Virgo's, do you use passive-aggressive measures

to get back at someone who may have hurt you? I believe I've experienced this in several situations. The reasons I believe this has occurred is that I felt the subtle jabs and low blows in comments; comments which were out of the norm and didn't make sense at the time. Even to the point of being interpreted as disrespectful. However, they were not so obvious and bold attacks that others around me who heard them understood the impact they made on me.

Posted by gemini64

... the subtle jabs and low blows in comments; comments which were out of the norm and didn't make sense at the time. Even to the point of being interpreted as disrespectful. However, they were not so obvious and bold attacks that others around me who heard them understood the impact they made on me.

Of course. Virgos do this even when together with a person.

Typically, a Virgo is a go with the flow kind of person when in a relationship ... or at least, this is how they want to appear. Underneath, they are very controlling - but, their very nature of being accommodating and cordial won't allow them to be demanding of their partner.

How this manifests is in being passively aggressive .. it is the whole basis for the fussy, naggy, critiquing aspect that you see.

They know what they want to do, but won't state it because they want to be pleasing to you, so it's left up to you to decide what to do ... and if this doesn't coincide with what the Virgo wants, then the sarcastic comments erupt because you're not doing what they want to happen, eventhough you were never told what they want to have happen.

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Posted by gemini64

... the subtle jabs and low blows in comments; comments which were out of the norm and didn't make sense at the time. Even to the point of being interpreted as disrespectful. However, they were not so obvious and bold attacks that others around me who heard them understood the impact they made on me.

Of course. Virgos do this even when together with a person.

Typically, a Virgo is a go with the flow kind of person when in a relationship ... or at least, this is how they want to appear. Underneath, they are very controlling - but, their very nature of being accommodating and cordial won't allow them to be demanding of their partner.

How this manifests is in being passively aggressive .. it is the whole basis for the fussy, naggy, critiquing aspect that you see.

They know what they want to do, but won't state it because they want to be pleasing to you, so it's left up to you to decide what to do ... and if this doesn't coincide with what the Virgo wants, then the sarcastic comments erupt because you're not doing what they want to happen, eventhough you were never told what they want to have happen.

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^^^^^^^^
THIS x 1,000

Exactly what I've gone through. My God, sarcasm is their bread and butter. It amazes me how anyone can be so cunning and yet, act as if they are the one whose hurt. I guess I'm suppose to be able to read their minds.

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No if some body specially a lady has hurt my feeling I will walk away easily and never return there is not any point to behave aggressively 🙂

If your asking about normal dealings with any body than mostly I try to prove them wrong using some facts but if they are wrong or if I'm wrong than its just fine with me 🙂 no hard feelings

why not just explain to her how she has hurt you instead of never returning, damn so dramatic.

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Damn straight!!

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