Do you girls find . . .

the saying from the movie Deloris Clayborne

"Sometimes being a bitch is the only thing a woman has to hold onto"

a subconscious part of yourself in preservation? When a guy is being a dildo about something and you just don't want to deal with him, is it easy to cop this attitude to protect yourself?

I loved that movie and think about that phrase a lot.

If I thought my daughter's father was molesting her . . would I have the guts to be a bitch enough to kill the M-F?

Probably . . would any of you?

Brilliant idea . . you're right, it would solve both problems.

"a subconscious part of yourself in preservation? When a guy is being a dildo about something and you just don't want to deal with him, is it easy to cop this attitude to protect yourself?"

Fuck yes! It takes me aback how quickly I switch to this mode to behaviour when I relaise that he's not mine anymore. I reckon it's the lady's way of feeling that she has the upper hand in terms of principle and manners.

Yeah and let's not forget Stephen King, the author of Delores Claiborne is virgo.

Ouch, Shaka . . that took guts for a guy to say that, lol

Seriously . . I'm probably cold-hearted enough . . I'd kill 'em. Would I be in prison for the rest of my life . . yeah, probably . . but, he'd be dead.

"he'd be in prison getting fudge packed and dickless"

lmfao

Yeah . . what she said.

Shaka, it's a penis sex toy in reality . . I used it to mean when a guy is being an asshole.

lol, ok . . sorry, I thought you meant that you didn't

So, this moon in Scorpio thing . . is that effecting my crudity too, because I'm feeling pretty ranchy.

notso, cause when the old lady was convincing Deloris that she had it in her to kill her husband for sexually molesting the daughter, she used this phrase as justification.

Dyr was on earlier . . he might come back . . this will drive him crazy . . poor guy, he's been through enough already and now we're talking about chop-chop the chicken nuggets.

"Feelings of jealousy and revenge may arise, so special caution is needed to avoid confrontations."

Well, shitza . . this explains alot . . I was wondering why I was feeling so testy.

i think we need to take up a collection for shaka and notso, so the two of them can get a room, already

Not just now, vgm . . I've reamed two people out in the last 24 hours, for no apparant reason, lol

that would be one, vgm, the other was notso

all of us, Shaka, the viewing will be on the scorpio board at mightnight.

i'm making popcorn now in preparation . . thinking alot will attend

lol, that happens a lot

ok, so i did one other person and then myself

"Sometimes being a cookiemonster is the only thing a woman has to hold onto"

a subconscious part of yourself in preservation? When a guy is being a dildo about something and you just don't want to deal with him, is it easy to cop this attitude to protect yourself?

men also have ways of being a cookiemonster. even worse 'coz they're men. this is not just a girl thang.

Roxi, me too . . I'd slaughter him . . piece by piece.

Burn in hell for it?

Ok

The part that amazes me . . are the spouses who ignore.

It's one thing for someone to have a sickness. I'm not suggesting that pedophelia is condonable . . but, if a person is mentally ill . . this needs to be addressed.

But, then there are these women who are so desperate (I guess) for the love and attention of thier man . . that they turn away and ignore what is right in front of their face.

I remember someone (not naming) who told the wife of a man, that her husband had put his hand down her pants . . she was around 13 at the time, and the wife yelled at the teenage girl, called her a lying slut . . I don't get it.

Perhaps, that's a sickness, too . . attention deprivation sickness . . I don't know, but, I can't comprehend how a mother can love a man sooooo goddamm much that she would allow him to harm her child.