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Virgos push away who they want the most?
Please help this guy out , im going through the same questions myself 😆. From what i can tell from personal experience, ( I just found out my moon is in aries....) The biggest problem is to come to terms that virgos are no where near as impulsive as us and they show theyre affection through consitancy and not emotional outbursts... annoying as heck though.
Posted by Lucriu
Please help this guy out , im going through the same questions myself 😆. From what i can tell from personal experience, ( I just found out my moon is in aries....) The biggest problem is to come to terms that virgos are no where near as impulsive as us and they show theyre affection through consitancy and not emotional outbursts... annoying as heck though.
Yes it is hard, especially when you have placements in impulsive signs (Aries) and in the total opposite sign (Pisces)
Also here is my chart:
Sun Aries
Moon Pisces
Mercury Pisces
Venus Taurus
Mars Pisces
Jupiter Scorpio
Saturn Pisces
Uranus Capricorn
Neptune Capricorn
Pluto Scorpio
Chiron Virgo
Ascendant Aquarius
and here are hers:
Sun Virgo
Moon Aquarius
Mercury Virgo
Venus Leo
Mars Libra
Jupiter Libra
Saturn Aquarius
Uranus Capricorn
Neptune Capricorn
Pluto Scorpio
True Node Sagittarius
Posted by FieryAries9108
Is it just me or do Virgos tend to push away who they want the most in relationships?
Nope.
Posted by FieryAries9108
1. Is it good to play into these push pull games? (Should I ignore her when she ignores me or should I consistently be nice to her without ignoring her?
No. If you have a problem with the way things are going you should address it in a straight forward manner with some amount of logical reasoning as to why it's a problem for you, and possibly, thoughts on how the situation could be improved. Always be prepared to negotiate and above all, listen.
Posted by FieryAries9108
2. What's the best way to ask a Virgo what is bothering them when something is?(I realize you guys don't like to burden others with your problems)
Just ask. There's no need to dance around it if you think there's a problem. Whatever the answer is though, accept it and move on. If they want to talk, they will, or they won't.
Posted by FieryAries9108
3.Should I still be flirty with her? Or should I make a point to show her my more serious and reliable side (since I flirt with everyone)
Depends on the situation. Judge what's most appropriate at the moment and just be yourself.
Posted by FieryAries9108
4. Would you like it or be annoyed if someone texted you every day to see how your day was? (I'm thinking about doing this so we can talk more and well I hope it would show I care).
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Personally, it's nice at first but eventually it gets old and irritating. When they start taking their precious time to respond to texts or sound bored then take that as a sign to back off temporarily.
Always be consistent don't start game playing. If anything so that you don't have to bend over backwards for a person who is ignoring you
just call her out on her behaviour so she knows why you feel need to pull back. This way you show her that you don't play games and
that you have respect for yourself.
You can also let her see that you want to get to know her and that it's not the chase that appeals to you
or having what you can't have.
Actually do make the effort to get to know her and one important thing let her know you!
For myself when someone opens up to me
(especially when it comes to a male-female relationship) it really helps me to do the same. In addition when I see how someone
acts on a regular basis if I notice they treat people around them well or that we have things in common
I'll start taking more notice of them.
just call her out on her behaviour so she knows why you feel need to pull back. This way you show her that you don't play games and
that you have respect for yourself.
You can also let her see that you want to get to know her and that it's not the chase that appeals to you
or having what you can't have.
Actually do make the effort to get to know her and one important thing let her know you!
For myself when someone opens up to me
(especially when it comes to a male-female relationship) it really helps me to do the same. In addition when I see how someone
acts on a regular basis if I notice they treat people around them well or that we have things in common
I'll start taking more notice of them.
Posted by TMVPosted by FieryAries9108
Is it just me or do Virgos tend to push away who they want the most in relationships?
Nope.
Posted by FieryAries9108
1. Is it good to play into these push pull games? (Should I ignore her when she ignores me or should I consistently be nice to her without ignoring her?
No. If you have a problem with the way things are going you should address it in a straight forward manner with some amount of logical reasoning as to why it's a problem for you, and possibly, thoughts on how the situation could be improved. Always be prepared to negotiate and above all, listen.
Posted by FieryAries9108
2. What's the best way to ask a Virgo what is bothering them when something is?(I realize you guys don't like to burden others with your problems)
Just ask. There's no need to dance around it if you think there's a problem. Whatever the answer is though, accept it and move on. If they want to talk, they will, or they won't.
Posted by FieryAries9108
3.Should I still be flirty with her? Or should I make a point to show her my more serious and reliable side (since I flirt with everyone)
Depends on the situation. Judge what's most appropriate at the moment and just be yourself.
Posted by FieryAries9108
4. Would you like it or be annoyed if someone texted you every day to see how your day was? (I'm thinking about doing this so we can talk more and well I hope it would show I care).
Personally, it's nice at first but eventually it gets old and irritating. When they start taking their precious time to respond to texts or sound bored then take that as a sign to back off temporarily.click to expand
Alright, thank you for the advice.
Posted by virgodreamz
Always be consistent don't start game playing. If anything so that you don't have to bend over backwards for a person who is ignoring you
just call her out on her behaviour so she knows why you feel need to pull back. This way you show her that you don't play games and
that you have respect for yourself.
You can also let her see that you want to get to know her and that it's not the chase that appeals to you
or having what you can't have.
Actually do make the effort to get to know her and one important thing let her know you!
For myself when someone opens up to me
(especially when it comes to a male-female relationship) it really helps me to do the same. In addition when I see how someone
acts on a regular basis if I notice they treat people around them well or that we have things in common
I'll start taking more notice of them.
Thank you for the solid advice and I'm a girl actually who is bi.
Also I had another question do Virgo's like when you help them because once of the biggest things I like about Virgos is how unselfish they are, so if I were to help her when I can/act like I care about her problems would she like that or would she find it annoying that I'm trying to find out things? What is the best way I can help a Virgo lady out?
I would say, just ask. Is there something that I can do to help? How would you like me to approach this? I think that like any other group, we can alternate between needs for assistance and independence, or just a need to vent without interruption or being told what to do. The important thing that I can't stress enough is just listening and absorbing what you're being told. Accept the answers given without interjecting personal bias.
Posted by FieryAries9108Posted by virgodreamz
Always be consistent don't start game playing. If anything so that you don't have to bend over backwards for a person who is ignoring you
just call her out on her behaviour so she knows why you feel need to pull back. This way you show her that you don't play games and
that you have respect for yourself.
You can also let her see that you want to get to know her and that it's not the chase that appeals to you
or having what you can't have.
Actually do make the effort to get to know her and one important thing let her know you!
For myself when someone opens up to me
(especially when it comes to a male-female relationship) it really helps me to do the same. In addition when I see how someone
acts on a regular basis if I notice they treat people around them well or that we have things in common
I'll start taking more notice of them.
Thank you for the solid advice and I'm a girl actually who is bi.click to expand
Oh Oops so how about
Especially when it comes to a romantic relationship or ones where attraction is involved.
Also as far as offering help that's always nice 🙂 but....
don't overdo the niceness. Whoever you give special treatment to should deserve it. You had already mentioned something about your
Virgo ignoring you from time to time. Don't reward that with favours to her. Let her get to know you and want to do nice things for you too.
Also, If you give, you should give knowing that you might not get anything back. It should just be because you want to do it but not so
someone will feel obligated to you.
Posted by virgodreamzPosted by FieryAries9108Posted by virgodreamz
Always be consistent don't start game playing. If anything so that you don't have to bend over backwards for a person who is ignoring you
just call her out on her behaviour so she knows why you feel need to pull back. This way you show her that you don't play games and
that you have respect for yourself.
You can also let her see that you want to get to know her and that it's not the chase that appeals to you
or having what you can't have.
Actually do make the effort to get to know her and one important thing let her know you!
For myself when someone opens up to me
(especially when it comes to a male-female relationship) it really helps me to do the same. In addition when I see how someone
acts on a regular basis if I notice they treat people around them well or that we have things in common
I'll start taking more notice of them.
Thank you for the solid advice and I'm a girl actually who is bi.
Oh Oops so how about
Especially when it comes to a romantic relationship or ones where attraction is involved.
Also as far as offering help that's always nice 🙂 but....
don't overdo the niceness. Whoever you give special treatment to should deserve it. You had already mentioned something about your
Virgo ignoring you from time to time. Don't reward that with favours to her. Let her get to know you and want to do nice things for you too.
Also, If you give, you should give knowing that you might not get anything back. It should just be because you want to do it but not so
someone will feel obligated to you.
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I never really expect people to give anything back when I help that's where my pisces placements come in handy.
Posted by TMV
I would say, just ask. Is there something that I can do to help? How would you like me to approach this? I think that like any other group, we can alternate between needs for assistance and independence, or just a need to vent without interruption or being told what to do. The important thing that I can't stress enough is just listening and absorbing what you're being told. Accept the answers given without interjecting personal bias.
Alright that is very clear and helpful advice thank you =)
Posted by yellowsweater
1) don't play the push and pull games! at the same time, don't be TOO NICE. i like it when the other person has a backbone. show her that you're not going to just drop everything at the drop of a hat for her. she hasn't earned it yet.
2) be direct. i like when people are straight forward with me. in fact, one of the main reasons why i am friends with my friends is because they are very straight forward people and i admire that. it is probably because i do admit to being a bit passive-aggressive, but i am working on being more direct. my first love (a libra) once messaged me saying i was rude. up until that point i didn't realize my behavior so him being straightforward snapped me out of it.
3)be witty.
4) this kind of goes into point #3. if you want to talk to her everyday, make sure you have something witty to say.. something compelling so that the convo between you two will just flow instead of forcing things with ice breakers.
i do have to commend this pisces guy i have been interested in. we have been talking for about 2 months almost everyday. our verbal sparring brings a smile to my face and i light up when i get a message from him. i think that wouldn't be the case if he came on too strong or made his move too quickly. initially i was a bit confused because most guys i meet take action right away and i usually go with the flow with somewhat of a disinterest. but this pisces guy.. he's witty, funny, and totally quirky. he has a life of his own and he's not quick to jump on me. i enjoy the build up. as of right now we still haven't hung out, although he has asked but i was busy.. that's the kind of pace i prefer... anyway best of luck!
This is some more great advice thank you!
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