Why is my virgo afraid?

My little Virgo man! This Virgo is inlove with me.. & i dooo Love him.
But why is my virgo boyfriend afraid of me.
He doesnt lie he just trys to tell me what he did or what he's going to do in a way that i wont mind'
he trys to make everything happy and ok.

he wont just say it straight>>—?? it drives me mad. all my friends say when we are out and he says something or does something i dont like, he freaks out as soon as i turn to him with a look of disapproval—


WHy is he like this. why cant he man up! i always tell him to man

He cares about you a lot and doesn't want to loose you.

Why don't you just ask him yourself?
Ask him why he walks on eggshells with you.

Maybe he is scared of going into critical mode, where he lists all your faults, and indefinately hurts you. Trust me I have felt the same way,being a Leo sometimes I get bored and confused because I'm not sure I want to be with him anymore. Partly because I don't feel it's exciting enough. However, after nagging him into telling me how he feels/what bothers him its kind of like I'm glad he did but I wish he didn't. Doesn't make much sense but, I'm glad he did because I learned something new, I wish he didn't because then he has 5 other unrelated things that he hates but hasn't been saying. Hypothetical i.e. "Ok I was a little annoyed when you just left me with your friends. And I don't like your cooking. And black beans are gross. And you made me watch that crappy movie. And sometimes you snore." then it always end with an "and I don't know" like there is more , much more but he notices that you have already started tearing and stops himself from talking. Virgos are pessimists. They don't tell you anything nicely , but it's not their fault. So if they care about you but don't know you that well they are going to keep their mouth shut until they know you enough to know they can say whatever and you won't leave them. Mine has started to "open up" as he calls it and sometimes I really hate it to the point of wanting to leave him. They always say the right thing to have you coming back and they don't mean saying anything bad either.

Posted by shiinelikethemoon


My little Virgo man! This Virgo is inlove with me.. & i dooo Love him.
But why is my virgo boyfriend afraid of me.
He doesnt lie he just trys to tell me what he did or what he's going to do in a way that i wont mind'
he trys to make everything happy and ok.

he wont just say it straight>>—?? it drives me mad. all my friends say when we are out and he says something or does something i dont like, he freaks out as soon as i turn to him with a look of disapproval—


WHy is he like this. why cant he man up! i always tell him to man

See, I understand what you are going through but the difference is, the virgo I know says things very straightforward -- I blame it on his saggie moon. The issue is that he'll say these things then get all freaking sleepish on me, then I'm like, dude—?

lol, I texted him once stating that I thought he was a afraid of me, he hasn't said anything about that text yet 😉 So I know its the truth, he's afraid of me. What can a girl of my size and structure do to a man a big as him?

lol ....

Posted by sweat.lioness
The paradox of Truth.

This is how it is. People often misinterpret and take the Virgos criticism the wrong way.
We criticise because we care

So we wait until the time when you are comfortable and understanding enough of us.

cappysweetie, it has less to do with your size and all to do with your attitude. Capricorn give this strong forward impression that non sense will not be tolerated.

You either walk a straight line or walk out.

I only know how to deal with them because of my mommy 🙂

Posted by Cajunspirit

Posted by sweat.lioness
The paradox of Truth.

This is how it is. People often misinterpret and take the Virgos criticism the wrong way.
We criticise because we care

So we wait until the time when you are comfortable and understanding enough of us.

cappysweetie, it has less to do with your size and all to do with your attitude. Capricorn give this strong forward impression that non sense will not be tolerated.

You either walk a straight line or walk out.

I only know how to deal with them because of my mommy 🙂

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hahahaha, OMG we are soooo not that rigid Cajun dear, well ... maybe if we feel we need to be, but not always 😛 -- your mum is probably like that with you because she may feel she has to be 🙂 -- keep you on the straight and narrow or else you'll fall off and then what? hahaaha

I will admit, that I can get intense and when I'm serious and I'm serious. I don't like to fiddle around when I'm investing time in something, I guess I don't like my time wasted hehehehe ^_^.

But I'm like a mouse underneath this guy, you know? For him to even act shy kinda cute. However, when I ignore him, he goes ape-shit LOL!!! UGH, complicated ...

Hmmm, now I think about it, I guess I can't be that way, you know: walk straight or walk out

HAHAHAHAHA!!! nice