Virgos are they Submissive or Dominant ?

I have been lurking for a while , i have a question that maybe you lovely people can answer for me . Do you think Virgos are submissive or dominants ? Whenever i research this i get mixed answers , what do you guys think ?

Virgo ...Dominant or submissive ?

lol.. for us we seem to know it all (dont take that the wrong way) and we rarely listen to others... so yeah we are not submissive. we do give out good advice and we could lead... but we are INDEPENDENT! lol so your answer is NEITHER.

My personality in almost every way is very submissive and mousy, especially in the presence of females--I'll comply to many things as long as it is within my ability and asked for in an undemanding manner. At the same time I have a big problem with petty authority, forcefulness, and ingenuine co workers. This is why I am unable to find work in any corporate setting any bit desirable. If I would enter that area it would be with the intention of changing it from the inside and only if that desire was strong enough.


However, concerning the bedroom it changes a bit.

I've been doing a lot of self-discovery through my dreams and I realized I'm not as submissive as I originally thought.

My touch is always tender and languid. I derive no pleasure from hearing, seeing, or feeling pain. And so I thought that because I'm not a hard and forceful person that I am submissive sexually.

How I perceive it...our bodies are physical manifestations of our hearts--not the form, shape, or appearance we're born in but in our actions and voice, tiny or big. Our eyes are projectors.

It is because I perceive ourselves this way that I cannot be with a sexually dominant woman. I want to touch everything--to take my time. What feeling would I get if touched her here? What if I were to pin her down in this manner? The ecstatic whimper that escapes her lips, her arms clinging tighter around me, nails digging in my skin as I slowly ram my length into her heat under the full moon's light. She never needs to worry about me not giving her no love from my heart as I vowed to withhold none and give as much as I could when we married. And at the end of it all I give her tender kisses and whisper of my love, holding her just before sleep catches us...

To lose that freedom of exploration--to have that control ripped away from me and tied down...I cannot begin to bare. 😢


Anyway, I think the Sun, Mercury, Venus, Moon, and Mars in combination may help you paint a vague idea of a person's inclination. It will not give you everything though.

Sun-Virgo
Moon-Virgo
Mercury-Leo
Venus-Leo
Mars-Libra

I neglected to add Ascendant to the list too. Mine is also in Leo.

Neither ... they are subserviant

Neither of those in OP and certainly not as subservient like this clueless freaking old cow above suggesting.

Virgos are always being misunderstood by the clueless selfish idiots who can not grasp the reality of being and acting selfless.

Well I think I could be submissive up to a point (with somebody I really liked) but I will not be exploited or taken for granted for long. If I like someone then I would like to please them and that might mean being submissive (if they are dominant) or dominant (if they are submissive) and I would like to think that I am role-flexible.

Hmm, wonder how this relates sexually. Are they the type to prefer to dominate in bed or do they prefer to be the submissive (keep in mind that just because you're dominant in bed doesn't mean you have to be dominant outside the bedroom.) But I guess if they are the sign of servicing/pleasing others then they are switchers and just turn into what their partner desires the most. Hmm, would you say that's true for you guys? Even for those with Virgo in their Mars/Venus?

Both but more submissive then dominant.

Virgo is a sign of service. So prepare to be served, whether you like it or not!

Posted by PotHeadVirgo22


Its true for me. I get turned up by what turns her up. I mean whats a better way to please her then by perfecting what she likes.
Ooooooooo the possibility's...😉

That is very hot! I find myself sometimes wanting to switch, though I usually prefer the dominant man (I love a guy who can make me feel like a woman, mainly because I grew up a tomboy. Must be my Aries moon and venus!) However, I sometimes do feel that an answer like that sorta...cheats, y'know? I want to know what you guys like in an entirely selfish manner. Something for you and purely you. Something that your significant other can do to service you. If you prefer to be dominated and thus forced to accept pleasure (if ya know what I mean!) Or if you like to dominate and control your lover.

they are both...depending on each others need at the time.

Virgo is neither dominant, nor submissive ... rather subserviant

They serve of themselves in whatever capacity for the end result.

It's not my problem that you all can't handle the truth.

Posted by P-Angel


They serve of themselves in whatever capacity for the end result.

I had to keep this in mind while I went about the day to look at my decisions, reflect, to realize and let it sink in.

Makes sense. Especially with what I posted.


I really got it now.

Finally...=/

subservient , means compliant , and obedient to authority , that as a Virgo i know I'm not so are many other Virgos i know , we extend ourselves for a cause and will see it through but don't get it twisted we don't take sh... from nobody lol

Posted by cheekyfaerie

Posted by P-Angel
Virgo is neither dominant, nor submissive ... rather subserviant

They serve of themselves in whatever capacity for the end result.

It's not my problem that you all can't handle the truth.

You say that as it's a bad thing. If one is still true to themselves, what's wrong with being adaptable?

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I state it as a matter of fact, and withheld any emotions to indicate how I regard this fact .... you're not allowed to put words in my mouth.

If you think it's a bad thing, then state it.

If I think it's a bad thing, I will state it.


Got it?

-Opens up a pack of Skittles-

I think it depends on their rising or mars placement. For instance, I am definitely a Switch (Virgo style ), but I lean towards the Dominant side when I feel comfortable. Which is what I prefer.

Always = Girl on Top.

My Mars is in Sagittarius and my Rising is in Aries though. I'm positive that matters. I fuck like a man.

I've met many Virgos and they are definitely dominant until they come across someone they like then they become submissive. Take it!

sexually, they're typically more submissive

Posted by VenusStar
I've met many Virgos and they are definitely dominant until they come across someone they like then they become submissive. Take it!

didn't read that, but yeah, meant that^

Posted by caligula
sexually, they're typically more submissive

Ah this makes me want to break my post down. I would say sexually dominant or they try to be against more dominant signs this might not read much.

I still view them as reactions.

Dominant or Submissive?

Well I??ll talk about myself...

In my daily life, at my home, at office or at college, I don't like to give orders to people. Instead of it I like to work like a group. Even if I'm the head of certain team/group then rather than dictating people, I like to make it clear to them that why should we do or not do something. And that's what I expect from others too. If I'm going to North, and you want to me to go to South then instead of giving me order, you should tell me the advantages of your choice and disadvantages of my choice.

As far as —serving to others?? is concerned, I don't consider it serving.. if I bought a book for my father, or baked a cake for my mom, or did an assignment t for my friend then I won't call it service, I??ll call it gestures of love I have for my loved ones.

And if you say Virgos are submissive in bedroom, then I would say that yes, I'm submissive till the point you are not doing or ask me to do something that is a Big No for me. I won't make you feel bad by trying to dominate or dictate to you but as I??ve my sexual preferences and constraints in terms of hygiene so never try to cross that limits.

My Virguy is kind of in the middle. He's pretty laid back, but can stand up for himself. Just what I want in a guy 😄

i've just started "dating" a virgo and she is very dominant and aggressive so far i'm actually surprised..i thought virgo's were supposed to be slow moving...but not this girl! whoa whoa. She's also very touchy. She has Scorp Rising, sun,mars & venus in virgo & moon in taurus

Sexually, I like to dominate and take over the reins.
Out of the bedroom, I'm a born follower, especially at work. There are some exceptions though.

Submissive in everything but dominant in bed and try to be dominant in arguments

Posted by tiziani
Dominants do control. But it is the submissive choice first to be controlled. It's key to recognise that in a balanced d/s partnership.

A dominant would order you to do as told in the way YOU wanted to, because it's agreed the outset that you as the submissive get pleasure in submitting to them. So they are just serving your fantasy. They are not controlling you for their benefit, they are controlling you because you want it that way.

Without that agreement, it would just be an unbalanced relationship. If it would purely for the dom's pleasure, the other person would just be a slave. Unbalanced relationships never last.


And CC, I can imagine that being the case as Leo Moon is one of the most dom placements there is, he could be a complete alpha dom in the rest if his life but you would always subconsciously be making him submit to you,

This.
Aren't Leebs supposed to be submissive?