hopelesscapricorn
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Virgos why do you disappear like whodini (lol)
Posted by IllaLupus
Warm loving Capricorn all in the same sentence..,
We're not all cold, we just have guards that u have to break down
when he disppaears for months then you should be worried!
omg stop smothering him you are not his mom he will run away if you act so clingy just after two days!
yes! give him space it will go from one day a week to hanging out everyday literally!!
omg stop smothering him you are not his mom he will run away if you act so clingy just after two days!
yes! give him space it will go from one day a week to hanging out everyday literally!!
He's. Just. Not. That. Into. You
Trust me all this nonsense about hot and cold and disappearing act are excuses for women to use when a guy's not into them but they are in denial. If a man really cares about you he will show it and he won't pull none of this disappearing act/ hot and cold bullshit.
He does it because YOU let him do it. Simple as that.
When he disappears and then comes back you welcome him back with open arms and legs. Why wouldn't he do it? He gets all the sex with no commitment. Why buy the cow when you can have the milk for free.
No girl with any sense of worth would let a man do that. Doesn't matter how much she cares or how she feels about him. She won't take his bullshit. Have some self-respect and I mean that in the nicest way possible.
Trust me all this nonsense about hot and cold and disappearing act are excuses for women to use when a guy's not into them but they are in denial. If a man really cares about you he will show it and he won't pull none of this disappearing act/ hot and cold bullshit.
He does it because YOU let him do it. Simple as that.
When he disappears and then comes back you welcome him back with open arms and legs. Why wouldn't he do it? He gets all the sex with no commitment. Why buy the cow when you can have the milk for free.
No girl with any sense of worth would let a man do that. Doesn't matter how much she cares or how she feels about him. She won't take his bullshit. Have some self-respect and I mean that in the nicest way possible.
During the deliberation stage, they may pull disappearing acts, however truthfully they are simply deciding whether or not they would choose to commit to an individual, in this case you. Although frankly speaking, the Virgent you speak of, he does not seem interested and he is not pulling any act on you. He simply do not see the reason to have to justify his where about or anything other personal details with you.
When Virgents commit, they commit, period. This entails them always getting back to the person, the communication channels are always flowing and they are about as concrete as a rock, stable.
When Virgents commit, they commit, period. This entails them always getting back to the person, the communication channels are always flowing and they are about as concrete as a rock, stable.
Posted by TheLadyScorpio
During the deliberation stage, they may pull disappearing acts, however truthfully they are simply deciding whether or not they would choose to commit to an individual, in this case you. Although frankly speaking, the Virgent you speak of, he does not seem interested and he is not pulling any act on you. He simply do not see the reason to have to justify his where about or anything other personal details with you.
When Virgents commit, they commit, period. This entails them always getting back to the person, the communication channels are always flowing and they are about as concrete as a rock, stable.
He actually does tell me a lot of personal information, even when I don't ask questions. But I see what you're saying...
Posted by xtina
He's. Just. Not. That. Into. You
Trust me all this nonsense about hot and cold and disappearing act are excuses for women to use when a guy's not into them but they are in denial. If a man really cares about you he will show it and he won't pull none of this disappearing act/ hot and cold bullshit.
He does it because YOU let him do it. Simple as that.
When he disappears and then comes back you welcome him back with open arms and legs. Why wouldn't he do it? He gets all the sex with no commitment. Why buy the cow when you can have the milk for free.
No girl with any sense of worth would let a man do that. Doesn't matter how much she cares or how she feels about him. She won't take his bullshit. Have some self-respect and I mean that in the nicest way possible.
Take a bow @xtina! This should be a sticky post in EVERY forum. Preachin' that Saturn in Scorpio realness.
I do the disappearing act ALL THE TIME!!! And I looooove my virgo man!
My virgo men don't do it, but I surely do. I do it when I am pulling away and feel my feelings getting caught up. I will leave in a middle of sentence or convo and be gone. For months! So scared of getting hurt, its the virgo looking for answers, other things to occupy their time.
IMO it can be not wanting to be clingy either, which isn't a good nor bad thing depending on what u want. If u are up for it, tell him what u want. But i recommend that u go "missing" on him.
My virgo men don't do it, but I surely do. I do it when I am pulling away and feel my feelings getting caught up. I will leave in a middle of sentence or convo and be gone. For months! So scared of getting hurt, its the virgo looking for answers, other things to occupy their time.
IMO it can be not wanting to be clingy either, which isn't a good nor bad thing depending on what u want. If u are up for it, tell him what u want. But i recommend that u go "missing" on him.
Posted by VirgoCupcake
I do the disappearing act ALL THE TIME!!! And I looooove my virgo man!
My virgo men don't do it, but I surely do. I do it when I am pulling away and feel my feelings getting caught up. I will leave in a middle of sentence or convo and be gone. For months! So scared of getting hurt, its the virgo looking for answers, other things to occupy their time.
IMO it can be not wanting to be clingy either, which isn't a good nor bad thing depending on what u want. If u are up for it, tell him what u want. But i recommend that u go "missing" on him.
Thank God!!! A VIRGO talking about VIRGOS on the VIRGO BOARD!
How refreshing! 😄
Posted by VirgoCupcake
I do the disappearing act ALL THE TIME!!! And I looooove my virgo man!
My virgo men don't do it, but I surely do. I do it when I am pulling away and feel my feelings getting caught up. I will leave in a middle of sentence or convo and be gone. For months! So scared of getting hurt, its the virgo looking for answers, other things to occupy their time.
IMO it can be not wanting to be clingy either, which isn't a good nor bad thing depending on what u want. If u are up for it, tell him what u want. But i recommend that u go "missing" on him.
I couldn't have said it better myself. I think it is him not wanting to seem clingy. I'm the same way. I think it makes it much harder since we're both STUBBORN EARTH SIGNS lol. I always go "missing" on him and that's when he seems to pop up. Thanks for clearing that up for me 🙂
Posted by xtina
He's. Just. Not. That. Into. You
Trust me all this nonsense about hot and cold and disappearing act are excuses for women to use when a guy's not into them but they are in denial. If a man really cares about you he will show it and he won't pull none of this disappearing act/ hot and cold bullshit.
He does it because YOU let him do it. Simple as that.
When he disappears and then comes back you welcome him back with open arms and legs. Why wouldn't he do it? He gets all the sex with no commitment. Why buy the cow when you can have the milk for free.
No girl with any sense of worth would let a man do that. Doesn't matter how much she cares or how she feels about him. She won't take his bullshit. Have some self-respect and I mean that in the nicest way possible.
This. The guy is not interested and is keeping his options open.
Maybe he disappeared because of your poor spelling, its Houdini, not whodini 😛
Posted by hopelesscapricorn
Since I've known this guy (2 years), I've been dealing with his constant coming and going.
Ask yourself...is he really to blame here? Or does the blame go to the person who puts up with something like this for 2 years?
Think about that.
Posted by hopelesscapricorn
I think it is him not wanting to seem clingy. I'm the same way. I think it makes it much harder since we're both STUBBORN EARTH SIGNS lol. I always go "missing" on him and that's when he seems to pop up. Thanks for clearing that up for me 🙂
...or let some stranger on the internet think for you to come up with a temporary pacifying answer..
Its the same thing with my Virgo man (1 year of being together) The constant coming & going was fun at first; is now getting wearing. I never knew somebody actually enjoyed running to the store 3 times a day/ EVERY day. You don't "put up with it for 2 years" you go along & try to enjoy the same things & see where that goes...........
Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
Maybe he disappeared because of your poor spelling, its Houdini, not whodini 😛
😆
So one thing I know about Capricorns is that when you like someone your feelings can be extremely intense (my bestfriend is a Cap, I've seen it time and time again). These feelings are very scary for a typical Virgo who is slow to commit. It makes them feel pressured to choose and that'll scare the crap out of any Virgo.
I suggest you let it flow naturally if he's consistent with his contact with you and isn't disappearing, it's a good sign. Keep the pace, do not rush him. But if he's being inconsistent trust that he's not interested. Contrary to belief, Virgos do not disappear from people they truly like; they only do that to people they're uncertain about.
I suggest you let it flow naturally if he's consistent with his contact with you and isn't disappearing, it's a good sign. Keep the pace, do not rush him. But if he's being inconsistent trust that he's not interested. Contrary to belief, Virgos do not disappear from people they truly like; they only do that to people they're uncertain about.
Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
Maybe he disappeared because of your poor spelling, its Houdini, not whodini 😛
haha... BRUH.
I think the future of you're relationship really depends on where the venus sits But other than that Virgos are very cautious. We don't like to get into anything really heavy unless its a sure sure thing. And we are also very independent so we like our me-time. I can go months without talking to my closest friends. My dad is a virgo with a moon in leo and it took him awhile to come around to being with my Capricorn mom. Virgos typically like to be prepared for everything, especially being involved in a relationship that they feel is worth it. He probably got scared and isn't ready to settle down yet. Virgos settle down when they find suitable mates who they admire and if they want children, could see being a good potential parent.
Maybe it's a Virgo thing but realistically the behavior can be pulled by men of any astrological sign.
Some men are like little boys, once they see they can get attention for doing the wrong thing the behavior never ends.
I fault mainly women who are clinging and/or desperate to stay attached and therefore will chunk her boundaries (that's if she ever had any boundaries to begin with) out the front door just to keep that particular man around even if the door is constantly revolving.
The one mistake you made was setting up a faulty behavior pattern from the start. If you don't want to be the girl he falls back on from time to time when he feels like it then don't be that girl EVER, not in the beginning, not ever.
You don't have much wiggle room to negotiate therefore you can continue to be in this revolving door kind of friendship/fwb situation or you pull up your big girl panties and stop being open like 7 eleven which includes allowing him to have it his way like you're the drive through Burger King joint.
Truth be told he's not doing anything wrong. He's just following your lead. If you're okay with him being in and out of your life then he's okay with that as well.
Some men are like little boys, once they see they can get attention for doing the wrong thing the behavior never ends.
I fault mainly women who are clinging and/or desperate to stay attached and therefore will chunk her boundaries (that's if she ever had any boundaries to begin with) out the front door just to keep that particular man around even if the door is constantly revolving.
The one mistake you made was setting up a faulty behavior pattern from the start. If you don't want to be the girl he falls back on from time to time when he feels like it then don't be that girl EVER, not in the beginning, not ever.
You don't have much wiggle room to negotiate therefore you can continue to be in this revolving door kind of friendship/fwb situation or you pull up your big girl panties and stop being open like 7 eleven which includes allowing him to have it his way like you're the drive through Burger King joint.
Truth be told he's not doing anything wrong. He's just following your lead. If you're okay with him being in and out of your life then he's okay with that as well.
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