Where do I stand with my Virgo

I'm a cancer women who has dated a virgo man since December of last year. Virgo and I seem to be moving in a positive way and getting closer. He always seem to be in competion with my ex-husband, always wanted to beat him up for hurting me in past. He doesn't like any male friends around me. he had a lot of girls interest and use to brag about it, then he got rid of them one by one. He finally told his Mother about me. Then I went into the hospital and came out with Kidney issues. He was there in the hospital with me like knight and charming armor. Then when I left the hospital, I barely soar him, he kept telling me to focus on my health and my daughter. Three weeks after I was release from the hosipital we made love for my birthday. Then I was reading his friend status on his facebook that he responded to (his friend was a girl) and I made a mistake and requested her as a friend. I didn't even know until he text me and say "y am I requesting his friends", I said "What", he told me who I requested and I apologized told him I didn't mean to, that I was just reading the status, because I felt the same way as she did, the reason for reading the status. He came back and stated that "That was his friend!!!!" and then 10 minutes later he said that "That was a major turn off". Then he remove me from facebook.

The question is , is there a way to salvage this relationship or is it over. What should I do, I love him.

Posted by carmellove

.... and then 10 minutes later he said that "That was a major turn off". Then he remove me from facebook.

What should I do, I love him.

hahahahhahahahaha ...........

You should call him every 10 minutes .. while texting him every 5 minutes, send emails, show up at his work, contact all his family members and friends ...

... afterall you love him, and for that reason alone .. you should abandon all reason

Posted by carmellove

I'm a cancer women who has dated a virgo man since December of last year. Virgo and I seem to be moving in a positive way and getting closer. He always seem to be in competion with my ex-husband, always wanted to beat him up for hurting me in past. He doesn't like any male friends around me.

btw, most people have Cancers figured out .. and we all know that you (females) keep strings of men (even if they are fictional) up the your mans face, for reasons of reminding him that you are to be fought for.

1. there's no doubt, by virtue of you being a Cancer female, that you make sure that the never forgets that you were hurt by ex, and keep reminding him to the point that he will have a desire to beat ass FOR you.

and

2. by virtue of you being a Cancer female .. we all know that you keep reminding him of all your male friends, and how much they mean to you, so that he never forgets you are so special that men will vye for your attention.




What happened here with the Virgo in question? He opened his eyes and saw your game.

I need some charming armor, man.

Posted by carmellove

Virgo and I seem to be moving in a positive way and getting closer.

so close and positive in fact that he shuts you down .... well, what better love could you ever ask for?


I guess if actually tried to beat up your ex, that might thrill you ... afterall, the only way he could always be in competition with your ex (after 7 months of dating) is because you keep reminding him of it.


A woman who truly loves her man is going to make him feel secure in her by NOT bringing other men into the equation.

There's no way he would feel in competition with another man/men unless you present this to him ... for these reactions.



Attention whores need not apply at the Virgo door. They may be tricked for a time or two because they are so basic in believing people are pure that would never suspect being played .... but, that's only until the honeymoon is over, then their blinders come off.

god help you then ......

You? You have tons.


I'm the one who could use some charming armor.

P-Angel...I meant shinning Armor. Here is a little history. We were friends before we started dating. He knew how bad my husband treated me. I did not bring my husband up to him. I never wanted to talk about my husband. He brought him up and he compare himself to him. I dont think its fear in a relationship for people to bring up there ex. And on another note, he always was telling me in the beginning about his exes and the women that was chasing him. I told him to stop comparing that I wanted him and only interest in him. I didn;t want to hear about his exes either, I just wanted to concentrate on us.

You seem to have some encounters with cancers, but you can't compare them all, we are all not the same.

ugh why would you want him?

A mistake? *brows raised* That's what social sites are for. If she was just a friend that reaction would not have even occurred to someone rational. Big deal, just my friend. They're allowed to have other friends of course.
Sounds like he prefers isolating someone from any opposite sex contact ( why? He concerned you're going to go on some rampant shag-a-thon with your mates? ) I think NOT.
Simply put..the boy ain't right. He's exhibiting some serious cheater signs for one, pointing fingers round for his own behavior. Kicked in the nuts stuff over a hint of another testicle anywhere about..don't question ME, I will however..question YOU and continue to do so...
Not to mention, is this high school? He gonna pick up his backpack and head for the hills taking his man tant cloud with him and expect you to be weeping tears of heartbreak over his ass?
Drop him, you don't need that around you. You sure don't need to be teaching your daughter that an assbag is something to strive for in relationship.

^^^^^

What Venusianbull said.

maybe he thinks you are investigating him or to clingy

Exactly what VB says above. Exactly