what do people REALLY want?!!!!!?

Hey. I've been tinkin' something over: people get into relationships and expect love, love, love, and happiness, and for no rain to come. You place certain expectations on them, because you love them, and believe firmly that they can be this person that you know they can. I personally think without those expectations we'd all just sit around and be unmotivated because nobody believes in us, including ourselves. But then you take these ideals and expectations away, then they are dissapointed, and upset becuase you aren't nearly as passionate as you used to be!? Sheesh why ya gotta go makin' things complicated?!

Hey VE...

Love is a Zest of life... like the spices you adding to your meal, without spices; you can eat that food but it is tasteless!

You can live a life without love but it is tasteless?how ever..LOVE is not about having a romance and lovely/exciting time with the opposite gender, you sure understand what love is..??

Don't mix up expectations with the standards?90% of human's populations mixing up these two facts? that's why they are suffering?!


Love in relationship is sharing the same goal and walking in the same path (together).. sexual drives, beauties, strength, health etc. will fading away after a while? what is remaining is the passion of following the shared goals? till the death knocking on the door..!

Or else? after only 8 years of togetherness? both sexes became like sister and brothers?.!


Dr.Q

Hi Q!!!!! how are you?

a very wisdomfilled post there Mr. ....I agree.

So, VE....make a list of your goals .... c'mon let's see 'em 😉 Ya just never know what is gonna happen.

herm.....I don't know what love is....I thought it was a mutual feeling existant in two forms; an intangible feeling, that leaves one 'senseless'.....I figured in believing in someone and supporting them was the best way to assert your feelings, and intiating partiality toward them....I've run afoul with alot of people; is it better to just accept something as it is, or if you see it in a brand new light to bring attention to this person and inform them of their potential? It's like love interveniton no?

?Service is a Language of Love.

?Gifting is a Language of Love.

?Sharing is a Language of Love.

?Time is a Language of Love.

?Sex is a Language of Love.

?Attention is a Language of Love.

?Patience is a Language of Love.

?Support is a Language of Love.

?Forgiveness is a Language of Love.

?Non-Judgment is a Language of Love.

?Understanding is a Language of Love.

?Mercy is a Language of Love.

?Compassion is a Language of Love.



Make sure that you have some understanding of above rules before you know you are in love ..! then you'll be ok?!

...Shaka2 ! go sit in the corner and THINK about what you just said! *pick up the dunce hat on the way*

boys! sheesh....... anyone know where the Men are?

1.)get layed by someone within the next 24 hours
2.)get some cheetos and or spicy food
3.)feed the dog (if he hasn't passed)....😢

lol.....I don't really make goal lists....I tend to sort of wander into things....I'm a bad planner, but a great improviser! Everything I map out tends never to really work out.

Houston....we have a problem! 😉

free, I thought I was pretty manly....😉 It's tough to be with someone when you're so independent, and freewheeling....I say this becuase relationships have rules, and do, and don'ts! It's so overwhelming.....I've had friends w benefits, but never a 'girlfriend'.....I just don't know how to deal with it all. You find someone, You have faith in them, and even though they may not meet your every demand to the T, you still believe in them! I don't expect people to be perfect just that when they do something the give their all, and keep that ideal in mind!

lol I'm tryin' free!! lol I feel love is sacrifice, and I can sacrifice it all, but when it comes to pass, I'm considered 'needy' and told that I shouldn't have such high hopes/ideals?! Why don't people stop slackin' and get to work! Effort gets rewarded, fail or suceed I still love you all the same! I think that kind of criticsm comes from people who just aren't up to snuff!

hey Q, I've got all the other twelve steps, but lucky number 13 got me....FORGIVNESS!!!!!! YUCK SLIGHT ME, AND YOUR ARSE IS MINE!!!! YUMMMM!!! lol

I'm not usually a grudging person...., wait yea I am! I never forget a person who has done me wrong, and typically plotting vengeance....can be a sick pastime for me....😢 I've gotta be a Scorpio....😢 Anytime I think about a person I have venegful feelings towards, I seethe VERY intensely, and make sure no one is aware of it....all the sharp instuments of torture are of course clean...😉

*puts on claws and matching stinger and frowns in hole*

Well

what do people REALLY want?!!!!!?

When you chose to think with your dick, then it is what you want?. Why you decorate it with those question marks..??

That's why I make every effort to focus on being a good boy for mummy and daddy; it's true; I know if they knew the 'other parts of VE' they would run out the house pulling out their hair.....every straight-laced Tom's got a story.....

Excuze moi? I don't think I understood that Q; what was your intent?

becuase I wasn't thinkin' of why not to do it; saw only the positives!

The PROBLEM is usually not what people want but what they are incapable or unwilling of giving in return (refer to Qbone's list).....lol....ponder THAT for 30 seconds...

humm I see....so do you accept what they cannot give, and take them as is?

Excuze moi? I don't think I understood that Q; what was your intent?


You probably never will, but hey? Don't worry and no hard feelings.. We all are different..!

It's called diversities?!

wow..well if anyone else has a moon in a water sign..I say we plot to kill all the humans we despise..🙂

VE you don't need to have a scorpio sun. I have a scorp moon and I've felt the same way you do plenty of times. I thought it was normal...but..yeah..these water signs are what's influencing us really....... damn >_>;

lol RC....sheesh lol *twirls straight blade in tai chi chaun style winking at RC*

*looks into the moon in hypnotic stare*

wha? oh yea...lol I think it adds to the emotional strength, and character and give one deeper feelings; nothing wrong with water! it's great! I luve it.....it's just for a mental sign like virgo it's hard to move on decisively when feelings are SO intense.....It's as if you can't surrender, and live, and let live!! I'd rather not have the moon in Cancer but I love it in the same sense; emotional ambivalence.....ahhhhhhhh 🙂





I was asking for you to enlighten me, and you didn't; why? I asked only that you explain yourself, but instead trying to make yourself look good with eloquence....that just suxxx but hey! No hard feelings! Diversities right?! lol 🙂

yep. can't live and let live..but I thought that's what this dumb aqua sun is suppose to be for.X_X