Me and my Virgo boyfriend have been talking since April. He would always try and get my attention and compliment me on the way I was, he would tell me that he like my personality. I'm a Sagittarius and we would get along but we would sometimes stop talking because he would be really nice to me one day and the next just ignore me. He asked me to be his girlfriend and we have been together for a month now, but ever since the beginning he would tell me that he loves me and that even though we don't get along that it's fine cause that's just us and that no matter what and even though we fight a lot that we would always be together. Just last week he was telling me that he wants to be with me forever and that if I wanted to have his kid. We decided to wait a while more and see what happens between us. It was his birthday this past Wednesday and we had plans to go out but he called me telling me that his family had made plans for him at home. I didn't get mad and said it was fine since he said that we would just hang out on Thursday instead. On Wednesday night he called me drunk saying that he was sorry for everything he had ever done to me in the past and that he really loves me and that he wants to be with me forever and that we are never gonna break up. Yesterday being the day we were supposed to hang out he called me early in the morning but I didn't answer because I was still sleeping. I returned his call but he never called me back , I called him a couple more times and he never answered. Today at work he was trying to get my attention and I was acting mad at him, we spoke on my break and I asked him about yesterday and he said he didn't want to talk about it, I asked what we were and he asked me if I still wanted to be with him and I said yess. After saying that he doesn't like that way I am he said that I'm too sensitive, and that we don't get along. I asked him if he loves me and he said no and I was like from yesterday to today you lost feelings he said yes. After we talked some more he said that he does love me and that we are together and that we aren't gonna break up. I don't know what to believe and now I don't know if I should believe if he loves me or not. Why is he playing with my head like this ? If he doesn't want to be with me then why doesn't he just say it. Or does he actually love me ?
Why is my Virgo boyfriend confusing me ?

In reality alcohol is a nice cheap truth serum mix that in with mercury retro and we have a nice combination of direct emotionally driven confession.
Regardless he is on the fence swaying one way or the other. And since he can't make up his mind.
Then there isn't anything for you but time wasted.
Regardless he is on the fence swaying one way or the other. And since he can't make up his mind.
Then there isn't anything for you but time wasted.

Besides sags are normal confused you can't pin that on him!!!!
He sounds messed up 😢 How old are you two?
if it were me, I'd feel like he was jerking me around. Maybe it's time to do your Saggy thing and have some fun without him!
if it were me, I'd feel like he was jerking me around. Maybe it's time to do your Saggy thing and have some fun without him!
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