Can u be romantic with a virgo or will it scare

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by hopelesscapricorn on Saturday, October 18, 2014 and has 17 replies.

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@hopelesscapricorn
11 YearsCapricorn

So I'm a Capricorn and my virgo and I have been friends for 2 yrs now. I really like him, he knows this. He likes me, I know it.

I've realized that sometimes when the both of us disclose our feelings for each other, we pull away. Mainly him. But I do too because I've read that Virgos don't like when you're clingy or when you show too much emotion. In my past relationships I've been this sweet girl who writes poems for the guys I like. And I've done this before with my virgo but I haven't done it in a while. He has also told me he's not the relationship type of guy, which I can see because he is girl crazy and I've accepted that about him so we remain really good friends. It sucks because I like him so much and I wish I can express it more but I don't want to scare him off. And I don't want to get hurt by doing so....

Is it okay to be romantic with them? How should one go about expressing themselves to a virgo without scaring them away? I mean..it's been long enough so he shouldn't be too afraid right?

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@kissmygrits
14 Years5,000+ PostsCancer

As long as he says "he's not the relationship type" believe him and keep that friend zone going. Do you want to lose him forever? Think about it. Is it worth ruining a good thing?

This is for any man not just their sign.

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@Octoberbaby91
11 Years1,000+ PostsScorpio

Lmao I've studied yall for a whole year I know how to deal with yall. Speak from the heart but make it sound like it's from the brain. Don't be emotional but talk like your having a normal conversation. 😉

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Posted by hopelesscapricorn

He has also told me he's not the relationship type of guy, which I can see because he is girl crazy and I've accepted that about him so we remain really good friends.

It sucks because I like him so much and I wish I can express it more but I don't want to scare him off. And I don't want to get hurt by doing so....

Is it okay to be romantic with them? How should one go about expressing themselves to a virgo without scaring them away? I mean..it's been long enough so he shouldn't be too afraid right?

READ WHAT I HIGHLIGHTED IN BOLD^^^^ OVER AND OVER AND OVER AND OVER
Now ask yourself, why the hell would you want to put romantic energy into someone who DOES NOT WANT A RELATIONSHIP?

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11 YearsCapricorn

Posted by virgowithasoul
capricorns prize themselves at ramming down walls and making new frontiers. The greater the challenge the more they rise up to it. maybe 😛

I think you're right. I secretly like the challenge bc its never been this hard for me to get something or someone I've wanted. Damn you, mysterious, challenging virgos lol

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@hopelesscapricorn
11 YearsCapricorn

Posted by kissmygrits
As long as he says "he's not the relationship type" believe him and keep that friend zone going. Do you want to lose him forever? Think about it. Is it worth ruining a good thing?

This is for any man not just their sign.

You're right, I wouldn't want to ruin our friendship. Bc I value that more than anything. It just hurts to not be able to tell him how I feel. I can only hold so much in for so long.

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@virgowithasoul
12 Years1,000+ PostsVirgo

Posted by hopelesscapricorn
Posted by virgowithasoul
capricorns prize themselves at ramming down walls and making new frontiers. The greater the challenge the more they rise up to it. maybe 😛

I think you're right. I secretly like the challenge bc its never been this hard for me to get something or someone I've wanted. Damn you, mysterious, challenging virgos lol

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Darn... I hate always being right when it comes to caps 😄

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@P-Angel
21 Years25,000+ PostsPisces

Scared?

tks .......

Virgo's aren't afraid of feelings. You're not very observant, nor intuitive if after 2 years of knowing this Virgo, that this is what you have to say.

You are asking us how to talk and relate to your own friend of 2 years?

really?

You must suck as friend, since you don't know the answer, considering you were the one living the experience with this person ...

I wish people would wake the fuck up, already .......