Virgo's and breakups?

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by prplhayesr on Saturday, December 28, 2013 and has 11 replies.

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@prplhayesr
13 Years

Why does it take a virgo a long time to break up with someone? He knows he wants to break up with her but is just trying to find the right time?

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@VirgoChyld
13 Years500+ PostsVirgo

No with us Virgos it is hard to let go of people we invest our time with in a relationship. He seems like he trying to make it work

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@prplhayesr
13 Years

He is trying to make it work but, it is not working. he told my friend, he's working on it, it's hard. He wants to date her but, is in this relationship.

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@raerae2one8
13 Years

I think that it is true, that he is trying to hold on. Once they care about someone it takes alot to let go.

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@prplhayesr
13 Years

He wants to date my friend but, she will not date him until he is single. She gave him a deadline. She is a Libra.

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@DMV
15 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

My virggal friend was dating a scorpio and it took her months to break up with him. She had invested time and money. She was trying to find the right way to go about things. She was trying to secure a roof under her head.

its like virgos need solid ground to walk on. The old foundation is still strong and she wont make a move until there is another firm foundation to stand on.

getting their ducks in a row so to speak.

Unfortunately, when she dumps the scorpio it comes at a surprise to him to which he had to heal. On the flipside, she did all her healing while she was building a foundation.

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@prplhayesr
13 Years

she said she gave him until January 1st. and that if it didn't not happen, she was moving on. She said it was a New Year and wanted to start it off with him. He said to her, I know you want it to be New Years and I get it but it is just another day, life does not stop and start on that day

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@Damnata
16 Years25,000+ PostsVirgo

Posted by prplhayesr
Why does it take a virgo a long time to break up with someone? He knows he wants to break up with her but is just trying to find the right time?

LOL at all the assumptions, when you don't even know him. The only thing you know is what your Libra friend told you...2nd hand information.

Ultimatums don't work.

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@prplhayesr
13 Years

oh that is it. this is my friends first time somewhat dating a virgo. I have no answer for her since the way minds ended.

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