....

OOOO, the teacher-student relationship .... hahahaha, cappies are good at conversating and listening but we are terrible at overblown arguements 😄