Virgo/Virgo dating?

I have a story about 2 Virgos. One, I wanted to date, the other, I dated.

I was about 20 years old, and I worked with an August Virgo who was a year older than me. I'm a September. We started hanging out, and became very good friends. I fell deeply in love with her, but she didn't like me like that. I was 'the best friend.' lol Years later, we are still friends, and talk on the phone from time to time. Looking back, I'm glad we never dated.

Now, when I was 24, I dated a Virgo for the first time. My birthday is 9-7-73. Hers is 9-7-77. You'd think we would be alike, right? WRONG!!! I'm not a clean freak, but I'm neatly cluttered. She was a total slob. She only washed dishes when she ran out. She only took out the trash when she had to step over it. She had a non existent sense of humor, and wasn't that bright. And sex? We dated for 2 months, and only slept together twice. She was a prude about sex, but was also a tease. But, she was also a model, so I guess that goes with the territory. Maybe that had something to do with it. Its possible that she had issues, but she never told me about them. In 2007, she found me on Myspace, and we wound up talking on the phone a few times. She was married, and unhappy. I had no desire to get together with her, and I never brought it up, but she kept telling me how bad things were. I told her that if it was that bad, she needed to leave. She told me that she had nowhere to go. I told her that I wished her luck, but I couldn't help her, and I never heard from her again.

She was literally testing the water for me to come rescue her. When I wouldn't, she bailed. It baffles me that we share the same birthday, but she is not only unlike me, but also seems to be the 'Anti Virgo.'

Thoughts?

She's a Snake. 😉

I'm a Virgo and I'm quite messy. Though I'm conscientious if there are other people sharing my space.
Virgos who know me do Not think I am at all Virgo. I don't think I'm like this lady...hopefully not! Ha.

But yeah each sign has people who suck, I wouldn't dwell on her too much.
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Oh but I'd like to mention - twice you've stated you've looked back and been quite content that you didn't pursue these women? I think it is a Virgo thing to rationalise missing out on things in the past, because we tend not to miss what we never had; unlike other signs who may dream and regret "what could have been". Just a random thought. Feel free to disagree if you think I'm incorrect.

No, I think you're correct. 🙂

What could have been didn't happen, and therefore didn't happen. Period. lol