When a virgo is in love he'll/she'll...

lets find out 😉

lol there is no middle ground...I analyze, analyze, analyze!!! Lol I have a problem...
I love to find out as much information about them as I possibly can, it's like OCD (lol)
but generally I am very happy, extremely passionate, a little goofy, oh and I am the giving servant (lol), I love helping out whenever I can

Also, I've noticed that when Virgo's are in love . . they will take anything.

Alot of other signs (most), will only bend so far, before they snap back and retaliate. But, it appears to me, from my experience, that when the Virgo has these emotions that makes them "goofy" . . they can be pushed to extremes, they have a lot of endurance and will continue to drive forward.

Not sure if that's a good quality, or bad.

when a female virgo is in love she'll want to know all about the person she's infatuated with, be slightly obsessed. However when they get fed up the analyzing continues but now it becomes sort of "what's the point" and that's where it ends if nothing changes. It's either love or it's complete indifference.

hmm. let's say the girl that a virguy likes decides to cut off contact with him and tell him that she doesn't want to get hurt (so basically she doesn't trust him)

how would he react if it is a girl that he likes?

This whole ignoring "middle-ground" is a little disburbing to me . . either love all the way, or complete indifference, for all of us have a gray area. V's themselves, have gray areas where we (non-V) are forced to sit back and wait, usually with little, or no communication.

That seems a tad one-sided and selfish.

Why is it that this accepting of middle-ground is demanded by a Virgo . . but, not given back? What does this mean, exactly?

Is it inferring that only to the V, worth is measured?
Is it not an equal partnership, then?

Obsess, or deny . . . that's it? Dyr said, "because my feelings are consistent and true". But, you're partner isn't you, they are them, NOT YOU. Is this to mean that the partner of a Virgo HAS to accept them because thier feelings are true, but, the V is allowed to withdraw simply because there is an area that seems undistinguishable, yet, for the Virgo to pull away (sometimes for years) and appear incoherent, (causing the partner to suffer through a gray area) . . is being true?

You've lost me. How can it be allowed by one and not the other?

That's a contridiction . . please clarify.

walking contridictions- that sums things up.

That's natural... everyone who get dumped call the other part a sissy... or what ever hell their accusations will be or they will come up with?


To this roxisomething.. Vrigos are sissies? its ok for me? world is full of idiots anyway..!

Who cares..!!

Have it ever occured to you that maybe Virgo men are just shy?

Not shy? but they are MODEST?!

There is different between to be SHY and to be MODEST..!!

Then I would suggest that you say it is your own personality, not the Virgos in general..!

I as Virgo don't feel shy..!! but modest..!

Beside the social butterflies everyone looking to have a comfortable conversations or contact with others? doesn't mean that they are shy..!

Looking for comfort is important to every social connections..!

Listen lady... I haven't said that I don't care... I said who cares..!! If I didn't cared I wouldn't answer the post in the first place..!

What I did was questioning that? why when people like you start insulting when they get dumped..?

Then generalising the whole bunch, because of they don't get what they wanted..?? Or wished for? then start to force others to believe on their own personal conclusions..!!

Signs have nothing to do with the interpersonal relationships be it scorpion or Virgo or what ever... but the own personal life experience or and the we wish things to happen..!!

Would it help if I said Awwww? the Virgo you met was a jerk?? You deserve the better..!!

Well?. This the word you'll never going to hear it from me?. But really? should I fool you with sweet words..??

Care to answer to my simple questions..?

Thank you...

You had problem with your Virgo.. I had problem with my Aries too.-?. Shall I judge all Aries because I had problem with one of those..??

Aint that kind of egoistic approach to the subject..??

Again...

Nothing personal, just asking a question and looking for the answer..!!

In response to this question...I ditto Shaka's and Dissolve's comment:

"...his world will turn upside down and he'll try to analyze the heck out of the situation, why am I feeling this? why her? etc etc, till he finds out that there is no logical explanation to it, so he either becomes obsessive or breaks all contact with her, there is no middle ground!!" - Shaka

"...eventually after a lot of analysis they stop and ask themselves.. "what is the point" (Dissolve)

Even though for me the obsessive option is very very hidden from them...and it is only represented by a continuos analysis and search for understanding that person more and more...

The breaking all contact is true...but it is also little by little, for me.

I think at some point like Dissolve said, I either go one way or another, very true in every relationship I had. I cared for each person inmensenly, but there was a point in the analysis where I got overwhelmed and although I had feelings I had to make a choice...for my own sanity.

When the factors are too overwhelming or heavy at some point in my life when things are hard, then Ill most likely be way more logical than emotional about everything...to protect myself and the other person.

I don't know that I've ever been in love either, I care more about knowing if I have found true love instead, that may take some time for me, and many many years of continuis work towards a safe place.

VLL

Even though for me the obsessive option is very very hidden from them...and it is only represented by a continuos analysis and search for understanding that person more and more...
The breaking all contact is true...but it is also little by little, for me.

I think at some point

VLL

.. reason why relationships are negotiation

one can't say they're not ready for love when they haven't patiently tried, hoped and wait for love to surivive. merging of two lives have painful adjustments. before i see every problem as adversity than considering it as a message and awareness that there's something i lack or my partner lack that needs to be balanced.

i realized that when you fear something, you worry about things that's not been happening or have happened already my doubts and fears won't lead to enjoy the feeling of being loved and scorned. both can happen all at the same time that makes the journey worthwhile.

little did i know that i've found the kind of love that i was looking for if i open my heart to love and won't ever let this one slip away from me before it's too late.

They're just so needy . . emotionally needy . . and it's draining on their partners. There seems to be some "oblivion" to this on their part. They think they are strong mentally and emotionally, that because they can ignore unnecessary feelings, that it makes them above people who appear weaker when upset, or distraught . . when, in reality, this makes them needy because their partners have to pick up ALL the frigging slack with the intimate part of a relationship . . feelings.

Every Virgo I've ever met in real life . . friend or family, male and female . . has been this way. They hide behind their mighty resolve of being able to handle emotions, which unbeknownst to them, this is what makes them weak . . this is why they fear intimacy, why they pull away to observe and think things through . .

They just can't comprehend this, no matter how one tries to explain it to them. We all have issues and needs to work through . .

Hey Virgo's listening, it's hard for us too, to have to deal with emotional issues, sometimes it hurts so bad because it's such a burden . . why do we have to carry yours too?

i must admit i am. you're right P-Angel and it didn't do any good to me but suffer and think that world is such a horrible place to live in. and that love is a poison.

reason why most of the men i met were fake, liars and stupid.

we don't love to impress. we don't show only the good things about us thinking they will not accept us. i find it sexy when a man doesn't love just to impress his woman. after all, love is not a dress rehearsal.

Maybe this is one reason why Pisces and Virgo fit so good together, 'cause emotions is just about the only thing we really know down to the core . . we have tons to spare.

It just gets so hard to handle . . it's a heavy burden after a prolonged period of time, and eventually, a person just can't carry it any longer.

never been available to you

Perhaps he/she got upset with her/his emotional life? they were never available to me before?. Why now??

scopiogoat

Doubt..?? or talking about personal safety factor.!!


Explain it to me please.. what do you mean by doubt ..? An emotionally dumped person arrives in my life and after a long time suddenly finds me attractive enough to start a relationship with.!!

Oww? wow.. Shall I open a bottle of Champaign for this occasion and celebrating that this person finally have noticed me?. Goshh I guess I am LUCKY?!!

And excuse me? what about my own view and wishes..? Perhaps I am not attracted to her? ? should I be respected or be judged as insensitive/analysing Virgo..??

What/who gives me a guarantee to believe that she will not change her mind again (in time) and moves with the person (that she liked him before)..??

Emotionally dumped partner is the worst partner.. been there done that?!!


What will you do if you experience the same situation..??

thank you roxi I hope Virgos when put in the situation would have the courage to not doubt too much and grab the true happiness they have dreamed of now presented in front of them

If someone causing me happiness then there is truly something wrong with me, happiness comes from within and it is personal..!

Same goes for the sadness?!!

A Virgo in love...

makes him/herself useful to you in any way he/she can,
will try to make excuses to run into you in unexpected times and places,
will be unable to hide his/her excitement and happiness when you're around,
will act awkward even he/she is the strongest and most serious person on earth,
will look deep in your eyes but will remove his/her glance when you pick up the stare,
will compliment and honour you constantly in front of others,
will do anything to make you feel loved.