Virgo Woman/ Virgo Man

Very new with my virgo guy not too much history really. However when I initiate convo he is very limited at times, then when I push away he hits me up with so much to say. Seems like I get more of a response when I am not interested and giving him the cold shoulder. By me being a Virgo women myself it confuses me. My first relationship with dating a virgo man was PERFECT, just life circumstances wouldnt let us be together. I guess overall I am just trying to see if I need to be patient so maybe he can open up or will the ONLY way he will respond is when I am not interested.

Kind of sucks that you must not be interested in someone in order for them to show some form of interest.