christinelovessnickers
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Virgos, why would you lie
He is about to propose and wants to know you're reaction. 1st.
My reaction shouldn't matter if he likes this lady. I don't even know her. Last I heard about her is that she is different (in a good way) and that she is weird (his words). I asked if he saw a future with her and he told me he honostly couldn't say. Maybe that was another lie?
I guess it bothers me because he is so big on people being honest, but than he lies so freely and just to see a reaction.
I guess it bothers me because he is so big on people being honest, but than he lies so freely and just to see a reaction.
Posted by CluelessCancer
That's just what they do.
There is always a reason behind an action lol. Just a matter of how it is rationalized.
From what he has said, I don't think she is raunchy.
Impulsv, What was his gf doing that made her so raunchy?
Impulsv, What was his gf doing that made her so raunchy?
Cc, I just assume he did it to rub it in my face. You are probably right though.
Posted by christinelovessnickers
Just to see someone's reaction?
A Virgo I am friends with, there is a past with us, but currently are only friends. No messing around/ sex. We are both talking/ dating other people. He told me randomly he was engaged. He later admitted he was lying and wanted to see my reaction. Why? The lady he lied about is someone he is talking to. I just don't get why he lied about it. Any insights?
Because he wanted to know the truth about how you feel I assume you guys are close friends if so he would know when your are lying none my friends can lie to me because I'm so observant. I can tell lil changes in people bodies that most people don't pay attention to , to put it simple we virgos don't trust words if we want to see the real truth. Some time you have to tell a lie to get to the truth.
Virgoking, I have never hidden how I feel about him. He knows.
But maybe he just didn't believe me.
But maybe he just didn't believe me.
Posted by christinelovessnickers
Virgoking, I have never hidden how I feel about him. He knows.
But maybe he just didn't believe me.
Most likely this was his way of making sure you was telling the truth Scorpio have there test and we have this it's not really know in astrology circles though.
Posted by CluelessCancer
Why would he care. He got a girl right. So? —
That's mind games and mind games are sick.
He might still like her one thing about mutable signs and virgo is one of them we always want to make sure we are making the right decision before being in a true Commitment.
Posted by CluelessCancer
How do you come to the right decision? It's all very confusing. You either like them or you don't.
We'll virgo is always thinking since we are mutable meaning dual or two personalities to make it simple virgo goes head first than heart. Head and heart have two different needs, she may fulfill his head needs or hearts who knows but him. The goal of most virgos is to get someone that can fulfill our head and heart needs as you can see that not an easy task. Plus virgo will not tell you what they want because they want things Authentic and if we told you just act that because we told not because that is who you are.
Thats what I am thinking!!!
Posted by Blackvirgo
He is about to propose and wants to know you're reaction. 1st.
You have been toying with this guy's feelings for quite some time now. A person only has to read your posting history to see how dishonest you are being.
In June, you made a thread about him and this woman, and you said that you jokingly asked him if he was going to marry her ... then you said ....
Posted by christinelovessnickers
I guess the real question is are you Virgos so shallow that you would choose someone you can use vs. Love?
.... which is insinuating you are the one he could choose to love.
You keep him on a string. Dangling him out there saying that you're only a friend, then expect him to value you as more.
You're a manipulator, and playing on his feelings ... then acting innocently confused.
I wouldn't be surprised in the least if you were a Cancer with the amount of mind games you play
I think it was just to get an reaction out of you.
Once of virgo guys, say stuff that he know will bother me just to see if I care or not. Its all just to see where your head is. If you wouldve said "oh congrats!" lol. He prob wouldve dumped her
Once of virgo guys, say stuff that he know will bother me just to see if I care or not. Its all just to see where your head is. If you wouldve said "oh congrats!" lol. He prob wouldve dumped her
ockquote>Posted by P-Angel
You have been toying with this guy's feelings for quite some time now. A person only has to read your posting history to see how dishonest you are being.
In June, you made a thread about him and this woman, and you said that you jokingly asked him if he was going to marry her ... then you said ....
Posted by christinelovessnickers
I guess the real question is are you Virgos so shallow that you would choose someone you can use vs. Love?
.... which is insinuating you are the one he could choose to love.
You keep him on a string. Dangling him out there saying that you're only a friend, then expect him to value you as more.
You're a manipulator, and playing on his feelings ... then acting innocently confused.
I wouldn't be surprised in the least if you were a Cancer with the amount of mind games you playclick to expand
I haven't been toying with him at all. In fact, I think it is the other way around.
I did jokingly say he would marry her and he said hell no. At that point we were working on being friends. Then later on he randomly said he was engaged to her. During the comment I had told brought up him being in love and he said he wasn't in love with her. That is why I asked if he would chose someone to use over love.
How is thattoying with him?
He is the one that has been hitting on me nonstop and actually initiating conversations about "us not being done" and saying that there "is something between us" and other comments like "we are friends with obviously more feelings for each other". All while he knows I am talking to someone else and he was "supposedly engaged". He came clean about not being engaged only because I told him I wasn't going to cross inappropriate boundaries with him and that he had a woman. Him lying to me and than still working hard to get it at me, how is that not him playing games?
I have been honest with him about how I feel about him and that since we were going to be friends that I was going to attempt to move on.
Did it drive me nuts that he was "engaged" to someone else? yes. But I still want him to be happy and settle down with a good woman when he is ready. Does a part of me hopes it is me? yes. Honestly, i thought we would have fotten it figured out, but history has proven otherwise. I will be happy for him if he settles down with someone else. Hurt, but happy. I have just been trying to understand him and his actions since he is so confusing to me. I guess trying to understand is game playing now.
I did jokingly say he would marry her and he said hell no. At that point we were working on being friends. Then later on he randomly said he was engaged to her. During the comment I had told brought up him being in love and he said he wasn't in love with her. That is why I asked if he would chose someone to use over love.
How is thattoying with him?
He is the one that has been hitting on me nonstop and actually initiating conversations about "us not being done" and saying that there "is something between us" and other comments like "we are friends with obviously more feelings for each other". All while he knows I am talking to someone else and he was "supposedly engaged". He came clean about not being engaged only because I told him I wasn't going to cross inappropriate boundaries with him and that he had a woman. Him lying to me and than still working hard to get it at me, how is that not him playing games?
I have been honest with him about how I feel about him and that since we were going to be friends that I was going to attempt to move on.
Did it drive me nuts that he was "engaged" to someone else? yes. But I still want him to be happy and settle down with a good woman when he is ready. Does a part of me hopes it is me? yes. Honestly, i thought we would have fotten it figured out, but history has proven otherwise. I will be happy for him if he settles down with someone else. Hurt, but happy. I have just been trying to understand him and his actions since he is so confusing to me. I guess trying to understand is game playing now.
Well what do you want?
Would you rather be platonic friends with him?
Like have yall crossed "the line"?
Would you rather be platonic friends with him?
Like have yall crossed "the line"?
I want him to be happy.
I would love to explore what there could be between us. I just don't know how to get there with him or if it is even possible. He has said he doesn't know what he wants recently and has admitted in the past he wasnt ready. I still don't know if he is yet. If he were to tell me he was ready to be in a relationship and wanted to be with me, I would do it.
The guy I am talking to now is not someone I see myself with.
While either on of us has been talking to someone else, no we haven't. He has tried hard to initiate. I told him if we are going to be friends that those boundaries can't be crossed and if they are than we probably shouldn't be friends. I have limited seeing him since he has tried. It goes fine and then before I leave he will try to get physical. The last time I saw him went the same way. I walked out. He cracked his door and asked why I left like that. I told him I don't want to be put in that position with him since we are dating other people and left. He sent me a text later and apologized and said it wouldn't happen again and that he hadn't realized I was so serious about this other guy. I explained I wasn't but that I was trying to move on.
I would love to explore what there could be between us. I just don't know how to get there with him or if it is even possible. He has said he doesn't know what he wants recently and has admitted in the past he wasnt ready. I still don't know if he is yet. If he were to tell me he was ready to be in a relationship and wanted to be with me, I would do it.
The guy I am talking to now is not someone I see myself with.
While either on of us has been talking to someone else, no we haven't. He has tried hard to initiate. I told him if we are going to be friends that those boundaries can't be crossed and if they are than we probably shouldn't be friends. I have limited seeing him since he has tried. It goes fine and then before I leave he will try to get physical. The last time I saw him went the same way. I walked out. He cracked his door and asked why I left like that. I told him I don't want to be put in that position with him since we are dating other people and left. He sent me a text later and apologized and said it wouldn't happen again and that he hadn't realized I was so serious about this other guy. I explained I wasn't but that I was trying to move on.
Posted by christinelovessnickers
I want him to be happy.
I would love to explore what there could be between us. I just don't know how to get there with him or if it is even possible. He has said he doesn't know what he wants recently and has admitted in the past he wasnt ready. I still don't know if he is yet. If he were to tell me he was ready to be in a relationship and wanted to be with me, I would do it.
The guy I am talking to now is not someone I see myself with.
While either on of us has been talking to someone else, no we haven't. He has tried hard to initiate. I told him if we are going to be friends that those boundaries can't be crossed and if they are than we probably shouldn't be friends. I have limited seeing him since he has tried. It goes fine and then before I leave he will try to get physical. The last time I saw him went the same way. I walked out. He cracked his door and asked why I left like that. I told him I don't want to be put in that position with him since we are dating other people and left. He sent me a text later and apologized and said it wouldn't happen again and that he hadn't realized I was so serious about this other guy. I explained I wasn't but that I was trying to move on.
Sounds confusing. I think you both should either decide if you both want to move fwd and focus on each other. Or if you try to see other ppl then there is no reason to be friends. That is where confusion comes in. Otherwise it will continue to go in this circle. I had to cut off all ties with one virgo or we wouldve just kept going back and forth on each others time. Which soon causes boredem. or someone starts to become disrespectful from the other being in their personal space.
VirgoCupCake is right. You let this become a circle. You always let him into your life. Why do you do this? This guy doesn't have anything for you. He belittles your feeling by telling you while testing you about his alleged upcoming engagement. Why do you let him do this to you? Is this guy really THAT special?
Facts: Virgo doesn't go back to any prior relationships unless this guy is really desperately in love with you but his manner doesn't reflect this. He is not desperately in love with you or with anyone. Virgo can't be desperately in love with anyone. They do love and respect but they don't do desperately-in-love.
Sorry if I sound like a bitch. I really only meant to help you see things that you probably see but don't want to see.
Have a good week!
Facts: Virgo doesn't go back to any prior relationships unless this guy is really desperately in love with you but his manner doesn't reflect this. He is not desperately in love with you or with anyone. Virgo can't be desperately in love with anyone. They do love and respect but they don't do desperately-in-love.
Sorry if I sound like a bitch. I really only meant to help you see things that you probably see but don't want to see.
Have a good week!
I am sure you are right. Like I said, we were trying to be friends. Maybe that isn't an option. I need to be smart enough to see that instead of letting my emotions rule my decisions.
Thank you for the input guys.
Thank you for the input guys.
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