What Virgos teach me...

Wow, after all this talking with him and he still hasn't tried anything with me yet (sexually).I'm lovin'it. What a gentleman (sigh). I love this long dragged out courting. I know most girls would likely wonder. Does he like me? Yes, no, maybe so. But, I'm sure of it this time around. In the past I was so fast into relationships that I forgot to get to know the person. And the more I get to know him, the more I get to know myself. Or should I say let him help me to know myself. And the more I now know myself, the more I know what I need. And what I need is someone to teach me all the things I knew, but just never stopped to think how important it is...Such as the following

Patience is a virtue
Love is not selfish
Don't lie to yourself
Can't get East by traveling West
Look at things from a different perspective
Be more observant and not so blunt
Stay young, but be wise
Discriminate
Take your time to make decisions
Saying nice things doesn't hurt
Be courteous and kind

Anyone else wanna add what they learned from a loved one?

From a Virgo?.

Stay in love with whom you love dearly, love is not like "I love candy or ice cream.."

Oh boy, do I love him dearly. Never have I talked to someone in so much depth before unless it's my parents. It's so crazy...it's like reading a book with him. I flip the page, I read the odd numbered lines and he reads the even. And it just keeps on flowing. When I get stuck on some detail information, he explains. When he doesn't feel the big picture, I'll give him my opinion. And we laugh about the same things. With him, it's like watching a bud in bloom. Yes, I will stay in love with him dearly always, friendship, courtship, relationship, what have you, it will be forever. I'm not letting this one fly away.

I know the exact feeling?

You are in love?

Guard your feelings in a rational way lady?its precious?.

Oh, Arieswoman, I will pray for you. You are going to need it.😉

Pray..??

No need for pray?she needs to be herself and that?s it? why pray..?? She doesn't date a demon...

Unless she started to believe on depressed females like you rejected by Virgos?!

She need understanding of her positions in her love life.. be it Virgo or some other star signs..

We all need that?.

Stay in love with whom you love dearly, love is not like "I love candy or ice cream.."


WOW.... a good piece of advice 😛

I will try to guard my feeling in a rational way. I am completely honest with him so it is difficult to not let anything show through, but I know what you mean. On my part I will feed him my love mini slice by mini slice. I give a little, he gives a little and vice versa. However much I want to just eat him up alive, I will not let myself do that. Otherwise I will probably scare him away. My strategy is containment, not of him, but of myself. When I say strategy, I don't mean games I'm playing with him, but a plan I drew out for me to follow. It is a way of controling myself. There's lots I need to learn. And yes, I am probably very deeply in love, but this time it's a little different. This time, it's not crazy passion. It's more respect and courtesy and gallantry...and many other little things...it's much gentler and I like it very much. I think it may be a little easier for me to understand "earth signs" because my moon is in Taurus. Hmmm?

It would be pointless for me to say everything that my Virgo has taught me, because everyone already knows how I feel about my man.

So, I'll just say the one thing that is the most important, and that's he taught me to be myself, be true to myself. It was a task, because, since I'm Pisces, I would naturally rely on others to give me a place to belong. We have a need to belong to another person and we close our eyes and live in a world that isn't real, if necessary, just to feel like somebody wants us.

He's taught me that it is to myself that I should hold true, then I will be content and happy in my life.