Virgo woman says (Page 2)

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Oh wait after I said good morning and before she sent the flowers pic she said "we're still on for tonight, be at mine at 830, hope you're coming with flowers" then we agreed the time THEN she sent the pic.. sorry forgot to add that in above. Clearly she wants me to play the game, step up, take my woman and be in charge! But I did not like her sending that photo. Makes me feel played and stupid..

I just had similar experience with someone - he also told me that his ex is still on his mind and he want a pause. He popped up again, honestly, if you take advice here and bring low effort rose or whatever crap, you do not stand a chance. And yeah, you were on "a break" for 2 very very different reasons. If you want to win her over - step up. If no -effff off and let the Pieces do his thing.

Any man who tries to outdo a guy with a bigger bouquet does not show "more effort"- He ends up looking like a chump/simp/sucker instead and she will most likely not value him. She'll just use him.

Low effort when she's being petty- but seeing her in person and giving her good "D" will over ride his low effort gift.

Men should never reward bad behavior with bigger gifts to outdo someone else.

He has some making up to do- but he shouldn't compete with flowers. He shouldn't be bringing them at all since she requested them while showing him the bouquet another man brought for her.

Hahahahah I do not know why you want to sabotage this guy, but keep going - I am with you in this. One more time: they took a break because he did not sort out his ex (my ass lol) and she - because she was moving abroad. Anyone who is messy and self-centered enough to start dating someone while being hung up on ex should and will jump through the hoops. I actually salute this Virgo lady - getting on his little feelings so well, so he can not be cheap and now has spent some money to outplay another dude. Hilarious & well done!

"so he can not be cheap and now has spent some money to outplay another dude."- This right here would not earn her respect, just like you are laughing about it- it's playing games and using him. He can make up what he's done in other ways.

I'm not sabotaging him. I'm being honest.

I don't know many women that will shove another man in someone's face and then respect a guy who folds to her and brings a bigger bouquet.

There's a reason why people say nice guys finish last. Women like nice assholes, they don't like guys they can walk all over.

All I'm talking about is the flowers- Not him making an effort with her.

All this for a women he dated for 2 weeks who had sex with another guy once he was gone trying to properly get rid of his ex lol AND he was straight up and honest with her about it.

People taking things so serious in a two week dating period- It's all ego- neither one of them know each other.

I can see once it past 3-6 months, but 2 weeks? CRAZINESS!

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He came here with question "how to get her back - should I pursue her aggressively?". I gave him pointers if he wants her back. If he wants to play it cool - anyway she is out of country in February - he can. No one is taking things seriously after 2 weeks, just all that mess who can not sort them out with exes/anxiety/mental issues/etc. really annoying and polluting dating scene. Should be treated accordingly - she was also honest she is dating. No harm, right?

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Met a Virgo a month ago. In first 14 days saw her about 10 of those. Slept together once. Spoke every single day. Feelings were developing fast and heavy. I put a stop to us because my ex was still involved in my life and I didn't want to develop more with Virgo until my ex and I were 100% closed. Virgo admitted she was starting to feel for me the way she did her ex and she was IN LOVE with her ex.

Anyway we stopped speaking. Zero contact for 2 weeks. I sorted my ex out. Called Virgo on Monday, we've been texting all day Monday and Tuesday. She's met a Pisces but isn't sure she'll take that serious but says she's interested. We agreed to meet up on Wednesday. She had a date with Pisces on Tue (last night) where I asked if they'd sleep together and she said yes. She's dropped messages on Mon and Tue about us dating and/or when I bring up us dating she says "its too soon" plus "you dumped me". Do I have a chance? Should I aggressively chase her? Does her too soon mean I am an option but she's scared and needs to trust me again? She's Virgo sun, cancer moon, virgo venus, gemini mars.

This is one of the most retarded stupid shit I had read on here in...AGES!

You 2 made for each other. Not in a good way. Reconnect with your brains!

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What bullshit?

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So I replied "good morning" then she's asking what time I'll be at hers tonight, I give her a time and then she sends me a pic of her in the Pisces' car, with a boquet of roses in her hand and the Pisces hand on her thigh..

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I just posted that OP had the most moronic post here in ages. And I read THIS and going 'I WAS RIGHT'!

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What happened after a few years ago sleeping with somebody ELSE while with somebody was a deadly sin?

Is it ok now? When did THAT happen?

And how retarded is this for 2 people being involved with exes BUT somehow fucking other people?

Does this have a name? This kind of fuckery...

You here were killing me for the same shit FOR YEARS and I KNEW whom I loved. And we didnt fuck our partners THOUGH we weren't divorced...big deal!

These 2 here are actually 4!!! They don't even KNOW WTF is going on and you all kissing their asses. How boring this place really became!!!

I mean...did you put your concerns in the Virgo Board Complaint Box?

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Are stupid comments will be coming? I am not surprised. Just curious...

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Oh wait after I said good morning and before she sent the flowers pic she said "we're still on for tonight, be at mine at 830, hope you're coming with flowers" then we agreed the time THEN she sent the pic.. sorry forgot to add that in above. Clearly she wants me to play the game, step up, take my woman and be in charge! But I did not like her sending that photo. Makes me feel played and stupid..

I just had similar experience with someone - he also told me that his ex is still on his mind and he want a pause. He popped up again, honestly, if you take advice here and bring low effort rose or whatever crap, you do not stand a chance. And yeah, you were on "a break" for 2 very very different reasons. If you want to win her over - step up. If no -effff off and let the Pieces do his thing.

Any man who tries to outdo a guy with a bigger bouquet does not show "more effort"- He ends up looking like a chump/simp/sucker instead and she will most likely not value him. She'll just use him.

Low effort when she's being petty- but seeing her in person and giving her good "D" will over ride his low effort gift.

Men should never reward bad behavior with bigger gifts to outdo someone else.

He has some making up to do- but he shouldn't compete with flowers. He shouldn't be bringing them at all since she requested them while showing him the bouquet another man brought for her.

Hahahahah I do not know why you want to sabotage this guy, but keep going - I am with you in this. One more time: they took a break because he did not sort out his ex (my ass lol) and she - because she was moving abroad. Anyone who is messy and self-centered enough to start dating someone while being hung up on ex should and will jump through the hoops. I actually salute this Virgo lady - getting on his little feelings so well, so he can not be cheap and now has spent some money to outplay another dude. Hilarious & well done!

"so he can not be cheap and now has spent some money to outplay another dude."- This right here would not earn her respect, just like you are laughing about it- it's playing games and using him. He can make up what he's done in other ways.

I'm not sabotaging him. I'm being honest.

I don't know many women that will shove another man in someone's face and then respect a guy who folds to her and brings a bigger bouquet.

There's a reason why people say nice guys finish last. Women like nice assholes, they don't like guys they can walk all over.

All I'm talking about is the flowers- Not him making an effort with her.

All this for a women he dated for 2 weeks who had sex with another guy once he was gone trying to properly get rid of his ex lol AND he was straight up and honest with her about it.

People taking things so serious in a two week dating period- It's all ego- neither one of them know each other.

I can see once it past 3-6 months, but 2 weeks? CRAZINESS!

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How about an 'I lost my wallet' type of guy?

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Posted by nats

Oh wait after I said good morning and before she sent the flowers pic she said "we're still on for tonight, be at mine at 830, hope you're coming with flowers" then we agreed the time THEN she sent the pic.. sorry forgot to add that in above. Clearly she wants me to play the game, step up, take my woman and be in charge! But I did not like her sending that photo. Makes me feel played and stupid..

I just had similar experience with someone - he also told me that his ex is still on his mind and he want a pause. He popped up again, honestly, if you take advice here and bring low effort rose or whatever crap, you do not stand a chance. And yeah, you were on "a break" for 2 very very different reasons. If you want to win her over - step up. If no -effff off and let the Pieces do his thing.

Any man who tries to outdo a guy with a bigger bouquet does not show "more effort"- He ends up looking like a chump/simp/sucker instead and she will most likely not value him. She'll just use him.

Low effort when she's being petty- but seeing her in person and giving her good "D" will over ride his low effort gift.

Men should never reward bad behavior with bigger gifts to outdo someone else.

He has some making up to do- but he shouldn't compete with flowers. He shouldn't be bringing them at all since she requested them while showing him the bouquet another man brought for her.

Hahahahah I do not know why you want to sabotage this guy, but keep going - I am with you in this. One more time: they took a break because he did not sort out his ex (my ass lol) and she - because she was moving abroad. Anyone who is messy and self-centered enough to start dating someone while being hung up on ex should and will jump through the hoops. I actually salute this Virgo lady - getting on his little feelings so well, so he can not be cheap and now has spent some money to outplay another dude. Hilarious & well done!

"so he can not be cheap and now has spent some money to outplay another dude."- This right here would not earn her respect, just like you are laughing about it- it's playing games and using him. He can make up what he's done in other ways.

I'm not sabotaging him. I'm being honest.

I don't know many women that will shove another man in someone's face and then respect a guy who folds to her and brings a bigger bouquet.

There's a reason why people say nice guys finish last. Women like nice assholes, they don't like guys they can walk all over.

All I'm talking about is the flowers- Not him making an effort with her.

All this for a women he dated for 2 weeks who had sex with another guy once he was gone trying to properly get rid of his ex lol AND he was straight up and honest with her about it.

People taking things so serious in a two week dating period- It's all ego- neither one of them know each other.

I can see once it past 3-6 months, but 2 weeks? CRAZINESS!

How about an 'I lost my wallet' type of guy?

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That's a Virgos special weakness. You guys love to help and be of service to someone in need. You guys shouldn't let people use you either, but you guys actually like it, so I don't have much to say about it lol

If I was a user, I would've been fine with all the services a Virgo is willing to provide. Almost makes me wish I was one.

People take advantage of a Virgos kindness.

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Posted by nats

Oh wait after I said good morning and before she sent the flowers pic she said "we're still on for tonight, be at mine at 830, hope you're coming with flowers" then we agreed the time THEN she sent the pic.. sorry forgot to add that in above. Clearly she wants me to play the game, step up, take my woman and be in charge! But I did not like her sending that photo. Makes me feel played and stupid..

I just had similar experience with someone - he also told me that his ex is still on his mind and he want a pause. He popped up again, honestly, if you take advice here and bring low effort rose or whatever crap, you do not stand a chance. And yeah, you were on "a break" for 2 very very different reasons. If you want to win her over - step up. If no -effff off and let the Pieces do his thing.

Any man who tries to outdo a guy with a bigger bouquet does not show "more effort"- He ends up looking like a chump/simp/sucker instead and she will most likely not value him. She'll just use him.

Low effort when she's being petty- but seeing her in person and giving her good "D" will over ride his low effort gift.

Men should never reward bad behavior with bigger gifts to outdo someone else.

He has some making up to do- but he shouldn't compete with flowers. He shouldn't be bringing them at all since she requested them while showing him the bouquet another man brought for her.

Hahahahah I do not know why you want to sabotage this guy, but keep going - I am with you in this. One more time: they took a break because he did not sort out his ex (my ass lol) and she - because she was moving abroad. Anyone who is messy and self-centered enough to start dating someone while being hung up on ex should and will jump through the hoops. I actually salute this Virgo lady - getting on his little feelings so well, so he can not be cheap and now has spent some money to outplay another dude. Hilarious & well done!

"so he can not be cheap and now has spent some money to outplay another dude."- This right here would not earn her respect, just like you are laughing about it- it's playing games and using him. He can make up what he's done in other ways.

I'm not sabotaging him. I'm being honest.

I don't know many women that will shove another man in someone's face and then respect a guy who folds to her and brings a bigger bouquet.

There's a reason why people say nice guys finish last. Women like nice assholes, they don't like guys they can walk all over.

All I'm talking about is the flowers- Not him making an effort with her.

All this for a women he dated for 2 weeks who had sex with another guy once he was gone trying to properly get rid of his ex lol AND he was straight up and honest with her about it.

People taking things so serious in a two week dating period- It's all ego- neither one of them know each other.

I can see once it past 3-6 months, but 2 weeks? CRAZINESS!

How about an 'I lost my wallet' type of guy?

That's a Virgos special weakness. You guys love to help and be of service to someone in need. You guys shouldn't let people use you either, but you guys actually like it, so I don't have much to say about it lol

If I was a user, I would've been fine with all the services a Virgo is willing to provide. Almost makes me wish I was one.

People take advantage of a Virgos kindness.

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this makes me wanna be single. i'll just go back to uni and get more degrees lol. and there's less 'i lost my wallet' guys in uni.

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Oh wait after I said good morning and before she sent the flowers pic she said "we're still on for tonight, be at mine at 830, hope you're coming with flowers" then we agreed the time THEN she sent the pic.. sorry forgot to add that in above. Clearly she wants me to play the game, step up, take my woman and be in charge! But I did not like her sending that photo. Makes me feel played and stupid..

I just had similar experience with someone - he also told me that his ex is still on his mind and he want a pause. He popped up again, honestly, if you take advice here and bring low effort rose or whatever crap, you do not stand a chance. And yeah, you were on "a break" for 2 very very different reasons. If you want to win her over - step up. If no -effff off and let the Pieces do his thing.

Any man who tries to outdo a guy with a bigger bouquet does not show "more effort"- He ends up looking like a chump/simp/sucker instead and she will most likely not value him. She'll just use him.

Low effort when she's being petty- but seeing her in person and giving her good "D" will over ride his low effort gift.

Men should never reward bad behavior with bigger gifts to outdo someone else.

He has some making up to do- but he shouldn't compete with flowers. He shouldn't be bringing them at all since she requested them while showing him the bouquet another man brought for her.

Hahahahah I do not know why you want to sabotage this guy, but keep going - I am with you in this. One more time: they took a break because he did not sort out his ex (my ass lol) and she - because she was moving abroad. Anyone who is messy and self-centered enough to start dating someone while being hung up on ex should and will jump through the hoops. I actually salute this Virgo lady - getting on his little feelings so well, so he can not be cheap and now has spent some money to outplay another dude. Hilarious & well done!

"so he can not be cheap and now has spent some money to outplay another dude."- This right here would not earn her respect, just like you are laughing about it- it's playing games and using him. He can make up what he's done in other ways.

I'm not sabotaging him. I'm being honest.

I don't know many women that will shove another man in someone's face and then respect a guy who folds to her and brings a bigger bouquet.

There's a reason why people say nice guys finish last. Women like nice assholes, they don't like guys they can walk all over.

All I'm talking about is the flowers- Not him making an effort with her.

All this for a women he dated for 2 weeks who had sex with another guy once he was gone trying to properly get rid of his ex lol AND he was straight up and honest with her about it.

People taking things so serious in a two week dating period- It's all ego- neither one of them know each other.

I can see once it past 3-6 months, but 2 weeks? CRAZINESS!

How about an 'I lost my wallet' type of guy?

That's a Virgos special weakness. You guys love to help and be of service to someone in need. You guys shouldn't let people use you either, but you guys actually like it, so I don't have much to say about it lol

If I was a user, I would've been fine with all the services a Virgo is willing to provide. Almost makes me wish I was one.

People take advantage of a Virgos kindness.

this makes me wanna be single. i'll just go back to uni and get more degrees lol. and there's less 'i lost my wallet' guys in uni.

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You just have to find a guy who's not like this 😆

Find someone who uses you for your emotional capacity to love.

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Oh wait after I said good morning and before she sent the flowers pic she said "we're still on for tonight, be at mine at 830, hope you're coming with flowers" then we agreed the time THEN she sent the pic.. sorry forgot to add that in above. Clearly she wants me to play the game, step up, take my woman and be in charge! But I did not like her sending that photo. Makes me feel played and stupid..

I just had similar experience with someone - he also told me that his ex is still on his mind and he want a pause. He popped up again, honestly, if you take advice here and bring low effort rose or whatever crap, you do not stand a chance. And yeah, you were on "a break" for 2 very very different reasons. If you want to win her over - step up. If no -effff off and let the Pieces do his thing.

Any man who tries to outdo a guy with a bigger bouquet does not show "more effort"- He ends up looking like a chump/simp/sucker instead and she will most likely not value him. She'll just use him.

Low effort when she's being petty- but seeing her in person and giving her good "D" will over ride his low effort gift.

Men should never reward bad behavior with bigger gifts to outdo someone else.

He has some making up to do- but he shouldn't compete with flowers. He shouldn't be bringing them at all since she requested them while showing him the bouquet another man brought for her.

Hahahahah I do not know why you want to sabotage this guy, but keep going - I am with you in this. One more time: they took a break because he did not sort out his ex (my ass lol) and she - because she was moving abroad. Anyone who is messy and self-centered enough to start dating someone while being hung up on ex should and will jump through the hoops. I actually salute this Virgo lady - getting on his little feelings so well, so he can not be cheap and now has spent some money to outplay another dude. Hilarious & well done!

"so he can not be cheap and now has spent some money to outplay another dude."- This right here would not earn her respect, just like you are laughing about it- it's playing games and using him. He can make up what he's done in other ways.

I'm not sabotaging him. I'm being honest.

I don't know many women that will shove another man in someone's face and then respect a guy who folds to her and brings a bigger bouquet.

There's a reason why people say nice guys finish last. Women like nice assholes, they don't like guys they can walk all over.

All I'm talking about is the flowers- Not him making an effort with her.

All this for a women he dated for 2 weeks who had sex with another guy once he was gone trying to properly get rid of his ex lol AND he was straight up and honest with her about it.

People taking things so serious in a two week dating period- It's all ego- neither one of them know each other.

I can see once it past 3-6 months, but 2 weeks? CRAZINESS!

How about an 'I lost my wallet' type of guy?

That's a Virgos special weakness. You guys love to help and be of service to someone in need. You guys shouldn't let people use you either, but you guys actually like it, so I don't have much to say about it lol

If I was a user, I would've been fine with all the services a Virgo is willing to provide. Almost makes me wish I was one.

People take advantage of a Virgos kindness.

this makes me wanna be single. i'll just go back to uni and get more degrees lol. and there's less 'i lost my wallet' guys in uni.

You just have to find a guy who's not like this 😆

Find someone who uses you for your emotional capacity to love.

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i'mma ghost so wish me luck!

i feel like i've done my gf duty. i've stuck around after his jail time, gave him a christmas gift and some farewell cash. time to move on 🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️

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Oh wait after I said good morning and before she sent the flowers pic she said "we're still on for tonight, be at mine at 830, hope you're coming with flowers" then we agreed the time THEN she sent the pic.. sorry forgot to add that in above. Clearly she wants me to play the game, step up, take my woman and be in charge! But I did not like her sending that photo. Makes me feel played and stupid..

I just had similar experience with someone - he also told me that his ex is still on his mind and he want a pause. He popped up again, honestly, if you take advice here and bring low effort rose or whatever crap, you do not stand a chance. And yeah, you were on "a break" for 2 very very different reasons. If you want to win her over - step up. If no -effff off and let the Pieces do his thing.

Any man who tries to outdo a guy with a bigger bouquet does not show "more effort"- He ends up looking like a chump/simp/sucker instead and she will most likely not value him. She'll just use him.

Low effort when she's being petty- but seeing her in person and giving her good "D" will over ride his low effort gift.

Men should never reward bad behavior with bigger gifts to outdo someone else.

He has some making up to do- but he shouldn't compete with flowers. He shouldn't be bringing them at all since she requested them while showing him the bouquet another man brought for her.

Hahahahah I do not know why you want to sabotage this guy, but keep going - I am with you in this. One more time: they took a break because he did not sort out his ex (my ass lol) and she - because she was moving abroad. Anyone who is messy and self-centered enough to start dating someone while being hung up on ex should and will jump through the hoops. I actually salute this Virgo lady - getting on his little feelings so well, so he can not be cheap and now has spent some money to outplay another dude. Hilarious & well done!

"so he can not be cheap and now has spent some money to outplay another dude."- This right here would not earn her respect, just like you are laughing about it- it's playing games and using him. He can make up what he's done in other ways.

I'm not sabotaging him. I'm being honest.

I don't know many women that will shove another man in someone's face and then respect a guy who folds to her and brings a bigger bouquet.

There's a reason why people say nice guys finish last. Women like nice assholes, they don't like guys they can walk all over.

All I'm talking about is the flowers- Not him making an effort with her.

All this for a women he dated for 2 weeks who had sex with another guy once he was gone trying to properly get rid of his ex lol AND he was straight up and honest with her about it.

People taking things so serious in a two week dating period- It's all ego- neither one of them know each other.

I can see once it past 3-6 months, but 2 weeks? CRAZINESS!

How about an 'I lost my wallet' type of guy?

That's a Virgos special weakness. You guys love to help and be of service to someone in need. You guys shouldn't let people use you either, but you guys actually like it, so I don't have much to say about it lol

If I was a user, I would've been fine with all the services a Virgo is willing to provide. Almost makes me wish I was one.

People take advantage of a Virgos kindness.

this makes me wanna be single. i'll just go back to uni and get more degrees lol. and there's less 'i lost my wallet' guys in uni.

You just have to find a guy who's not like this 😆

Find someone who uses you for your emotional capacity to love.

i'mma ghost so wish me luck!

i feel like i've done my gf duty. i've stuck around after his jail time, gave him a christmas gift and some farewell cash. time to move on 🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️

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I think you need to find a pretend bad boy and stop falling for the real ones lol Most "bad boys" are losers

lol you guys have gone off on this thread! OK so went to her place it was all good. She was really happy to see me. Kept saying she couldn't believe I was there in the flesh. Anyway, we hung out in her room (she shares with someone else) and it was good. I made it clear I didn't like that pic and thought it was rude/disrespectful then she said it needed to be done and I deserved it for breaking up with her. She's NEVER been broken up with so it took her by surprise that someone would (me) and I guess deep down she didn't like it at all. We hung out, listened to music, spoke for a good 4-5 hours about everything (life, us, pisces, other people, my ex etc). She was interested to know the situation between my ex and I. I was open, we both were about everything. She said she told Pisces that she's leaving in Feb and she doesn't want a commitment and told me she's confused because she DOES want a commitment but not with her even though the pisces treated her super well the night before, flowers, made dinner, got her fav ice cream etc. Tbh I think she wants it with me but she's a bit mistrustful of me at the moment (fair).

We ended up kissing and snuggling for a while while we spoke about everything. She said she wanted me to sleep over but I didn't "deserve" it just yet. She said when we were both in Europe we'd definitely be hanging out. Anyway, she text to check I was home safe. I replied telling her I was sorry for keeping her up so late (she had to get up at 5.30am next day for work). We've been texting all day today as per usual like we were doing before I "broke up" with her. Think everything is good and she's made it clear she wants to date and she's ready to open her heart and love someone. All in all good result, think I've got her back and we're good. We just need to figure out what we're going to do and whether to remain open and seeing each other or be exclusive although she did say she knows I don't get into relationships easily and I would need to find someone to match my energy (whatever that means).

Oh and I didn't take her any gift or flowers at all. No need for it. I AM the gift! haha. Thanks guys. Appreciate everyone's responses and advice. I've had an update with the Sag as well today so I'm about to post on there too.

Hi guys, back and need advice/opinions. Things have been great with Virgo since her and I last met up which was last Wednesday. On Saturday we were both out separately with friends, we ended up meeting up halfway through the night and then spent the rest of the evening together just her and I (we separated from the friends we were with) and kept clubbing. She asked if I was taking her to mine or dropping her at hers, we came back to my house. We slept together, all of Sunday she stayed at mine. We lazed around on the lounge watching movies, eating, snuggling, f**cking, chillin. I dropped her home in the late afternoon. On Monday we decided to see each other this week, she had a date with Pisces on Tuesday evening but she cancelled on Pisces so her and I could do dinner together but she was extremely exhausted and on Tue morning asked me to cancel dinner but told me she wanted me to go over to hers instead and just chill and snuggle. I went over last night and we did that then she asked me to sleep over. I slept over. We slept together. She said she's told the Pisces to see other people because even though theres a huge attraction and she's very physically attracted, Pisces might be too young and she's just unsure.

Anyway so my confusion is now coming from her being so reserved. Every time I speak about my feelings or us in a serious nature I feel like she freaks out or shuts down lol. I mean I do joke a lot and she gets annoyed that I apparently don't give her enough "attention" or I make jokes that she is not on my list of women or she complains that I don't compliment her enough etc but then when I tell her (like I did this morning when we woke up) that I think I am starting to really like her she just shuts down. Not sure what to say/think about this. She's starting to ask me questions about what I like in this or that situation/scenario. She wants me to take her away and do stuff together like on vacay but then I asked what am I getting out of all of this and she says I ask too many questions and "overtime she will learn and pick up on things and surprise me"... I guess I am just wanting to know if I should pursue her properly? Is she interested? Is she closed off? Does it sound like I have a chance? What's going on in this Virgo's mind?! Last night in bed she asked whether I would call her once she leaves for Europe in April. I told her if that's what she wants then yes and she said yes and I asked why and she said just for general chit chat lol..

I just received a text from her asking me for a favour. I know she doesn't ask for favours either but now I am just not sure whether she's using me because she knows I like her or what the go is..

Posted by Wizardz_

Keep fucking her and see what happens.. you're worrying too much 🙄

I just don't want to get played. If its going to turn out that way then I want to be the one doing the playing or getting out first.

Posted by Wizardz_

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Posted by Wizardz_

Keep fucking her and see what happens.. you're worrying too much 🙄

I just don't want to get played. If its going to turn out that way then I want to be the one doing the playing or getting out first.

I don't get it. If you like her then like her. If she doesn't like you the same then so what? It will end and you find someone else

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I don't want to invest and develop feelings if she's not serious. Yeah it's selfish of me but I want her to like me before I let myself go and like her as well.