Yup that's our look were reading ur soul at least I am lol
Virgo Men...Wha'ts with the hard stares?
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to VitasXisto : "Our stare penetrates through the soul and mind, we analyze by tenfold it is part of our nature, and our eyes are our windows to the soul."
i thought virgos are not min readers 🙂
i thought virgos are not min readers 🙂
Not mind readers. Very intense watchers.
He probably has a strong Scorpio influence somewhere in his chart. Virgos observe but they certainly don't penetrate like a Scorpio does.
I was never told that I have a staring problem at all, lol. I'll only look at someone for longer than usual if I'm trying to pick up and decipher a non-verbal cue. The only Scorpio in my chart is my Venus...which I have a love/hate relationship with 😆
Posted by virgoking
Yup that's our look were reading ur soul at least I am lol
No offense to you Virgos but I would never say Virgos are mind readers or can "look into someone's soul". Many of my family members are Virgos and my father is a Virgo sun and Moon. He nor any Virgo I know are very good at figuring people out, although they think they are. What you guys do is carefully watch a person and note every little detail then make a judgement often based on factors that are extremely superficial at best, like what kind of colors someone wears or what kind of career they have. Virgos are very good at analyzing what is on the surface but they in my experience have almost no ability to go beyond that, and thus are often extremely judgmental. Although every Virgo I know would vehemently disagree with that point. Water signs are truly the only signs that have a natural inclination towards getting down into the deep emotional fabric of a person's being and really figuring a person out on their deepest level. I don't want to sound mean but all of the Virgos I know are a little to shallow to do that.
Posted by AriesScorpioAquariusPosted by virgoking
Yup that's our look were reading ur soul at least I am lol
No offense to you Virgos but I would never say Virgos are mind readers or can "look into someone's soul". Many of my family members are Virgos and my father is a Virgo sun and Moon. He nor any Virgo I know are very good at figuring people out, although they think they are. What you guys do is carefully watch a person and note every little detail then make a judgement often based on factors that are extremely superficial at best, like what kind of colors someone wears or what kind of career they have. Virgos are very good at analyzing what is on the surface but they in my experience have almost no ability to go beyond that, and thus are often extremely judgmental. Although every Virgo I know would vehemently disagree with that point. Water signs are truly the only signs that have a natural inclination towards getting down into the deep emotional fabric of a person's being and really figuring a person out on their deepest level. I don't want to sound mean but all of the Virgos I know are a little to shallow to do that.click to expand
well most Virgos are always on point this is why Scorpio and Virgo clash Scorpio doesn't like people knowing there secrets u can fool some Virgos who don't believe in there gift for reading people but the ones that do u can't fool them. I think this why me and Scorpio can't get along I can see right through there BS. I guess a Scorpio rising and Pluto in the first hose helps LOL.
Posted by AriesScorpioAquarius
He probably has a strong Scorpio influence somewhere in his chart. Virgos observe but they certainly don't penetrate like a Scorpio does.
I kindly beg to differ. I know several Virgo men who could knock me off my feet with their deep, penetrating, —soul-reading?? stare whereas the Scorps I know couldn't hold a candle to the effect. I do know a Scorp or two who has a strong stare, but the Virgs knock me windin??, lol.
Posted by AriesScorpioAquarius
No offense to you Virgos but I would never say Virgos are mind readers or can "look into someone's soul". . . Virgos are very good at analyzing what is on the surface but they in my experience have almost no ability to go beyond that . . . Water signs are truly the only signs that have a natural inclination towards getting down into the deep emotional fabric of a person's being and really figuring a person out on their deepest level. I don't want to sound mean but all of the Virgos I know are a little to shallow to do that.click to expand
ASA, meet me out in the parkin' lot. 😛 Gotta differ here. We have several Earth people in my family (more than just Virgo) and a tendency toward reading people and perceiving their vibes runs in my family. I can't speak for the wealth of Virgos out there, but I know I am strongly inclined toward correctly perceiving vibes and "figuring people out" with incredible accuracy. Btw, I was married to a water sign who couldn't perceive the nose on his face, let alone anything else about anyone else, and I work with another one (Scorp, nonetheless) who wouldn't know how to read a sign staring him in the face. While characteristics may be common to one sign or the other, there's certainly no "monopoly" on them or any guarantee that said sign will definitely possess those traits. Some people are so conflicted they just ain't in tune with their nature. 😄 (IQ level may also play a part, so I hear.)
HAHAHHAHA. Damn you've been ornery of late Shaka.
Posted by wgamador
I love staring deeply into the eyes of one of the women behind the counter at the Dunkin Donuts....LOL.....but I love how i make her nervous.
This, Cajun, is what I was talking about. Here we have a Virgo who admittedly LOVES to make the opposite sex CRAWL with nervous tension and witness the effect, lol!! (I was just attesting to this myself on some thread the other day.)
Attaboy, WG. (What am I talkin' about? You're in a relationship . . . you oughtta have yer butt kicked!) I'm a Virg with Scorp Mars, so I'm right there with ya on this, lol. 😄
Posted by VitasXisto
Our stare penetrates through the soul and mind, we analyze by tenfold it is part of our nature, and our eyes are our windows to the soul.
Well said, VX. You've some rather soulful eyes yourself. 😉
Posted by Shaka_laka_boomboomPosted by venusianbull
HAHAHHAHA. Damn you've been ornery of late Shaka.
shhhhH!!!!!!!!!!!! 😛click to expand
Okay! Okay! 😛 Sheeeesh! LOLOL
Posted by virgokingPosted by AriesScorpioAquariusPosted by virgoking
Yup that's our look were reading ur soul at least I am lol
No offense to you Virgos but I would never say Virgos are mind readers or can "look into someone's soul". Many of my family members are Virgos and my father is a Virgo sun and Moon. He nor any Virgo I know are very good at figuring people out, although they think they are. What you guys do is carefully watch a person and note every little detail then make a judgement often based on factors that are extremely superficial at best, like what kind of colors someone wears or what kind of career they have. Virgos are very good at analyzing what is on the surface but they in my experience have almost no ability to go beyond that, and thus are often extremely judgmental. Although every Virgo I know would vehemently disagree with that point. Water signs are truly the only signs that have a natural inclination towards getting down into the deep emotional fabric of a person's being and really figuring a person out on their deepest level. I don't want to sound mean but all of the Virgos I know are a little to shallow to do that.
well most Virgos are always on point this is why Scorpio and Virgo clash Scorpio doesn't like people knowing there secrets u can fool some Virgos who don't believe in there gift for reading people but the ones that do u can't fool them. I think this why me and Scorpio can't get along I can see right through there BS. I guess a Scorpio rising and Pluto in the first hose helps LOL.click to expand
Scorpio Ascendant changes everything. It's why I'm not another oblivious Aries lol.
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@Strings
Virgo stare knocking you over? Virgo have none of the intensity or power that gives the Scorpionic Glare it's effect. All of the Virgos I know believe in their "gift" as you put it. But they are wrong most of the time because that are far too caught up in being self-righteous that they see thins from an extremely slanted point of view. Virgo is not a sign that has a strong natural intuition and intuition is what gives water signs such a powerful ability to read people, not facts and numbers. If you are good at people then you must have some strong water influences in your chart.
Virgo stare knocking you over? Virgo have none of the intensity or power that gives the Scorpionic Glare it's effect. All of the Virgos I know believe in their "gift" as you put it. But they are wrong most of the time because that are far too caught up in being self-righteous that they see thins from an extremely slanted point of view. Virgo is not a sign that has a strong natural intuition and intuition is what gives water signs such a powerful ability to read people, not facts and numbers. If you are good at people then you must have some strong water influences in your chart.
Virgos have no clue how to approach you when feelings for you are present. Just listen in here to all the Virgos who talk about how they clam up and back off when they think real feelings are beginning to get involved.
I could go through here and find some instances where the V's talk about how insecure it makes them feel when they are unsure whether thier feelings will be reciprocated, which makes them pull away .. back off to just watch intensely.
The stare is them trying to get you to come to them ... they let you know they are interested through this stare and if you follow through, then you will be forever doing the emotional work, and always going to them .. for they will always be afraid to show how they feel, and will always be looking at you, to tell to come to them and do them again.
Go for it, if you have fallen, which you will soon enough ... however, be aware that you will always be doing the emotional work in the relationship.
I could go through here and find some instances where the V's talk about how insecure it makes them feel when they are unsure whether thier feelings will be reciprocated, which makes them pull away .. back off to just watch intensely.
The stare is them trying to get you to come to them ... they let you know they are interested through this stare and if you follow through, then you will be forever doing the emotional work, and always going to them .. for they will always be afraid to show how they feel, and will always be looking at you, to tell to come to them and do them again.
Go for it, if you have fallen, which you will soon enough ... however, be aware that you will always be doing the emotional work in the relationship.
I want to add here that it's not just the stare of desire that V's have .. for they don't know how to approach, or deal with any of thier feelings that are associated with a relatinship.
So, they will stare at you with fire, if they are mad .. and continue to doso until you open the door for them to fire their guns at you.
They will stare at you with envy if you're eating a peanutbutter and jelly sandwich on toaste and loving every bite ... until you go fix them one.
They will stare at you for everything they are feeling ... with hopes that you will create an environment for them where the expression of how they feel is made for them .. because they do not know how to do it themselves.
Virgos are passive/aggressive in the extreme.
So, they will stare at you with fire, if they are mad .. and continue to doso until you open the door for them to fire their guns at you.
They will stare at you with envy if you're eating a peanutbutter and jelly sandwich on toaste and loving every bite ... until you go fix them one.
They will stare at you for everything they are feeling ... with hopes that you will create an environment for them where the expression of how they feel is made for them .. because they do not know how to do it themselves.
Virgos are passive/aggressive in the extreme.
Posted by AriesScorpioAquarius
@Strings
Virgo stare knocking you over? Virgo have none of the intensity or power that gives the Scorpionic Glare it's effect.. . . Virgo is not a sign that has a strong natural intuition and intuition is what gives water signs such a powerful ability to read people, not facts and numbers. If you are good at people then you must have some strong water influences in your chart.
ASA, internet articles are rife with talk of Virgo's strong intuitive sense. This is not exclusively a "water sign" right. I know a FAIR amount of water signs that don't have a clue. (Guessing they're muddled with too much earth?!?) Some Virgos may not possess this trait, but some of us absolutely do. And whether or not I have water influences, I'M STILL A VIRGO. So how can you tell a highly intuitive Virgo that she's not really intuitive like she thinks she is or that her intuition is owing to something other than her given nature? This is a Virgo talking: and I'm extremely INTJuitive.
"Virgo have none of the intensity or power that gives the Scorpionic Glare it's effect." This is a matter of opinion . . . your opinion. DXP is laden with tons of references of women talking about Virgo men's hypnotic stares and deep, penetrating, or powerfully sexy gazes. (Ummm, we're on one of 'em right now.) I have been told for eons that my own gaze puts people very ill at ease b/c my eyes are so "strong" and over-powering. Scorps just don't have that power with me for some reason. Some Virgos do. 😉
As I said if you are intuitive you probably have a water sign as a moon or ascendant. I would guess going by what you have said you have some Scorpio. I have yet to encounter a Virgo with any sort of empathy or intuition, but I know many who are under the delusion that they do. I'm not saying you're one of them. I believe you when you say you are intuitive. =)
As a group Virgos have no intuition whatsoever and little empathy. They are all about physical things you can touch, move around, and organize. Virgos, like all mutable signs with the exception of Pisces have a fairly low emotional intelligence. No offense but any sort of suggestion that Virgo as a sign is a deep, complex, and understanding is a JOKE.
P Angel!
I love reading your posts on Virgo men! And about all men!
I recently read a complaint from a virgo, about why us women keep asking the same questions. Over and over, instead of learning from posts and answers given.
Its because the Vguy is such a dilemma, and when someone is involved, and sees there are answers available, even after days & nights of reading alllll the threads (and loving PAngel's ones!) we need more advice! Advice that could lead us to make a decision that is "perfect". Should we dump this man who really drives us batty but seems to really love us and who we absolutely adore, more and more if we start to accept his goofyness? Because we know that if we do dump him...he won't chase us!
Surely we can find the exact advice that will lead us in the best direction...because our virguy won't give us any clue.
Mine has family that like to control him, and he's never made it on his own yet, but is 50. He loves status quo. We live in separate towns.I do all the emotional work and then some. Even all the travelling, phoning.
He stood me up last time I saw him. A month ago. I think if he wants me at all he can decide, its only fair to him. I can't take any more rejection or take the burden of every ounce of effort. I think HE MUST want to end it, because he knows its driving me crazy!
The stare is so Virgo. Mine has one that tickles the back of by frontal lobe. I think he has Scorp rising, and Pisces Moon. Virgo in Venus, alas.
I am Aqua, cap rising, venus aqua.
You are spot on about passive/aggressive, I've finally realised that about mine. Other than the fact you adore your husband, how do you deal with it?
I love reading your posts on Virgo men! And about all men!
I recently read a complaint from a virgo, about why us women keep asking the same questions. Over and over, instead of learning from posts and answers given.
Its because the Vguy is such a dilemma, and when someone is involved, and sees there are answers available, even after days & nights of reading alllll the threads (and loving PAngel's ones!) we need more advice! Advice that could lead us to make a decision that is "perfect". Should we dump this man who really drives us batty but seems to really love us and who we absolutely adore, more and more if we start to accept his goofyness? Because we know that if we do dump him...he won't chase us!
Surely we can find the exact advice that will lead us in the best direction...because our virguy won't give us any clue.
Mine has family that like to control him, and he's never made it on his own yet, but is 50. He loves status quo. We live in separate towns.I do all the emotional work and then some. Even all the travelling, phoning.
He stood me up last time I saw him. A month ago. I think if he wants me at all he can decide, its only fair to him. I can't take any more rejection or take the burden of every ounce of effort. I think HE MUST want to end it, because he knows its driving me crazy!
The stare is so Virgo. Mine has one that tickles the back of by frontal lobe. I think he has Scorp rising, and Pisces Moon. Virgo in Venus, alas.
I am Aqua, cap rising, venus aqua.
You are spot on about passive/aggressive, I've finally realised that about mine. Other than the fact you adore your husband, how do you deal with it?
Once again if water sign were as good as they think they are at reading people they would not be here asking questions all the time about virgos and getting there heart broken. We can read people but we do not always agree with what we are reading, so some virgos second guess them selfs. The virgos that are in bad shape don't trust this skill and that is why they are in bad shape because they saw it coming and the are upset because they couldn't do anything about it. That is were virgos woe its me comes from. And if people that say they know Virgos so well, if they really did know virgos they would know that virgos like to know why some thing is happening. Everything has to have a reason with it including love, We like to know why WE ARE FEELING THIS WAY AND why you feel this way etc.Its just in our nature I never seen a virgo that didn't have this need to know why this and that is happening. To give you a glimpse into a virgos mind.... this is how it goes. Virgo being duel meaning there are two minds, one is logical the mercury side and the other is spiritual the earth side. I believe the earth side reads people, any who Virgo meets some one...
Virgo stare activates
earth side= say that person is an ass hole
mercury side= say how do you know that.
Earth side= i just feel that way about them.
mercury side= your wrong and im going to prove it you lets talk to them.
go over there we talk and than just like the earth side of us said that person is a maker.
Mercury gets in deep depression because he was wrong and wasted time and virgos hate wasting time.
Later in life virgos starts trusting the earth side more because its always right.
the end
Virgo stare activates
earth side= say that person is an ass hole
mercury side= say how do you know that.
Earth side= i just feel that way about them.
mercury side= your wrong and im going to prove it you lets talk to them.
go over there we talk and than just like the earth side of us said that person is a maker.
Mercury gets in deep depression because he was wrong and wasted time and virgos hate wasting time.
Later in life virgos starts trusting the earth side more because its always right.
the end
Posted by Shaka_laka_boomboom
Your ignorance is appalling lol you probably didnt even know Virgo is a dual sign like Gemini, Pisces and Sagittarius, meaning we are not only about earth and the physical but also the divine (represented by the wings in the bird)
My opinions are based on personal experience so calling me ignorant only makes you look silly. I have never met a Virgo who is intuitive and understanding and like I've said before, I have a family full of Virgos. If I meet one who is like that maybe I'll have a change of heart but until then my point remains.
I somehow feel that virgo doesn't get his feet wet enough to actually test the waters properly. If he put more of himself into a relationship, he would learn the taste of true love. You have to give to get.
Just being present isn't enough. He must be accounted for too. Accountable.
When he stays his emotions, he can't accept love either. He doesn't think he deserves it because he knows he hasn't done any work.
Just being present isn't enough. He must be accounted for too. Accountable.
When he stays his emotions, he can't accept love either. He doesn't think he deserves it because he knows he hasn't done any work.
i think shes showing her envy for these very power virgo attributes everybody knows how strong virgo intution is. theres one scorpio friend i have that always marvels when he looks at my timing: when i do things how smooth and right timing it is, he tryied to figure this out rom me, while in my mind im thinking damn this dude is slow when he puts up a front like hes the know it all.scorpio puts all of theie socalled "intution" and corny humor in front of people while we in our heads we say to ourselves "thats it?" scorpio and water signs intelligence and intution is always limited they just bring emotional attention to it and if nobody accepts them they start crying like little babies and try to find a way to make it your fault, when all we do to solve that problem is treat them like the little kids they are by laguhing it off.
I think I'll give an example of why Virgos are not intuitive or understanding.
I grew up with a Father who is a Virgo Sun and Moon. He was completely intolerant of any individuality I tried to express and constantly slammed me with criticism on every little thing I ever did. When I was upset or angry he never once tried to understand where I was coming from or why I felt. He was absolutely uninterested in anything that was out of his narrow-minded view of the world. There was only one way: His way and all other ways were folly. He never rarely showed any affection and constantly compared me to other kids and told me how I should be more like them. Essentially I was never good enough for him. I never did anything right in his eyes. His response to me getting angry or upset was to shut me down and tell me how illogical I am being.
Every other Virgo I have met in my entire life and the 10 other Virgos on both sides of my family were more or less a repeat of my father. They slammed a judgment on me without ever taking the time to understand me or even really show any sort of interest in my feelings. I had several Virgo friends when I was in High School and when I needed someone to talk to about my feelings they would either pretend to listen or tell me to stop whining.
As you can see I have had an overwhelmingly negative experience with Virgos. I can say with confidence and considerable personal experience on my side they do not posses any sort of intuition and they do not understand the emotional side of things very well. In fact Virgos tend to be down right abusive towards other people. I have friends with a Virgo parent who would agree with me. They are intolerant and abusive if they allow their worst sides to take hold and from my experience they often do.
I grew up with a Father who is a Virgo Sun and Moon. He was completely intolerant of any individuality I tried to express and constantly slammed me with criticism on every little thing I ever did. When I was upset or angry he never once tried to understand where I was coming from or why I felt. He was absolutely uninterested in anything that was out of his narrow-minded view of the world. There was only one way: His way and all other ways were folly. He never rarely showed any affection and constantly compared me to other kids and told me how I should be more like them. Essentially I was never good enough for him. I never did anything right in his eyes. His response to me getting angry or upset was to shut me down and tell me how illogical I am being.
Every other Virgo I have met in my entire life and the 10 other Virgos on both sides of my family were more or less a repeat of my father. They slammed a judgment on me without ever taking the time to understand me or even really show any sort of interest in my feelings. I had several Virgo friends when I was in High School and when I needed someone to talk to about my feelings they would either pretend to listen or tell me to stop whining.
As you can see I have had an overwhelmingly negative experience with Virgos. I can say with confidence and considerable personal experience on my side they do not posses any sort of intuition and they do not understand the emotional side of things very well. In fact Virgos tend to be down right abusive towards other people. I have friends with a Virgo parent who would agree with me. They are intolerant and abusive if they allow their worst sides to take hold and from my experience they often do.
im sorry to hear about ur experiences with virgos ASA but all virgos aren't that way you have to consider chart placements i know virgos like that it annoying how sometimes they criticize every damn thing but i check them real quick cuz i dont play lol.
Posted by AriesScorpioAquarius
I think I'll give an example of why Virgos are not intuitive or understanding.
I grew up with a Father who is a Virgo Sun and Moon. He was completely intolerant of any individuality I tried to express and constantly slammed me with criticism on every little thing I ever did. When I was upset or angry he never once tried to understand where I was coming from or why I felt. He was absolutely uninterested in anything that was out of his narrow-minded view of the world. There was only one way: His way and all other ways were folly. He never rarely showed any affection and constantly compared me to other kids and told me how I should be more like them. Essentially I was never good enough for him. I never did anything right in his eyes. His response to me getting angry or upset was to shut me down and tell me how illogical I am being.
Every other Virgo I have met in my entire life and the 10 other Virgos on both sides of my family were more or less a repeat of my father. They slammed a judgment on me without ever taking the time to understand me or even really show any sort of interest in my feelings. I had several Virgo friends when I was in High School and when I needed someone to talk to about my feelings they would either pretend to listen or tell me to stop whining.
As you can see I have had an overwhelmingly negative experience with Virgos. I can say with confidence and considerable personal experience on my side they do not posses any sort of intuition and they do not understand the emotional side of things very well. In fact Virgos tend to be down right abusive towards other people. I have friends with a Virgo parent who would agree with me. They are intolerant and abusive if they allow their worst sides to take hold and from my experience they often do.
I think we are getting our definitions of intuitive mixed up because what you are describing is someone who is not sympathetic. Now me being a virgo I would rank us low on the sympathetic side its not that we are its our delivery is not sympathetic. Now you being a scorpio your sensitive all water signs are sensitive it a fact I don't care what type of front you try to put on we know the truth. Now some times us as virgos know truth AND WE know it hurts so sometime we might not say anything and that is why some people call us two face. But we also know sometime the truth can wake ur a
I think if Virgos were so good at seeing the truth my family would have been a lot nicer to me. They saw me as being rebellious and hostile because that was the easy way to avoid taking responsibility.
Posted by AriesScorpioAquarius
I think if Virgos were so good at seeing the truth my family would have been a lot nicer to me. They saw me as being rebellious and hostile because that was the easy way to avoid taking responsibility.
taking responsibility for what —?? are you rebellious are you hostile sounds like a scorpio to me lol but i don't know you so I cant say if its true or not only u can.
Posted by AriesScorpioAquarius
I think I'll give an example of why Virgos are not intuitive or understanding.
I grew up with a Father who is a Virgo Sun and Moon. He was completely intolerant of any individuality I tried to express and constantly slammed me with criticism on every little thing I ever did. When I was upset or angry he never once tried to understand where I was coming from or why I felt. He was absolutely uninterested in anything that was out of his narrow-minded view of the world. There was only one way: His way and all other ways were folly. He never rarely showed any affection and constantly compared me to other kids and told me how I should be more like them. Essentially I was never good enough for him. I never did anything right in his eyes. His response to me getting angry or upset was to shut me down and tell me how illogical I am being.
AriesScorpAqua: I grew up with a Virgo father very similar to yours. Although I do not know his moon. He was a cop, always critical, and his kids could never do anything right. But looking back I see a man who was not happy in his marriage, suffered from anxiety I believe, and was also raised by an insensitive father himself. When he was struck ill from cancer, his whole demeanor changed. He became a different man. I am currently dating my first Virgo man and he so far does not display behavior like my father did. I also know many Virgo men at work who are loving in their relationships and family. So I am keeping an open mind regarding all men in general as I move back into the dating thing again.
Posted by AriesScorpioAquarius
As a group Virgos have no intuition whatsoever and little empathy. They are all about physical things you can touch, move around, and organize. Virgos, like all mutable signs with the exception of Pisces have a fairly low emotional intelligence. No offense but any sort of suggestion that Virgo as a sign is a deep, complex, and understanding is a JOKE.
Sweetie, you've either had a bad run with a couple Virgos, you're 12 years old, or you have no idea how to even spell the word ALOSTRYGO. I could understand if you were a Virgo expounding on your own deficiencies (and then I'd just tell you that you were severely emotionally damaged or some such), but to instruct others as to the inner workings of their sign that you don't inherently possess and to so doggedly hold to such unfounded information is simply alarming. Your "insight" is incredibly shallow and understudied. You presume to tell us Virgos what our nature and propensities are, when we're all but screaming at you what they're NOT. You've made us sound like something off of "Artificial Intelligence" running around trying to act human. — I'm physical and tactile, sure, but I'm heavily mentally and intellectually-oriented, almost hyper-intuitive with psychic tendencies, very ardent and alive emotionally, STRONGLY empathetic inwardly (okay, so I don't always express it outwardly like an air sign), and have a set of penetrating eyeballs that would melt the metal off your clothes.
FWIW, my ascendant is in Taurus and my moon in Sagittarius. Virgos come in all shapes and sizes, ASA--as does every sign in the zodiac. We can't all be defined by something you read in a comic book 20 years ago.
Posted by Shaka_laka_boomboom
Your ignorance is appalling lol you probably didnt even know Virgo is a dual sign like Gemini, Pisces and Sagittarius, meaning we are not only about earth and the physical but also the divine (represented by the wings in the bird)
Ima hafta go with my homeboy Shakalicious on this one!!!
Posted by virgoking
Once again if water sign were as good as they think they are at reading people they would not be here asking questions all the time about virgos and getting there heart broken.click to expand
Thank. YOU!!!
Kali, what beautiful, sage, and well-expressed sentiments!
Posted by P-Angel
Virgos are passive/aggressive in the extreme.
Silly bitch (this doesn't sound passive), not all Virgos are like this, and if you quote me from the thread i have recently created, I will tell you now: I HAD LITTLE INTEREST IN THEM.
Don\'t know, I too stupid to stare at people, and i think too little to back off on people...I hardly gaze across the room to stare at a woman, and i have little to no care to do so, and if the woman wants to approach me, so be it. I rather just make a joke, and come off as an idiot than be a wanna be \"sex symbol\". If anything bad boys and players are usually pussies who were screwed over by girlfriends whom they \"loved\" with all their heart. I rather be sortilege and strange than stare and be gray...
Yet, I am much like pisces2202 who instantly attached myself to the woman i saw worthy, and i\'m very open about myself, but i can hold off for years unlike some guys who needs to constantly reassure themselves.
Read goethe\'s, \"Sorrows of young werther\" becuase that book drips in Virgo romance, and crisis.
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Yet, I am much like pisces2202 who instantly attached myself to the woman i saw worthy, and i\'m very open about myself, but i can hold off for years unlike some guys who needs to constantly reassure themselves.
Read goethe\'s, \"Sorrows of young werther\" becuase that book drips in Virgo romance, and crisis.
😉 BLAH BLAH BLAH A BLAH BLAH BLAH
pisces2202\'s hubby... YEEE.
Posted by AriesScorpioAquarius
I have never met a Virgo who is intuitive and understanding and like I've said before, I have a family full of Virgos. If I meet one who is like that maybe I'll have a change of heart but until then my point remains.
You've just met a whole slew of us, ASA!!!
Posted by AriesScorpioAquarius
I think if Virgos were so good at seeing the truth my family would have been a lot nicer to me. They saw me as being rebellious and hostile because that was the easy way to avoid taking responsibility.
Maybe just maybe...
I am sorry to read about your past life kaliscorp, but i hope you took your past life as a challenge to better the future of your children, so they don\'t go through this trouble, and i bet you are. 🙂
They don't want to take responsibility for the fact the reason we don't get along is because of their intolerance towards those who are different. Sure there must be some nice Virgos out there, I've just never met them which is the point I have been making over and over lol. And until I see it, I won't believe it. I'm sick of beating a dead horse and I don't really care if you call me shallow or immature or whatever. That's your opinion and you're entitled to it.
Posted by virgoking
I think we are getting our definitions of intuitive mixed up because what you are describing is someone who is not sympathetic.click to expand
Intuition = direct perception of truth, fact, etc., independent of any reasoning process; immediate apprehension.
(connotation)-understanding a situation without effort; prodigy or mystic.
Sympathetic = to understand that person's feelings
(connotation)-putting yourself in their shows
Empathetic = to listen and feel sorry for them.
(connotation)-care for the needs of others
...yeah, these three are often confussing...
Posted by AriesScorpioAquarius
They don't want to take responsibility for the fact the reason we don't get along is because of their intolerance towards those who are different. Sure there must be some nice Virgos out there, I've just never met them which is the point I have been making over and over lol. And until I see it, I won't believe it. I'm sick of beating a dead horse and I don't really care if you call me shallow or immature or whatever. That's your opinion and you're entitled to it.
It's okay, I get you. Majority of my family are scorpio, pisces, and taurus, but my intermediate family are scorpios, and they are psycho beyond all belief, and i had to play therapist...
Yet you have to remember, just because you were brought up with terrible people doesn't mean you will live with people like that forever. In the end, you make the decision. 😄
That\'s great, and i thank you for showing me that there are people out there who take up a stand and fight through the troubles of life rather than fall victim to their problems and wallow in their own self-pity, again i thank you. 🙂
Wow, i have never heard of children being disciplined without the spank method (heh heh sounds pretty kinky 😉 ), and i\'m happy that your children are growing up a great amount of care and love from their well supportive mother, you. 🙂
Wow, i have never heard of children being disciplined without the spank method (heh heh sounds pretty kinky 😉 ), and i\'m happy that your children are growing up a great amount of care and love from their well supportive mother, you. 🙂
Posted by AriesScorpioAquarius
I think I'll give an example of why Virgos are not intuitive or understanding.
ASA, your example is compelling and unfortunate, but it is your example. It in no way defines all Virgos as lacking intuition or empathy. Rather, your perspective of Virgos has almost certainly been tainted because of your experience with your father (and other Virgs in the family tree). I'm gonna be honest with you: I had such a bad run with my ex, I have to be careful not to cast a dark shadow over all people under that sign and lump them all in the same box just because my ex-husband capitalized on every awful, negative trait his sun sign has to offer and left me wishing I'd never met the species. I know some wonderful people (fortunately!) of that same sign that have helped to cancel out such a dim picture and helped me focus on the positive aspects of it in emotionally healthy people.
Your father was almost certainly affected by a mental disorder (bi-polar? NPD?) and can not be compared to mentally-sound, emotionally healthy Virgos, as his maladies forced forward the darkest aspects the sign has to offer. He almost certainly suffered abuse, neglect, or deprivation of love himself as a child. THIS AFFECTS PEOPLE and can alter their given nature by over-developing the darker aspects of it and squelching the kinder, more beneficial ones. I know three people right off the top of my head whose fathers virtually match the description of yours and they were Taurus, Leo, and Capricorn. The actress Joan Crawford ("Mommie Dearest") was an Aries, Michael Jackson's insanely abusive father a Leo, Stalin was an Aries, Hitler an Aries/Taurus and the man who beat him senseless as a child was a Gemini. Saddam Hussein (you know, ruthless Saddam Hussein?) was a Taurus and Fidel Castro is a Leo. Amon Goeth, one of Hitler's most ruthless and blood-thirsty henchmen was a SCORPIO, mind you!! David Berkowitz (the Son of Sam) was a Gemini, Ted Bundy--sicko serial rapist and butcherer--a Sagittarian, and Jeffrey Dahmer, obviously a very non-empathetic serial killer and cannibal, another Gemini. (Dang, what is it with these Geminis??) Now, these people aren't all dripping with Virgo in their charts and none of them has his/her sun in Virgo. (Ahem, cough! FIRE seems to be cropping up a lot, though, doesn't it??
So, again, the Virgo sign itself can not be typified by your abusive, likely mentally/emotionally ill father. Neither can you--the product of that abuse and possibly over-cultivated in the negative aspects of your own sign as a result--be regarded as an authority on basic Virgo nature, and certainly not as it appears in healthy specimens. Mental illness (I'm including alcoholism) and emotional damage wreaks havoc on people's minds/behaviors. We can't be referring to such people as stereotypes and patterns for much of anything . . . except their disorders.
What you don't realize, ASA, is that by stubbornly clinging to such irrational, one-sided views on Virgos that you simply can't justify broadly, you make yourself as narrow-minded, judgmental, and self-righteous as you accuse us Virgos (and your own father) of being. That, my dear fellow, is hypocrisy plain and simple.
What you don't realize, ASA, is that by stubbornly clinging to such irrational, one-sided views on Virgos that you simply can't justify broadly, you make yourself as narrow-minded, judgmental, and self-righteous as you accuse us Virgos (and your own father) of being. That, my dear fellow, is hypocrisy plain and simple.
*Correction: I have found several different birth dates for Amon Goeth, the Nazi psycho. But Wikipedia has it as December 11, 1908, which concurs with another source, and which makes him a Sagittarian: more FIRE!
Posted by **StringsAttached**
*Correction: I have found several different birth dates for Amon Goeth, the Nazi psycho. But Wikipedia has it as December 11, 1908, which concurs with another source, and which makes him a Sagittarian: more FIRE!
If you are refering to my claim to johann wolfgang von goethe then you are far off or at least misinterpreted the figure i presented, but it's okay strings; YOU ARE TOO CUTE (HOT) 😄
Posted by virg_goki
@sorti: isn't pisces2202 the gal who posted about her virgo boy-fie and how he was quite to want her and show her to his family?
Yeah, i remember she posted something that they didn't have many problems, but he was very quick to jump into the relationship with her and introduce his family to her while she remained a bit skeptical about him moving too quickly, which she assumed wasn't a virgo problem, but i consider this dilemma a man problem. We, the men of the world (sounds cool saying that haha), need our sexual freedom as youths, but we get all giggly and cute once we find that hugging spirit/ego we call a WUVER. 😉
Posted by 5lion5
I thought Scorpio men were the only ones with the intense-hypnotic staring.
I've been dating a virgo man for a couple of weeks now and I've noticed that he totally has a deep-hypnotic stare. I know quite a few virgo male and female's and call them friends. I can honestly say that I've never noticed this kind of stare from them but then again all my friendships with them are platonic.
Also, I have no clue what his moon/venus/mars alignments are. Just that he was born on Sept 21st.
Remember Norman Bates was a Virguy
(Moahahahaha)
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