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it's over when a virgo starts to ghost you right?
When a Virgo Starts Ghosting You
A Virgo ghosting you does not always mean it’s over. In real situations, many Virgos pull back by replying less, taking longer to text back, or going quiet when they feel unsure, stressed, or want space. If the silence stretches on and they stop making any effort to reconnect, that usually points to a real ending.
Maybe you were a bad kisser y'kno
Posted by narayana
If she seemed fine with you when you met, maybe she's waiting on you to text first.
I already reached out to her and nadda. :\
Posted by SassyKiwi
Maybe you were a bad kisser y'kno
yea yeay yea yea yeya yea yea yeayae ay eay eyeayea whatever 😛
I've noticed that virgos ghost when they're under an enormous amount of stress. Maybe she decided she has too much going on to have a relationship at the moment.
Posted by Shooting_the_Moon_that_I_call_Mars
I've noticed that virgos ghost when they're under an enormous amount of stress. Maybe she decided she has too much going on to have a relationship at the moment.
This is my opinion on it too. It just sucks cuz she was awesome!
I'm guessing you tried texting her since you've last seen her and she didn't respond? Regardless of the sign, this is when you should back off a bit. Virgos can be a bit socially awkward, but I've found that when they see you as a possible romantic interest, they'll get back to you. Virgos notoriously avoid situations that they don't want to deal with IN THAT moment. That could means she doesn't like you OR she's just busy with grad school. I know a few Virgos who'll give the silent treatment as a means to avoid something they don't want to do. Then they're back being chatty as if you never asked them anything in the first place.
The best remedy is a nonchalant attitude that comes with being self confident. Still be straight forward with her in the midst of the silly little games she's playing. EVERY Virgo I know has wound up dating their long term partners because the other person was consistent. A Virgo NEEDS to know you'll be solid when they are shaky. Virgos can be worry-warts and get in their heads way too often. So if she's currently stressed, you'll want to be her non stressful outlet.
I also noticed this sign will throw out silly little games to see what you do, even when they think they aren't playing games. They call them tests generally. Don't let it bother you. Let her know your door is open and have her come to you. If you don't hear from her in the next week or two, poke her again to see if she wants to hang out. If she doesn't respond, leave her alone.
Thanks for the tips. It's been a while since I pursued a Virgo. I'll just back off and let her reach out if anything.
Posted by earlorg16
Thanks for the tips. It's been a while since I pursued a Virgo. I'll just back off and let her reach out if anything.
sorry - I hope she contacts you but then again if she does, I hope she doesn't disappear again ... that is a strange thing ...
Posted by earlorg16
Thanks for the tips. It's been a while since I pursued a Virgo. I'll just back off and let her reach out if anything.sorry - I hope she contacts you but then again if she does, I hope she doesn't disappear again ... that is a strange thing ...
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Seems to be a very common trait with them.
Posted by earlorg16
Thanks for the tips. It's been a while since I pursued a Virgo. I'll just back off and let her reach out if anything.sorry - I hope she contacts you but then again if she does, I hope she doesn't disappear again ... that is a strange thing ...
Seems to be a very common trait with them.
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How long has it been since the concert and you hearing back from her? Have you tried calling?
Posted by breterpan
usually when I ghost someone, I'm over itI'm really on top of getting back to people I'm into
That's probably also your Aries moon kicking in too.
@the_sunflower I'd agree, but he said he kissed her a few times and held back after that.
Posted by breterpan
usually when I ghost someone, I'm over itI'm really on top of getting back to people I'm into
That's probably also your Aries moon kicking in too.
@the_sunflower I'd agree, but he said he kissed her a few times and held back after that.
wow we have the same sun and moon
she probably has something going on in her life, as long as op makes contact..and sees if she responds, the best way to get virgo back is to make her regret it
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Hahah yep we do. Yeah that makes sense too.
Posted by earlorg16
This Virgo was super chatty with me via text for like 2 weeks straight but also told me she was in grad school. We met up for a gig and held hands throughout the show, and I kissed her a few times, but held back cuz her friend was there and didn't want to make it awkward. But I haven't heard from her since the show. I guess it's over?
She might have sensed your hesitancy and took it as if something was wrong with her. Reach out to her and see what happens. You'll have your answer then.
Posted by earlorg16
Thanks for the tips. It's been a while since I pursued a Virgo. I'll just back off and let her reach out if anything.sorry - I hope she contacts you but then again if she does, I hope she doesn't disappear again ... that is a strange thing ...
Seems to be a very common trait with them.
How long has it been since the concert and you hearing back from her? Have you tried calling?
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The show was last Thursday, and I haven't heard from her since. I texted her the next day and didn't hear back and left it alone. Texted her again yesterday and nothing. I've never called her so I feel like it'd be weird to do that now.
Posted by breterpan
usually when I ghost someone, I'm over itI'm really on top of getting back to people I'm into
She's an Aries moon too! Libra Venus, Cancer Mars, Cap Rising. Yeah i'm pretty sure it's over with.
it's over when a virgo starts to ghost you right?
YES
Posted by virgo29
it's over when a virgo starts to ghost you right?YES
damn yo thats harsh
Hold up,
It's not that it's over , it barely even started.
It seems like you barely met her.
I would assume a few scenario
1- She liked you enough to go out and kissed you but doesn't like you enough at this point in time to put you ahead of whatever busy thing you're doing . (i don't kiss a guy at all if I'm not interesting , the rejection is cold and blunt no or i would say something like "I really hate PDA !" to hint that don't try AT ALL)
2- The date did not go as well as you thought and she lost interest. Cant speak to other virgo but if the date didnt go well, but the time it ended , you would know that it didn't go well.
3- Why don't you text her. If she has any interest at all if she's busy, shell eventually get back to you and explain why she hasn't got back to you
The best way to answer the question is
text her once . give it about 2 days. if you're not over her by the second day call her. this second contact is to check did she lose her phone? got in an accident? died?
a functional phone and no response ? delete her number and move on . It's early in the relationship so moving on shouldn't be hard
Posted by earlorg16
Thanks for the tips. It's been a while since I pursued a Virgo. I'll just back off and let her reach out if anything.sorry - I hope she contacts you but then again if she does, I hope she doesn't disappear again ... that is a strange thing ...
Seems to be a very common trait with them.
How long has it been since the concert and you hearing back from her? Have you tried calling?
The show was last Thursday, and I haven't heard from her since. I texted her the next day and didn't hear back and left it alone. Texted her again yesterday and nothing. I've never called her so I feel like it'd be weird to do that now.
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Be done with her, you done deserve to be ignored. But if you want closure , borrow a friend phone and call her to see if she is alive and well. If she picks up then you have your answer . A Virgo will get back to people they're interested in . Point blank . It might take about 2 days but they do . If see can't find time in that 48hr to get back to you she probably don't care
Posted by earlorg16
Thanks for the tips. It's been a while since I pursued a Virgo. I'll just back off and let her reach out if anything.sorry - I hope she contacts you but then again if she does, I hope she doesn't disappear again ... that is a strange thing ...
Seems to be a very common trait with them.
How long has it been since the concert and you hearing back from her? Have you tried calling?
The show was last Thursday, and I haven't heard from her since. I texted her the next day and didn't hear back and left it alone. Texted her again yesterday and nothing. I've never called her so I feel like it'd be weird to do that now.
Be done with her, you done deserve to be ignored. But if you want closure , borrow a friend phone and call her to see if she is alive and well. If she picks up then you have your answer . A Virgo will get back to people they're interested in . Point blank . It might take about 2 days but they do . If see can't find time in that 48hr to get back to you she probably don't care
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Pretty much any signs can pull that ignore pull too. It sucks though, people cant be straightforward instead of being ignorinh. Smh
It's over when ANYONE starts to ghost you. Don't let someone disregard you in that way.
Posted by earlorg16
Thanks for the tips. It's been a while since I pursued a Virgo. I'll just back off and let her reach out if anything.sorry - I hope she contacts you but then again if she does, I hope she doesn't disappear again ... that is a strange thing ...
Seems to be a very common trait with them.
How long has it been since the concert and you hearing back from her? Have you tried calling?
The show was last Thursday, and I haven't heard from her since. I texted her the next day and didn't hear back and left it alone. Texted her again yesterday and nothing. I've never called her so I feel like it'd be weird to do that now.
Sorry, but yeah it sounds like she ghosted. Sometimes I think I've answered a text but I haven't. After multiple times of you reaching out if she isn't responding, she's not going to. It's not nice, but maybe she doesn't want to hurt your feelings?
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I rather a person just not ghost at all if they're not trying to hurt my feelings and have some courtesy to tell me straight up they're not interested. Either way it's gonna suck but at least have some dignity in telling a person instead of just ignoring them. Regardless I've moved on from it.
Posted by earlorg16
This Virgo was super chatty with me via text for like 2 weeks straight but also told me she was in grad school. We met up for a gig and held hands throughout the show, and I kissed her a few times, but held back cuz her friend was there and didn't want to make it awkward. But I haven't heard from her since the show. I guess it's over?Did you contact her after the show?
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Yeah, and still nothing. It's cool, her loss.
we are in venus retrograde still, till after apr 15, hopefully things turn up after...good luck!
Posted by heliumfiasco
It's over when ANYONE starts to ghost you. Don't let someone disregard you in that way.
True. 😢
Posted by earlorg16
Thanks for the tips. It's been a while since I pursued a Virgo. I'll just back off and let her reach out if anything.sorry - I hope she contacts you but then again if she does, I hope she doesn't disappear again ... that is a strange thing ...
Seems to be a very common trait with them.
How long has it been since the concert and you hearing back from her? Have you tried calling?
The show was last Thursday, and I haven't heard from her since. I texted her the next day and didn't hear back and left it alone. Texted her again yesterday and nothing. I've never called her so I feel like it'd be weird to do that now.
Sorry, but yeah it sounds like she ghosted. Sometimes I think I've answered a text but I haven't. After multiple times of you reaching out if she isn't responding, she's not going to. It's not nice, but maybe she doesn't want to hurt your feelings?
I rather a person just not ghost at all if they're not trying to hurt my feelings and have some courtesy to tell me straight up they're not interested. Either way it's gonna suck but at least have some dignity in telling a person instead of just ignoring them. Regardless I've moved on from it.
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Agreed
Posted by Shooting_the_Moon_that_I_call_Mars
I've noticed that virgos ghost when they're under an enormous amount of stress. Maybe she decided she has too much going on to have a relationship at the moment.
Yes very true grad school is tough and lots of Virgos love learning and push themselves to work hard despite how it kills them but once we have our goals set we become stubborn and if she's the type to want that 4.0 gpa she will forget the world...it doesn't mean she doesn't like you but she probably feels she needs to focus on grad school. Maybe give her text that you admire her ambitions and will support her in whatever way...see if she replies
ANYONE who ghosts a person, instead of telling them what they did, or why they need space is a piece of shit. Be they Virgo or any other sign.
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This Virgo was super chatty with me via text for like 2 weeks straight but also told me she was in grad school. We met up for a gig and held hands throughout the show, and I kissed her a few times, but held back cuz her friend was there and didn't want to make it awkward. But I haven't heard from her since the show. I guess it's over?