What is this virgo girl trying to do?

I recently joined a new company and met this virgo chick, who??s like me, a stoner. We talked once or twice for the first two months but then she asked for my number so she could msg me and we could go down to smoke. We were already facebook friends and in complicated relationships and would try to help each other out about our relationships. She??d flirt with me often and touch me front of people gently. Then there was this office party. I never told her I had a crush on her but went for the party. asked her to fix me up with some girl in the party and she tried but I had been pretending to be interested in someone else. We both got really drunk in the party.
Through the party she flirted with me, caught me when I was alone. We both then ended up kissing. She then had to leave because her ride was there. I was drunk and tried calling her when she left. She didn't pick up or msg back. She said she was way too drunk and didn't rem the night before but apparently she picked up her boss??s call later at night. Next day was a holiday and she messaged me saying whats up. People in the office spread the rumour around of what happened between us. But we continued talking. But I'm a cancer and I always thought she liked a guy in our small group.

I started ignoring her. She did too. We??d message each other often before but then things changed even before the kiss. I remember she??d kind off get throat struck when I??d tell her that I'm going for a movie with some girl I kind of fancied. I decided to stop talking to her and told her She said fine but why. She asked me a few times and I stated that we??re foolish and we??d end up kissing again when we are so complicated already. We both said it was a mistake and she said it wouldn't happen again.

Then there was the Christmas party, where I had a fight with somebody and one of my group members, senior one got up to defend me, not the one she I feel crushed on. I had made a lot of decently close friends by then, Then after the fight when things cooled, I told them (the virgo and friend, not the one i think she's hitting on) that I had told someone in the office about the kiss. After the fight that night both of them decided not to talk to me. I apologized to them bu

I guess I'm not understanding your post. You're both in relationships with other people?

I've read it like 4 times now and its still not making sense to me lol

If you are both already in complicated relationships then you shouldnt be doing anything with each other until those relationships are done with.

If they are done with..then you two need to stop playing games and doing the cancer/virgo push/pull crap...it will go on foreverrrrrr until either one of you just gives up. Just be upfront and honest. And why would you tell someone in the office about the kiss...is that true or were you just saying that to get a reaction out of her? cancers are good at that...and virgos wont play (hence the talking stopped after telling her that)


I need a better post to go by cause this one just doesnt make sense to me and its hard to give advice to cause it feels all over the place