why do i keep dating virgos?

Hi, new to the forum. I've had a few longterm relationships and 75% of them have been with virgos. any insights? ;p

Yes, you may have an earth dominant chart that attracts them.
Remember you are choosing to date Virgos so the attraction is apparently mutual.
It is also possible that you have something to learn from them in this phase of your life.

It never seems to end well. They're also the only ones I don't seem to maintain a friendship with after the fact. It frustrates me to no need because I never want someone that I've cared for so deeply to be out my life. eh, who knows? 🙂 thanks for the reply!

why do I keep dating virgos??

you have awesome taste. that's why 😄

also a penchant for sado-masochist dynamics.

What did they all have in common? Besides being Virgo.

@clueless Leo rising, Virgo moon, Cancer sun. @Kim31 nothing really. nothing I could really put my thumb on. The sex was always good, but I doubt that would be the deciding factor. maybe. @Damnata: I'd be interested in hearing more about the sado-masochistic dynamic.

no one lately. lol i'm just inquiring before I decide to allow myself to most likely repeat old habits.

but all the virgos ;p

i misread that. every virgo has broke up with me.

Posted by Curiousram
Virgos just have that effect on you, no guy has ever made me feel like a virgo has... and my chart has like no earth so there u go.

@Crab guy.

well we're both sensitive signs and quite the masochists in relationships. so when we get together, one of us seems to turn into a sadist. from witnessing cancer women over the years here..it's the virgo guy who turns into a sadist and hurts them. there seems to be a struggle with emotional manipulation too.

in real life one of the best marriages I know is a Crab Guy + Virgo chick..romantic and in love after..30 to 35 years of marriage.

I have Crab friends and I wove them, but Crab Men don't seem to wander down my path. Wish they did. Only time that happened I was dating someone else so I couldn't go there but he was a great guy.

Still think it's a good match if the Virgo can bear to express more emotion and be more affectionate and the Crab keeps the insecurity in check.

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Posted by Curiousram
Virgos just have that effect on you, no guy has ever made me feel like a virgo has... and my chart has like no earth so there u go.

that much of an effect? seriously? VIRGO— come on!

Lol yes no other sign has made me go crazy and feel the emotions i have felt X)

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she pretty much only believes scorpio men can have that effect on people. and they're a great match..cancer chicks and scorpio men.

I could ask myself the same question. But I don't care much anymore, I just go along with it.

I MOST CERTAINLY DO NOT!!!!!

Just so happens I believe cancers like myself are the only ones who can effect another in that way so NEH!

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Posted by Curiousram
Virgos just have that effect on you, no guy has ever made me feel like a virgo has... and my chart has like no earth so there u go.

that much of an effect? seriously? VIRGO— come on!

Lol yes no other sign has made me go crazy and feel the emotions i have felt X)

she pretty much only believes scorpio men can have that effect on people. and they're a great match..cancer chicks and scorpio men.

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I'll second that! Mmmmm scorpios.....

Gibraltar, it's your Virgo Moon that's drawing you and Virgos together.

Mmmmm Cancers. I may not like Seafood but I do love me some crab

Sniper I love this photo of the gun toting goat. LOL
Makes me want to get a goat as a pet.

Posted by LunarMaiden
Sniper I love this photo of the gun toting goat. LOL
Makes me want to get a goat as a pet.

that escalated to goat pictures quickly ;p

Really? Virgo girls are mean. Every time I come across one, I check my watch, create an excuse and bail. I shouldn't be saying this about my own sign but Virgos are not really all that in a bag of chips. Have you try dating cap girls? They are superb.

P.S. I'm mean and I'm a Virgo. 😄

Posted by VirgoDragirl
Really? Virgo girls are mean. Every time I come across one, I check my watch, create an excuse and bail. I shouldn't be saying this about my own sign but Virgos are not really all that in a bag of chips. Have you try dating cap girls? They are superb.

P.S. I'm mean and I'm a Virgo. 😄

that isn't true!! i don't think i'm friendly but i'm definitely not mean. i'm only not friendly because i don't feel the need to talk to everyone or say hi or smile if i don't feel like it. i only smile at kids and animals.

i'd like to date a cancer.. i think we're similar in that regards.

Posted by VirgoDragirl
Really? Virgo girls are mean. Every time I come across one, I check my watch, create an excuse and bail. I shouldn't be saying this about my own sign but Virgos are not really all that in a bag of chips. Have you try dating cap girls? They are superb.

P.S. I'm mean and I'm a Virgo. 😄

One of my best friends is a Virgo. Her birthday is next Thursday. She is the sweetest. I've known her for 15 years and we are tight as ever. I would take a bullet for that woman. Well, like a graze and she better haul me to the ER and ask for the good drugs.

@Virgodragirl I can semi-agree with that. The virgos i've known have always been very caring, but never about people lol I do have a tendency to go towards a stronger archetype in the opposite sex. Sometimes that could translate into dating someone that is a little "meaner" than your average person, but i kind of like that. I'm also very good at pushing away and virgo ladies doth not seem to like it when i retreat into my shell. It always seems as though I'm doing it because of them, but reality it's probably just something i'm still working out for myself. the perfectionist must have answers though. Answers i don't always have to give. The perfectionist nature will always seem to lead to prodding and I just can't handle that. Everything will come out in due time, usually.

@clueless cancer you might be right, good sir. you might be right.

@bloodfood that sentiment seems to mirror all the virgo ladies i've had in my life.